10 Must-Try Bondage Scenarios For Beginners

Bondage is a great way to add a little spice into your sex life. Oftentimes, though, people are not quite sure how to begin. If you have ever researched bondage or watched bondage films or adult films you know that it can get pretty extreme, and for some people seem very scary! I am here to tell you that there is bondage that any couple can enjoy and many different bondage scenarios that are great to try your hand at this sexy and erotic practice. So, if you are a newbie and want to give bondage a go, read on.

*Important Note* It is absolutely essential that before you engage in any bondage act, or any sexual act, really, that you have CONSENT and have discussed what is and is not acceptable for bondage / sexual play. There should also be a safe word that can be said if either of you want to stop the play at any time for any reason. Consent is sexy – make sure you get it.

1. YES, SIR/YES, MISTRESS
Bondage doesn’t have to have anything to do with restraint and can simply include the following of orders. Oftentimes, being told what to do in a sexual situation is VERY arousing. Having your partner direct all the play, such as, “Get on your knees and open your mouth,” or “Get on the bed on all fours and spread your legs for me.” Imagine the possibilities! You can direct your partner to assume different positions, or to engage in certain actions. This is a great way to get into bondage play without actual restraint.

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2. BASIC BLINDFOLDING
It is untrue that bondage means “tying up.” Bondage is any impairment of movement or senses. This includes sight. For some couples, the very first bondage-type activity is being blindfolded. This alone can bring any sexual play to a level. When you take away someone sense of sight it leaves them to guess what is going to happen next, and that anticipation is VERY arousing. Give it a try!
 
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3. SENSORY DEPRIVATION
Going along the same vein as the first ideal, the next step is to take away your partner’s sense of hearing. IF you cannot SEE what is going to happen, nor HEAR where your partner is, this will bring all the other senses to a much-heightened state. This is extremely erotic. So, combine the basic blindfold with some earphones playing any type of music, and then stimulate your partner while they are sensory impaired.

4. STAY!
If you want to find out if your partner would be receptive to being tied and played with you can tell him / her to STAY! Put them on the bed in a position that you like and then tell them not to move. Experiment with different sensations – feathers, ice, heat – or bring little vibrators or bullets to the play. All while they are made to stay put. If this appeals to you both, then move on to some light restraint play.

5. STAYING SPREAD
Personally, this is one of my most favorite basic bondage situations. When my legs are tied in such a way that they are spread wide open. The feeling of vulnerability is absolutely intoxicating! Having my genitals open and exposed for my partner, allowing him to touch me, lick me, stroke me, or use sex toys on my all while I am helpless to close my legs is an amazingly intimate experience.

6. SPANKING
I told you earlier that bondage is not all about tying, but also about certain activities during differing levels of restraint. Spanking is a very mild way to experiment with the more Dominant and submissive levels of bondage play. Many women (and yes, men) love to be spanked. Specifically, put over one’s knees and spanked. While this is not for everyone, it is definitely an experience many enjoy thoroughly.

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7. HELPING HANDS
Think about how often you use your hands during sex. You grab your partner’s hair, scratch their back, hold open your legs, grab their head, tough yourself. What happens when the ability to use your hands is taken away? Not only can you not touch your partner, but you cannot stop them from touching you where THEY want. Using some soft restraints or even just a simple necktie to keep your partner’s hands from roaming around is a very simple way to experiment with bondage.
 
8. TABLETOP
It is nice to take bondage play out of the bedroom, especially since there are many places in the home where a sexy submissive can be tied down. An obvious place has got to be the kitchen table. A person has 4 limbs and a table has 4 legs – you do the math. Not to mention being restrained in the kitchen offers up a whole host of activities such as play with ice or food. Plus, kitchen utensils can make for sexy fun too if you are creative enough.

9. FULL RESTRAINTS
If your partner decides that he or she likes having parts of their body restrained then it may be time to try a more thorough restraining system, such as an under the bed restraint system. These easy to use restraints have adjustable cuffs for both hand AND feet. You can restrain the entire body with just a click and pull of the cuffs and tether system. Imagine having your helpless partner tied down to the bed just waiting to be tantalized and teased.
 
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10. COMBINATION BONDAGE
Once you have started to experiment with sensory deprivation and light tying of hands and feet the next logical step is to combine them. Perhaps you want to blindfold your partner and tie their hands but leave their legs free. OR, you want them to be able to grab your head while you are between their legs, but their legs are spread, and you have blindfolded them and taken away their sense of hearing. Combining one, two or all of these scenarios will change up the experience for both of you.

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Comments

Will - September 20, 2019

The first time I tried it with my wife we both had a great deal of fun. Its definitely something that I try to share with my partners now days. I have yet to find someone as open minded as my late wife.

DAve - September 20, 2019

I love bondage
I am a switch and. Llovve both

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