How to Use a Bullet Vibrator: 19 Expert Tips & Techniques
Everybody—and I mean everybody—should own a bullet vibrator. Why? Because bullets are one of the OG “go-to” sex toys: small, discreet, versatile, and surprisingly powerful. Whether you’re brand new to sex toys or building a collection, this is the toy that always comes in handy.
If you’re not familiar, a bullet vibrator is a small, cylindrical toy (yep, shaped like a bullet). They come in lots of variations—smooth or textured, single-speed or multi-speed—but the idea is the same: portable, affordable, and designed to deliver intense, focused vibrations.
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Ready to learn how to get the most out of this tiny powerhouse? Let’s dive into 19 ways to use a bullet vibrator that’ll take your play from ooh to OMG.
1. Bring in the Buzz During Sex
Hold the bullet against your clit while your partner thrusts, or wedge it between your bodies so you both feel the vibrations. Let your partner control the speed if you want to hand over the reins—trust us, that mix of power and surrender is hot.
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3. Go Solo
Bullets are the ultimate solo toy because they deliver powerful, pinpoint clitoral stimulation exactly where you want it. Most women need direct clitoral contact to reach orgasm, and bullet vibes are designed perfectly for that.
Keep one by your bed for those quick “need-it-now” sessions, or take your time and build up to a slow, toe-curling climax. Whether you’re sneaking in a quick release before bed or setting the scene for a long, indulgent night in, a bullet will always rise to the occasion.
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4. Take It on the Go
Because they’re discreet and travel-friendly, bullets are perfect for spontaneous fun. Toss one in your purse, your carry-on, or your glove box (we won’t tell). Just make sure it’s charged—nothing kills the vibe faster than a dead battery!
5. For Every Body
Bullets aren’t just for women—they’re a universal pleasure tool. Use it on nipples, balls, the perineum, or anywhere that enjoys a little buzz. No gender gatekeeping here—just good vibrations for everyone.
6. Add It to Oral
Going down on your partner? Add a bullet for next-level pleasure. Hold it against her clit or slide it inside for gentle internal stimulation while your mouth works the outside. The combo of tongue + vibration = guaranteed leg-shaking results.
7. During Blowjobs
Turn your next blowjob into a buzzjob. Try gliding the bullet up and down the base of his shaft while your mouth takes care of the rest—or, if you’re feeling bold, tuck the bullet in your cheek while you go down on him for next-level vibration.
The combo of suction, vibration, and warmth? Absolutely mind-blowing.
(Just, uh… make sure you don’t accidentally swallow it. Nothing kills the mood faster than explaining that at urgent care.)
8. Behind the Knees
The backs of the knees don’t usually get much attention, but they’re surprisingly sensitive. After kissing and caressing the thighs, press the bullet vibrator just behind the knee and let it buzz. Most people jolt or giggle at first—then melt into it.
It’s one of those overlooked spots that adds a playful twist and keeps things feeling fresh and unpredictable.
9. Back of the Neck
The nape of the neck is naturally sensual—think of how a kiss there can send chills down your spine. Now imagine adding a bullet’s subtle buzz. Tease your partner by alternating soft kisses with vibration for goosebumps in all the right ways.
According to research from the Kinsey Institute, nearly half of women who use vibrators say they own a bullet vibrator—making it one of the most popular sex toys ever created. Its popularity comes from being discreet, affordable, and versatile enough to work for just about anyone.
10. Surprising Sensations
For an extra playful session, blindfold your partner and tease them with the bullet all over their body. Without their sight, every touch and vibration feels more intense. Move unpredictably—neck, inner thighs, stomach—to keep them guessing and begging for more!
11. Internal Stimulation
While bullets are mainly for external use, many are safe for shallow insertion. Rest one just inside your vagina so it vibrates against your G-spot—or use it while your partner’s fingers or a dildo work alongside it.
12. The Curve of the Butt
The backside deserves some love too! Run the bullet between the cheeks or trace it along the tailbone for a deep, tingling kind of pleasure. Pair it with soft kisses down the spine, and the combo can feel ridiculously good. Even without penetration, this kind of teasing touch can spark some serious arousal.
13. Tease the Breasts
Don’t just go straight for the nipples—build anticipation first. Circle the bullet around the entire breast, getting closer each time, until they’re practically begging for direct contact!
14. Inner Thighs
The inner thighs are major tease territory. Glide the bullet up and down slowly, getting close to their most sensitive spots—but not quite there. Pull back just when they think it’s coming, and watch the tension build. That kind of drawn-out anticipation makes the eventual touch feel even hotter.
15. Tickle The Tummy
The stomach is one of those underrated spots that can feel surprisingly sensual. Move the bullet in slow circles around the belly button while pressing soft kisses across the skin. The blend of vibration and warmth builds a gentle, teasing tension that easily melts into deeper, more intimate touch.
16. Anal Rim Stimulation
You don’t have to go all-in with anal play to enjoy the sensations back there. A little vibration around the rim can feel incredible. Add a touch of cooling lube, turn on the bullet, and trace slow circles around the opening. Pair it with clitoral or penile stimulation for a combo that’s intense, new, and seriously satisfying.
17. Stimulate the Penis Shaft
Turn an ordinary handjob into something unforgettable. Glide the bullet along the underside of his shaft while your hand does the stroking, or hold it at the base for that extra buzz with every movement. The steady vibration amplifies sensation and makes even slow, teasing strokes feel intense and electric.
18. Buzz the Balls
The balls are packed with nerve endings, which means even light vibration can feel crazy intense. Start on the lowest setting and hold the bullet gently against them—no pressure needed. Once he’s melting into it, turn it up a notch and enjoy the reaction.
19. Nipple Play
Nipples are loaded with nerve endings—some people can even orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. Use the bullet to circle, pulse, or buzz lightly against them, then mix in kisses or gentle sucking for extra tease. The combination of vibration and touch builds intensity fast and delivers sensations fingers just can’t match.
Want to See It in Action?
Now that you’ve got the basics, watch our resident sex expert Angela break down even more ways to use a bullet vibrator. She covers tips, techniques, and her favorite lubes for better glide and stronger orgasms. Plus, you'll get a chance to see her favorite bullet vibrators, check it out below:
The bullet is my favorite toy. It is great for solo play, and I love the orgasm it brings. I never heard of behind the knees, I’m not sure how that would go with solo play. I’ve tried all of your bullets. The original silver one is the best. The longer ones are good for insertion, and if you don’t like the big vibrators they do the trick . I really enjoy my vibrator and I’m on my third one. Big things come in little packages!
I love the demonstration! Haha, really! That’s cool! It really showed me how to use it and Angela is so good! Thank you!
What happened to the Intense Rechargeable Power Mini Vibrator Light Purple that you reviewed before? Pepper absolutely loved these!!!!!!!
What happened to the Intense Rechargeable Mini Vibrator Light Purple that you reviewed before?
What happened to the lavender colored bullets that you reviewed before?
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