10 Ways For Her To Masturbate Using Only Her Fingers

Believe it or not, most women masturbate in the same way every time, with little or no variation. Once you’ve found a method that works for you, you use it all the time knowing you’ll get the desired outcome. However, there is more than one way to DJ, flick the bean – or more commonly know as play with your pussy. A lot of people assume an orgasm can only be achieved using a vibrator or other miscellaneous sex toy, but the truth is your hands can be magical when using the right techniques! So whether you are new to masturbation (WELCOME if so!) or have been playing for many years, here are 10 ways for her to use only her fingers to self-pleasure! 

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1. CHOOSE YOUR FIGHTER

One of the funniest conversations I’ve had with my boyfriend was when he explained to me the importance of knowing which hand is your  “dominant” when it comes to masturbation and that both hands don’t perform the same way. It’s true and if you do it enough, you start to gain muscle memory, so you can repeat the pattern to make yourself orgasm. Like men, a lot of women have a specific hand that they use to masturbate and it’s not always their dominant writing hand. Experiment with both hands and different fingers to see what feels the most natural and comfortable for your body! 

2. ABOVE THE BELT

Masturbation should not be only about the clitoris and vagina – pleasing yourself should be a full-body experience. Women have many sensitive and erogenous zones all over their bodies. So, why should we neglect them when we are self-pleasuring! We shouldn’t. So to begin, start above the waist. Use your fingers to explore your stomach, ribcage, under the breasts and, of course, your nipples. You can tweak and slightly twist your nipples, pull on them gently or just rub them under your fingertips. Reach upward and cup your breasts as if you’re being felt up by your lover! The anticipation this leads to will make reaching orgasm possibly quicker, and more intense! 

3. SOUTHERN LIPS

We all know that the most sensitive portion of a woman’s vagina is her clitoris, but what about her vaginal lips? The inner and outer lips carry their own nerve endings and exploring them can be extremely pleasurable. Run your fingers up and down your outer lips, perhaps squeezing them a bit between your fingertips. Pull the inner lips – gently – and then a little more vigorously. Just simply pulling on the lips activates the lubrication glands and increases arousal. Take advantage of this natural lubrication to your fingers for internal stimulation!  

4. OK, OK, NOW THE CLITORIS

Of course, if you are going to masturbate you are going to touch the clitoris at some point (or at least I sure hope you do!). So, instead of rubbing your clit in the same manner as you are used to, change it up a bit. If you usually rub in circles, try a slow up and down motion. Or, if you feel a little more daring, spread your vaginal lips and try tapping it lightly with your fingertips, then gradually pick up the speed as you get more aroused. Try different speeds and pressures variations. See what builds you up more and more. Maybe even use your opposite hand for a completely different sensation in unison! If you're looking for some INTENSE clit stimulation, use one of our arousal creams to give your clit the tingling or warm sensations needed for an amazing orgasm!  

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5. PENETRATION

Fingers do not have to be used externally only, you can also use them for some serious internal stimulation. You can reach down and use 1, 2, 3 or more fingers and insert them into your vagina. Just barely in, deep penetration or even a total in and out motion. You can do whatever feels good to you at a speed and depth that you find personally pleasing. Some women can achieve some pretty great G-Spot stimulation through internal stimulation via their fingers. If you want the sensation of dual penetration, insert your middle finger vaginally (apply lube if needed) and use your pointer finger on the same hand to lift up slightly and stimulate your clitoris. This can lead to intense blended orgasms without the use of a sex toy. Experiment and see what gets your blood boiling! 

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6. THUMB BUDDY

Now, your thumb, presumably for most is the flattest and biggest finger on your hand. When utilized correctly, it can act as a great external clit stimulator. Take your hand and point it at your clitoris in a “thumbs up” motion. Push the pad of your thumb against your clitoris, applying pressure gradually. The pinpoint stimulation of the flat end of your finger will give you the added needed “oomf” to get aroused. You can also use your thumb as a better base to hit your G-spot during internal stimulation. 

7. BEHIND THE BACK

This definitely not a lazy girl’s move (which is totally fine) but one that is exciting and different! You can lay, sit or stand in any stance that feels comfortable to do this. Simply reach under or around your waist from the back. When doing this, especially with internal stimulation, you get a better target for your G-spot! You can also flick and rub your clitoris, while still incorporating a tingling gel if you wish! Combine #5 with this and you'll be in blended orgasm bliss from the (literal) palm of your hand! 

8. ANAL EXPLORER

Are you the type that is curious about anal stimulation? Then going in with your finger first is the best way to start. Similar to #7, instead of reaching around to pleasure your vagina, try inserting one finger gently into your anus. With any kind of anal whether it be with a partner or solo, using a lubricant is a MUST. There’s a variety on the market, but we recommend using a silicone-based as opposed to water-based for this one. The silicone gives you a slick and smooth entry for a finger or toy. Comfort is essential since this is supposed to be pleasurable! Experiment with slowly inserting in and out with your finger till you get a rhythm that feels good. You can try pushing your finger more towards the front to put pressure on your G-spot!  

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9. PRESSURE COOKER

One of the weirdest (but, best) things I ever discovered through exploration with masturbation was that sometimes the pressure of laying on your stomach while masturbating kind of, but actually really helps. Lay on your bed or couch on your stomach and use your pleasuring hand to stimulate your clitoris, or internally. The pressure of your weight on your uterus and G-spot can make create a build-up of arousal that can make it easier to come to orgasm. A tip is to make sure your nails are short preferably before you do this, or any hand stimulation so you don’t scratch or prick yourself in the process! 

10. BRINGING IT ALL TOGETHER

Probably the most satisfying way to use your fingers during masturbation is to combine all the moves into one, fantastic session. Spend some time warming up and slowly seducing yourself with the not so deep moves. Then concentrate on the clitoris and some great internal stimulation. Vary the play each and every time; using your fingers to bring yourself to the brink of orgasm, and then back off and concentrate on another part of your body. See just how close you can bring yourself to orgasm before you need to stop. Then, when you finally want to make yourself go over the brink, do it with the combo of internal and external stimulation.

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