There’s been a bit of buzz around the internet about a powerful kind of sexual pleasure called the Blended Orgasm. I’m so excited to tell you all about it! By combining multiple sexual pleasure points into one, you can have one of the best orgasms on your own or with a partner!
You may be thinking, “There’s more than one way to orgasm?” Or maybe you’re just a beginner who hasn’t found many ways to stimulate yourself yet. This type of orgasm really gives the full body quivers and the deep moans all of us desire. So are you ready to hear all about the Blended Orgasm, yet?
What is a Blended Orgasm?
A Blended Orgasm is an advanced orgasm using both clitoral and g-spot stimulation simultaneously. The two erogenous zones (g-spot and clitoris) combine into a very powerful, single orgasm.
When someone with a vagina says they are having trouble reaching orgasm, we immediately recommend more clitoral stimulation. In fact, about 80% of vulva owners need clitoral stimulation in order to fully climax. Eighty percent! So, when we start discussing other means of providing orgasms, of course we have to start with clitoral stimulation and keep the clit in the mix with a Blended Orgasm!
Though the g-spot rests about 1-3 inches inside the upper wall of the vagina and is the second part of the Blended Orgasm, the clitoris still plays a major role in g-spot orgasms. Usually I recommend a little pre-g teasing of the clitoris in order to increase your personal arousal, and increase the size of the g-spot.
Yes, you read that correctly! The g-spot can grow from itty bitty (smaller than a little pea) to quite big and ready to please (just smaller than a quarter for some people). The g-spot, which feels like a rougher patch of skin on a velvety-smooth vagina, offers a very distinct sensation when it is massaged. It’s really an incredible gland, and anyone who has experienced a g-spot orgasm will tell you that firm pressure and rubbing on the g-spot incites some intense orgasms. Some people may even squirt!
How to Have a Blended Orgasm
Just like the definition suggests, you’re going to need to stimulate both your clitoris and your g-spot simultaneously. This may mean propping your back up with pillows so you can reach inside and curl your finger to hit your g-spot, while using your other hand to pleasure your clitoris. I recommend using toys and a silky water-based lubricant (safe for you and your toys) in order to assist.
Step 1 - ArouseBegin by arousing yourself however you’d like. You've got to get yourself in the mood to keep this serious self-sex going! Dream up your sexiest fantasy. Tease your nipples and rub your thighs. Pull up some free pornography on your device of choice and get hot and bothered.
Step 2 - Lubricate
The Blended Orgasm is not necessarily a “quickie.” It’s a more advanced technique of give and take between two of your orgasm-triggering areas, and it may take some time to master. To ensure that you are comfortable and find the least resistance during your orgasm exploration and stimulation, it’s key to remain lubricated.
Step 3 - Stimulate Your Clitoris
Tease your clitoris and arouse your g-spot. Remember what I said above about how important the clitoris is in the orgasm process? It’s the perfect place to begin to tease yourself, and prepare your g-spot (and body) for some serious pleasure. If you are blessed with the ability to orgasm several times in succession, go ahead and let yourself come, recover and start teasing again. For those who have yet to produce multiple orgasms, you want to practice a technique kind of like edging. You’ve got to bring yourself close to orgasm, and then back off just enough to keep yourself from orgasming, but still remaining aroused.
Step 4 - Stimulate Your G-Spot
Once you are sufficiently aroused with clitoral stimulation, your g-spot should be easier to find. When your body responds to sexual pleasure, the g-spot fills with a kind of ejaculate fluid, growing in size. This is why, when some people have intense massage on their g-spots, they can squirt this fluid - also known as female ejaculation. Find your g-spot (the rougher patch on the ceiling of the vagina) with a curled “come hither” finger. You will know it not only by the texture change, but the sensation change. Massaging this sensitive area will feel much different than massaging any other area within the vagina.
Step 5 - Blend & Repeat!
Then, you’ve got to find your sweet spots and balance (blend) clitoral and g-spot stimulation! This is when that edging comes into play. Bring yourself to the brink of a clitoral orgasm and then firmly and fiercely massage your g-spot. At first it may feel like you need to pee - it’s the g-spot’s close proximity to the bladder - but you won’t pee, and that feeling will subside to deep, deep pleasure.
When you’re close to erupting in a powerful g-spot orgasm, add in a little extra clitoral stimulation and BOOM! Your clit will be prepped and ready to orgasm, your g-spot will fill your whole body with throbbing pleasure and you will reach your Blended Orgasm with legs shaking, panting breath, and full-body satisfaction. The best part? You can keep going from clit to g-spot and back again until you can't stand it anymore - making your Blended O last longer and climax stronger!
4 Sex Toys to Help You Achieve a Blended Orgasm:
If you are finding the Blended Orgasm is too difficult to manage with just two hands, add in some sex toys! Tired hands and wrists can kill the mood, but incorporating strong vibrations on your clit and g-spot - as well as extra length for tired arms - will help you achieve your Blended O faster and more comfortably! Take a look at my favorite Blended Orgasm products below:
1. My First Silver Bullet
Beginners and advanced toy users love this bullet vibe! The My First Silver Bullet is a strong and simple multi-speed vibrator that can be used all over your body, sending shivers down your spine and through your thighs!
2. Silicone G-Spot Massager
The 20-Function Silicone G-Spot Massager is petite for g-spot massage and has a lighted tip that gently heats up! Bonus! It can be used for pinpointed vibes on both your g-spot and your clit, making it a great buy for Blended Orgasm seekers!
3. Rose G-Spot Vibrator
The bulb head of this sturdy slender massager is ideal for firm, vibrating g-spot massage! The Rose G-Spot Vibrator offers multi-speed vibrations with the twist of a dial, and will fill you up and stimulate your G like no other with its rounded tip and body-hugging curve.
4. Butterfly Kiss
This is our #1 selling beginner vibrator for a reason! The Butterfly Kiss has three powerful vibration speeds that radiate through the wings and clit-tickling antennae while the curved bulb massages your g-spot! This is a top-notch, dual action g-spot and clit vibe!