How to Squirt With a Vibrator, Dildo or With Your Partner

For a lot of people, squirting is like the holy grail of orgasms — that intense, toe-curling release that feels almost mythical until it happens.

But first off, let’s set the record straight: squirting isn’t pee. It’s fluid that comes from the Skene’s glands (right near the urethra) when the G-spot gets seriously stimulated. Basically, it’s your body’s way of saying, “Yep, that feels really good.”

Not everyone will squirt — and that’s totally okay. Every body works a little differently. But exploring it can open the door to deeper pleasure, stronger orgasms, and sensations that feel brand-new. Whether you’re experimenting solo or with a partner, this guide will walk you through the how-to’s, the must-knows, and a few pro tips to help you on your way.

If you’ve already watched our resident sex expert break down how to achieve a squirting orgasm in the video above, you’ve got a head start! Now it’s time to go deeper and get all the insider tips, techniques, and toy recommendations to help make it happen.

And if you caught the video, you already know: a glass dildo is one of the best tools for G-spot stimulation. The firm, curved shape makes it easy to apply that perfect pressure right where you need it.

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Before You Begin: A Few Things to Know

Now that you’ve seen how it’s done and picked out your toy, let’s talk about what’s really going on when it comes to squirting.

Like most things in sex, everyone’s body reacts a little differently — there’s no single “formula.” But understanding what’s happening beneath the surface can help you relax, experiment, and enjoy the process way more.

Here’s what to keep in mind before you dive in:

• Yes, the G-spot exists. It’s a small, spongy area a few inches inside the vagina on the front wall, and it can swell and become super sensitive when you’re turned on.

• That swelling is key. As you get aroused, the tissue fills with fluid from nearby glands — which is why proper buildup makes squirting more likely.

• Squirting isn’t guaranteed. Some people release a lot, some just a few drops, and others don’t squirt at all. Every version is normal.

• It might feel weird at first. That “I have to pee” feeling? Totally normal. It’s just pressure from the G-spot being stimulated.

• Relax, don’t rush. If you’re trying too hard to make it happen, your body will tense up. Instead, think of it as an exploration — not a test.

Above all, remember: every body is different. Even if you don’t squirt, you can still have incredible G-spot orgasms and enjoy experimenting along the way.

The #1 Rule: Get Aroused First 

Your G-spot is like a sponge — it fills up when you’re aroused. So if you go straight for it cold, you might not feel much.

Start slow. Build the heat. Play with your clit, enjoy plenty of foreplay, or use a toy that gets your whole body buzzing first. If you can, have a few orgasms or spend some time in that deliciously turned-on state before focusing on your G-spot. The more worked up you are, the more sensitive and ready your body becomes.

Once you’re fully in the mood, try one (or a few) of these tried-and-true techniques.

5 Tips For Squirting With a Vibrator or a Partner

1. SQUAT AFTER STIMULATION

When you’re ready, try squatting — it adds pressure to your pelvic floor and helps you hit the G-spot just right.

Get fully aroused first (think: a clitoral orgasm or two). Then insert fingers or a toy and rub firmly on the front wall of the vagina — about one to three inches in.

If you feel that warm, “uh-oh, I might pee” sensation… don’t stop. That’s your body gearing up for release.

2. USE A FIRM OR CURVED TOY

Not all toys are built for the G-spot. You want something firm with a nice curve that can really press into it.

Vibrations can help amplify things, but some people prefer a firm, rhythmic motion instead. Experiment — see what your body likes.

Pro tip: Glass toys are a cult favorite for a reason. They’re smooth, firm, and perfect for applying that steady pressure that makes your toes curl.

3. TEACH YOUR PARTNER THE "COME HITHER" MOTION

If you’re playing with a partner, communication is your best weapon (and your best turn-on).

Once you’re warmed up, guide them: two fingers in, palm up, and curl them in a “come here” motion against the front wall. Add some clitoral stimulation with their free hand, tongue, or a bullet vibe to kick things up a notch.

For bonus points, have them apply gentle pressure on your lower belly while rubbing inside — that combo of inside-and-outside pressure can push you right over the edge.

4. DOGGY STYLE HITS DIFFERENT

Doggy style naturally angles penetration right toward the G-spot, so if you like it from behind — good news, you’re already halfway there.

Have your partner keep their thrusts steady and angled down. If you need extra intensity, use a vibrator on your clit at the same time.

5. LEGS BACK, HIPS UP

This one’s a favorite for a reason — it gives direct access to the G-spot and your clit.

Lie on your back with a pillow or wedge under your hips. Pull your knees up toward your chest and use fingers or a curved toy to press upward on the G-spot. At the same time, stimulate your clit with a vibrator or your partner’s touch.

The angle helps “open” the G-spot area, making it easier to find and stimulate.

Final Thoughts

Here’s the thing: squirting isn’t a skill you master — it’s something you discover. Some people get there the first time, others after a few tries, and plenty of people never squirt at all (and still have incredible sex).

If you’ve been trying and it hasn’t happened, don’t stress — that doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. Some bodies just don’t release fluid that way, and that’s completely normal.

The real goal isn’t the fluid — it’s the feeling. You’re exploring what your body loves, deepening arousal, and maybe unlocking new layers of pleasure along the way.

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