8 Oral Sex Techniques To Try on Him
Oral sex is a truly intimate moment for any couple, and knowing some special tricks of the tongue, mouth and hands will help you to blow your partner AND their mind! Take a look and discover these 8 oral sex techniques for you to try on him!
1. SLOWLY STROKE BEFORE STARTING
From whatever position you are in, just take a moment to rub your hands all over his shaft. Grab his balls and give ‘em a little tug. Gently stroke the penis – not enough to be jacking him off – but enough that your parnter knows you are there. Just take a minute or two to become acquainted with your partner's penis– this is especially important for new lovers!
2. GENTLY TONGUE THE HOLE
Sometimes a little gesture can make all the difference. Did you ever think of putting your tongue in the hole of his penis? Yes, THAT hole! This is a very sensitive spot for your guy, if you run your tongue around the tip of his penis, and stick the tip of your tongue there, gently, he will have sensations he has never felt before!
3. TWIST THE SHAFT WHILE SUCKING
Don't underestimate the importance of your hands! Instead of just stroking him back and forth, try a new move – twisting! First, make sure that the entire shaft is slick with your saliva (middle of the BJ is a good time), and place your dominant hand around the shaft in a full fist. Then, continue to suck, lick and tease the shaft but at the same time, twist your hand around and around, working up and down, twisting all the way.
4. GET YOUR SPIT ALL OVER THE PENIS
Have you seen in porn when the giver is just covered in spit? This can be very visually appealing for someone. If your partner is lying on their back while you are pleasuring them – gather up some spit and drool it all over the penis! This not only feels – the slow trickle of spit falling over the shaft and balls – but, it also makes them feel like you are salivating for him! Also, it makes for great lubrication for the Twist and Shout maneuver in #3!
5. FAKE DEEPTHROATING
Sometimes the gag reflex is just too high and you can’t takea full penis down your throat, despite your best intentions. So, you can “fake the feeling” of deepthroating by using this little trick. As you are sucking on him, place your tongue on the roof of your mouth, then bob the penis in and out of your mouth as far back as your tongue will allow. This gives roughly the sensation of deepthroating and you won’t gag!
6. KEEP SUCKING IF YOU'VE SWALLOWEDOnly do this tip if you are OKAY with swalling. Once your partner has finished into your mouth and you have swallowed every drop KEEP ON SUCKING – GENTLY. Yes. This period of time after orgasm is an extremely sensitive time. Enjoy this time. Enjoy your partner's shivers as you continue to lightly suck on their penis.
7. THE FRENULUM IS YOUR FRIEND
Do you know what the “frenulum” is? On the underside of your partner's shaft, by the head, there is a little patch of skin called the frenulum. This is a highly neglected, but sensitive part of the penis. If you are sucking and licking the shaft, take a moment to massage this bit of skin. The rewards will be amazing! Be gentle, not too hard and make sure NOT to press – just massage and go about your regularly scheduled BJ action at the same time!
8. MAKE EYE CONTACT
When you look up at your partner from your spot on your knees or between their legs with their penis in your mouth: they'll go NUTS! There is something sultry and seductive about someone peering up at them while giving head. Or, if you are taking a stroke break, look up at them then, too. It will be a turn on for both of you – because when you see the look of desire in their eyes, you will know that everything you just did to pleasure them is going to come back to you – TENFOLD!