So, maybe you've thought about anal stimulation and learning how to find your P-spot but you've got no idea where to start. Well, right here is where you start. I'm going to take you through a few ways to start with some anal stimulation and then I'm going to go into a little more detail for you about how to start simulating that prostate specifically. If this sounds like something that will be helpful to you, read on.
Test Out The Waters
For many, that first lick of their anal opening sends them instantly into an orgasmic bliss. If you've tried this already and that's why you're ready to learn more you can move on to the next step, but if you haven't tried anal rimming, it really is an amazing way to test the waters to see if you might be more into exploring more anal play than you thought.
Always Use Lube
Typically when it comes to anything anal, we suggest to use a silicone based lube. However, if you're using a silicone toy then you cannot use a silicone-based lube because it will actually break down the material and eventually ruin your toy. So, if that's the case then go for a nice water based lubricant like the TooTimid Water Based Lubricant you see below:
Next, Try Some Finger Play
Have a conversation and you can curiously ask your partner if they would be open to having a little finger play with you during a blowjob or hand job. (Remember to make them cut those fingernails first if they're long, just a random word of wisdom.) Anyway, so then you are receiving your blowjob and a lubed up finger slides into your rectum just a bit, hitting that prostate, eventually you'll experience an orgasm that probably feels like nothing you've quite yet felt before.
So, you have nerve endings in your rectum and you have the prostate. When the prostate is stimulated through anal play, it is very, very pleasurable. Relax and just enjoy. Pleasure is pleasure and you have now found something new that makes you feel good.
Now It's Time For Some Toys, Small Toys
Linked below you will see the anal training kit that we would recommend you start with. This kit has 3 anal training plugs of different sizes. So, you can work through the sizes in this set then you can explore and start buying bigger toys. This set below is great for beginners because they are made of hypoallergenic silicone, they're waterproof (sometimes beginning anal in the shower is a good idea), they've got a suction cup base bottom and they are easy to use.
How To Use A Prostate Massager
Once you're ready, you're going to want to get into a comfortable position to insert the toy or have your partner insert the toy. So, you can be laying on your back with your legs in the air or you can bend over (pretty much like you're in doggy style) making sure you have something around you to lean on.
Next, go ahead and apply that anal lubricant I talked about earlier. Slowly and steadily insert the toy and to start, just begin with a gentle rubbing motion. For a little bit you're just going to play around and find what feels good for you. You can play with an up and down type motion going over your P-spot over and over again. Or, something that commonly feels good is putting more pressure specifically when the toy is on your P-spot. So push the toy a bit harder, or if it has vibrations, turn the vibrations higher to see what that feels like for you.
Just take your time and experiment. Eventually you will find your groove. And I do want to note that sometimes certain toys aren't right for us. So, if you aren't loving a toy then try a different type. Everyone's bodies are different and we all feel pleasure from different things, so be patient with yourself as you explore this area of your body.
Our 3 Best Prostate Stimulating Toys
1. DEV'S 10 FUNCTION PROSTATE STIMULATOR
Alright, so the Dev's Prostate Stimulator is going to be a good toy to start with because it isn't too large. This toy has 10 different vibration functions that change pulsation and escalation functions which makes it really fun to play with. You can control those vibrations with the remote this toy comes from.
2. KIP'S SILICONE PROSTATE STIMULATOR
Next, we've got the Kip's Prostate Stimulator. This one doesn't vibrate but it's make up for that with the ticklers it has built in. These ticklers are set up there to smoothly rub your taint to provide total pleasure. This is another toy that is the perfect size and shape you give you an amazing P-spot orgasm.
3. TALA VIBRATING PROSTATE MASSAGER
I would say that the Tala Vibrating Prostate Massager one is for those of you who are more experienced with anal play. It is a little bit thicker and features a firm shaft. This toy has powerful vibrations and a wide base for worry-free play! The curves along the shaft will provide constant stimulation for you and your p-spot.