How To Give A Better Blowjob

If you read that and thought, “Ugh, blowjobs AGAIN,” then you do not have the right attitude ladies! Blowjobs are such an amazingly intimate experience for both you and him. It is a time to sink into his manly essence, showcase your erotic talents, make him moan and writhe underneath the talents of your tongue! Yes indeed, giving your man a blowjob is a wonderful way to keep your relationship fun, flirty and full of pleasure. So, now that I have hopefully re-convinced you of the importance of a blowjob, let me give you some tips about how to give a BETTER Blowjob.

ERECTILE ENTHUSIASM
I do not mean cheering when he gets an erection, I mean be enthusiastic to GIVE him an erection as well as utilizing it to the best of your oral abilities. When a man knows that you are excited to have his penis in your mouth and that you get pleasure from pleasing HIM, then he gets extra aroused as well. Men do not want to think that you are just “doing it” because you think you “have to.” They like the idea that their manhood is arousing to you, that you want to caress it and kiss it, and that you are not squeamish about doing it. That is the biggest turn on for them. So, be enthusiastic.

DON’T BE LADYLIKE
Let’s get to the point – you gotta get a little dirty down there girl! You can’t be shyly hiding your face, lapping at his penis like it is a popsicle that you aren’t sure you like the flavor of. You must get IN THERE with your mouth, tongue and hands. It should be messy and full of spit and saliva drooling all over. The bed should be wet, your face should be shiny with the spit, you should befrothing at the mouth – literally – with every gagging stroke inside your mouth. Yep this is what it means to give a “better” blowjob. You must give it your all! There is nothing ladylike about giving fantastic head!



SWALLOW HIS PRIDE
Everyone knows that a man’s penis is his pride and joy so when you get the gift of being able to put him in your mouth you better do him proud! This means, taking as much of him as you possibly can and letting him caress the back of your throat. Yes, I am talking about deepthroating – or shallow throating – whatever you can get your mouth around. There is something seriously erotic about having him deep down your throat. The more of his penis you can envelope with your throat, ultimately the more pleasure he will get from it. So, swallow his pride and take pride while you do it.

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GET HANDSY
Yes, you primarily use your mouth and tongue for a blowjob, but honey, I gotta tell you – you HAVE to use your hands too! Ask any man and he will tell you that there is nothing like that moment when she has gotten his penis slick with spit, she has sucked and licked and gotten him so aroused, then she begins to use her hands too – stroking up and down, around and around while she continues to lick, suck and tongue him. Alternating, deep and luscious mouth strokes where his penis goes effortlessly down her throat combined with the twists and turns of her hand around him – oh yes, now THAT is the way to give a full-contact blowjob!

GO. ALL. THE. WAY.
You should go ALL. THE. WAY. – to his orgasm, I mean. Yes, this was a cheesy sports reference, but it makes my point. While I am sure that your guy would be happy if you just gave him a BJ, he would be even happier if you allowed him to finish in your mouth. Yes, there is a whole debate over to swallow or not to swallow, but the fact is if you are giving your man a blowjob it will go from good to HOLY MOLY if you finish him in your mouth! It will feel ten times better to him if you continue until he cums – AND – even better if you keep sucking after. He will be very sensitive, so tread lightly, but he will be more than putty in your hands at that point so go for the gold!

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