4 Ways to Treat Yourself on Valentine's Day This Year

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It seems as though society puts all this pressure on us each Valentine's Day to please our partner's and make sure that they feel loved - but what about how you make yourself feel loved? Don't get me wrong I'm all for pleasing my partner and making sure they know they are loved too. And I'm not saying to avoid your partner on V-Day, but what I am saying is that we need to take time for self love, too! So, while you plan what to do for your partner I challenge you to also plan something for yourself. Here are a few ideas:

1. Get Yourself Something Special

This is where your imagination is going to have to come in, but spend some money on yourself. What is the one thing you've been thinking about buying yourself for sooo long but you just haven't done it? Go buy that! Or if that seems intimidating and you're not used to spending money on yourself then you can start with something small. Buy yourself your favorite flowers or your favorite candy from the store. Just the simple act of buying something to treat yourself and showing yourself that love you deserve. 

2. Cook a Romantic Dinner

Yes, I meant what I said, cook a romantic dinner just for yourself. Or, if you're anything like me and you don't know how to cook - pick up the phone and order your favorite take out food. And don't skimp on anything either, get that damn dessert! Lean in and enjoy yourself. Make a night out of it.

3. Buy That Sex Toy You've Had Your Eyes On 

I'm not trying to make any assumptions here but I think we all have at least one sex toy or type of toy that we have been thinking about experimenting with. Maybe you've never used a sex toy and you want to play with your first vibrator. Maybe you want to experiment with a clit sucker for the first time. Or maybe you want to experiment with anal play for the first time. Whatever that thing is that came up in your mind as soon as you read this, go buy that and explore it on your own.

4. Set The Mood & Play With Yourself

Now, I know that spending a sexy night with your lover is amazing too but hear me out. Sometimes we need a night to pleasure ourselves, to lean into what feels good for us and come back to our own bodies. So, set the mood and have a sexy night by yourself. What things can you do to get yourself in the mood? Light some candles, turn on sexy music, put on your favorite lingerie, do whatever it is you do that you know gets you in the mood. Then take your time and have a quality masturbation session all by yourself.

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