15 Sexy Resolutions To Try This New Year
Another (crazy, overwhelming, stressful) year is quickly coming to a close and 2023 is right around the corner! We all seem to want to make resolutions in our lives – better diet, more exercise, better financial decisions – but do we ever consider the resolutions we should or could be making in our sexual lives? Maybe not, but we should! This is the absolute perfect time to do it, especially since we are all spending so much time at home these days. So, here are some possibilities to revamp your sex life in 2023!
1. Make Sex A Priority
If you have let your sexual life come to a standstill then perhaps 2023 is the year to make sex a priority in your life. This applies to singles as well as couples. Being sexual is a healthy and natural part of life and allowing yourself to be a sexual is good for you. Don’t neglect your sexual needs and desires.
2. Be True To Your Sexual Self
Do you feel like you are not being true to your real sexual self? Maybe you are in a heterosexual relationship but you really want to try same sex loving. (Which is very common by the way.) Make 2023 the year that you become the absolute truest form of yourself.
3. Don't Fake That Orgasm
4. Learn Some New Sexual Skills
Knowledge is power and this includes sexual knowledge! Also, sex is a skill where practice makes perfect and new skills can take your sex life from meh to WOW. Watch some porn, google online, ask your partner – practice, practice, practice. Hone those sexual skills in 2023!
5. Live Out Sexual Fantasies
We all have sexual fantasies and this could be the year when they become realities. Discussing sexual fantasies with our partners is a great way to get closer in our sexual relationships and finally acting out fantasies that we have had is important to being true to our sexual selves. This includes any of those roleplay fantasies you've been having too...
6. Fabulous Foreplay
No more wham-bam thank you ma’am in 2023. We all deserve to add in some more foreplay into our sex lives. While quickies can be fun and spontaneity is important, that can become very mundane if it's how it goes time after time. So, take some time to get your partner going beforehand, you want them begging for it. Don’t forget the kissing, touching, dry humping and oral sex!
7. Watch Porn Together
Why make this a resolution? The porn stigma is so unnecessary and there is much enjoyment to be had from watching porn. If you watch with your partner it can bring some needed spice and fun into your love life. It's also a wonderful way of learning more about what your partner's kinks are. If you watch solo it can boost your sexual drive and teach you techniques for your next partner.
8. Buy New Lingerie
There is a saying “dress for the job you want” and this goes for your sexual life too. When you dress sexy, you feel sexy in general. Both men and women can use a sexual revamp when it comes to what we wear, so why not give yourself a treat and invest in some sexy new lingerie.
9. It's Time Do Some Sexscaping
10. More Spontaneity
Is your sex life super scheduled? I mean so scheduled that even your friends know that every Friday there's about 20 minutes of missionary followed by Netflix? I don't want to talk down on that, because I know some of you have insanely busy lives and literally need the schedule. But if it pops up in your head and you've got time, try something spontaneous. Seduce your partner in a new way, walk in on them in the shower, wake them up with some oral sex. Bring the spontaneous back into your sex life.
11. Give More Oral
Do you only go down on her once in a while? Are blowjobs reserved for birthdays or New Year’s Eve? Well, I'm sorry to be so harsh my friend but you just cannot live like that, especially if you're in a relationship. You have to make oral sex a regular part of your sex life. Oral sex is an extremely intimate part of your sex life and in 2023 you need to be doing more of it!
12. Up The Romance
Unfortunately, sex sometimes becomes too routine with little to no attention paid to the romance of the situation. Make it your goal to let your partner feel how much you care for them by upping the romance and bringing the love back into sex. Send a romantic text, give your lover a card for no reason, wrap your arms around them and hug them tightly.
13. Buy New Toys
Sexual enhancement products are an important part of sexual health and happiness and shopping for some new toys is a great resolution idea. Whether it's one of our couples toys or something for single play (like a masturbator or clit stimulator) investigating the new options available is a great way to usher in 2023.
14. Take A Sex Hiatus
If you're in need of improved sexual pleasure in 2023, take some time to evaluate what you're really wanting out of your sex life and new relationships. When putting yourself out there for new relationships, always be very safe, take necessary precautions, and live up to the healthiest standards before meeting someone new. If you don't feel comfortable having sex with someone new at the moment, maybe try some mutual masturbation or try practicing self-care through mindful masturbation. Watch each other from across the room, a safe and sexy 6 feet away.
15. Do Not Settle For Less
Whether you are in a marriage or in a dating type relationship, if your sex life is less than satisfying do not settle for that. Find ways to strengthen and grow that sexual relationship. Communicate, go to counseling, break up with the partner who is not satisfying you, be true to your own sexual wants and desires and in 2023 make it your goal to find the best sexual match for yourself! If we've learned anything over the past year, it's that the time we get here is short and it should be spent with those who deserve our love and affection.
Great idea that is most often overlooked in the hustle & bustle of life. Little things like cleaning up, throwing away old clothes. grooming, remember preparing for a date? Be rested and ready.
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