5 Expert Foreplay Moves to Try Tonight

Foreplay Moves To Try Tonight. Read our guide to the best sexy foreplay tips and toys to turn on your partner

Are you taking part in foreplay? You better be! Foreplay is such an important part of the intimate connection between a couple. It gets you both all ready for intercourse and it builds the sexual arousal and tension. Foreplay can take many different forms – kissing, touching, grinding, oral sex – and any combination of those things.

Oftentimes, however, our foreplay becomes sort of routine: kiss the neck, touch the breasts, grab the penis, give each other a little oral – then sex. Yeah, it all works and it is all fun, but what about something a little different? You know, new? Here are 5 new foreplay moves you've got to try!

1. Undress Your Lover

Image of sexy lingerie. Read on for our best foreplay tips including undressing your lover

Do you remember in the beginning of your relationship where you would literally rip each other’s clothes off? There is something intensely hot about having your lover undress you – especially in a heated and hurried manner! So, ask yourself, when was the last time you undressed your partner? Probably been a while, right? So, bring it back into the foreplay mix.

The next time you enter the bedroom and your partner starts to undress, walk up to them and start unbuttoning their shirt. Or, unzip their pants. Whatever it is they're wearing, take it off for them. The reaction will be immediate and hot – I guarantee!

Sheer lace thigh high stockings

A pair of sexy Thigh High Stockings make a great addition to your romantic evening. Give your lover a slow, sensual strip tease and an erotic visual they won't forget!

2. Try a Little Blindfolding

Image of a sexy blindfold for teasing your partner to heighten their senses during foreplay

Yeah, I said it. Blindfolding. This is most definitely a part of foreplay because it puts both of you in a certain risqué mood! You do not need to invest in one, a handkerchief or scarf will do just fine. Imagine walking up behind your lover, kissing them on the back of the neck and sliding a scarf around their eyes! Then being able to walk them to the bed (or wherever) and do some fun and naughty things to them all while they are blindfolded. Then, your turn! Oh yeah, blindfolding is a definitely foreplay must do.

Sexy lace eye mask for romantic foreplay

This Lace Eye Mask is the perfect way to experiment with light bondage and sensory deprivation play! Your partner will be more sensitive to every touch and caress as they try to anticipate your next move!

3. A Little Aggressiveness

Image of fire emoji. Read our best sexy foreplay tips and turn on your partner by taking charge in the bedroom

Sometimes in our relationship we get… well, comfortable. This comfort throws us into a nice, safe place to be intimate together, but sometimes it also serves to take some of the heat out of lovemaking. As far as foreplay goes, taking a more direct route can be super stimulating! This means pretty much taking charge of the sexual situation. Jump right onto your lover as they are laying reading in bed, throw the book to the floor, take their hands and place them above their head and kiss them with passion! Oh yeah, you see the light now, don’t you? It’s hot. It is very, very hot.

Bondage wrist cuff restraints

When you want to show your partner who's in charge, you can restrain their wrists with a pair of Charlotte's Fetish Wrist Cuffs! These beginner-friendly bondage cuffs can clip together so your partner will have to keep their hands above their head or behind their back while you drive them wild with pleasure!

4. Tease With Toys

Image of a vibrator to use on your partner during foreplay to increase their arousal for better sex

It may seem obvious, but if you have not brought sex toys into the bedroom this is a fantastic way to up the foreplay activities! Whether you invest in couple’s toys or use a vibrator you already have on hand, using sex toys together is a new activity that often renders some pretty amazing results. The new sensations that are offered by a vibrator can be super stimulating to both partners. Just the idea of playing together brings foreplay to expert level!

Silicone finger vibe foreplay enhancer

Slip this Silicone Finger Vibe onto your finger and massage your partner's clit, nipples, inner thighs, and other erogenous zones to increase their arousal! They will be begging for more as you tease and tempt them with the pulsing vibrations!

5. Ice Ice Baby

Image of ice cubes. Read our best foreplay tips including how to tease your partner with ice for exciting sensations that will drive them wild

So maybe you like your foreplay the way it is. You enjoy that session of oral sex before intercourse. You know what, I am good with that. However, let’s find some ways to make that new too! Have you ever tried ice during oral sex? Oh yes, you totally must! Using just a few ice cubes strategically placed during foreplay can render a one-two punch of arousal.

Swirl it around your partner's nipples, down their belly to their thighs, and finally melt it between their legs! Try crushing some inside your mouth before you go down on your lover. This is a way to take “ordinary” oral to extra-ordinary heights!

Cooling Tingling Sex Lube

Keep some of TooTimid's Water-Based Tingling Lube on hand to enjoy exciting cooling sensations during foreplay and sex! Rub a dab of this water-based lubricant on your partner's clit to enhance oral sex!

What's Your Favorite Foreplay Move? Let Us Know Below In The Comments!


  • Christine

    Stimulate everything but the genitals until I beg for it: ears, neck, thighs, feet, breasts, hips.

  • Jose

    Foreplay is what every man should learn before he even touches his own penis. I was fortunate in that I was taken in by a Mamasan from Vietnam when I was in the Navy. She taught me that I should not even consider taking a women’s panties off unless she is just about ready to cum. This can take a while or right away, depending on the woman. But for the man if this does not give you some pleasure watching her squirm and pump herself up to meet your hand then you anti doing something right. So men, LEARN FOREPLAY or learn to love your hand!

  • Katie

    Foreplay is the best! The more the better…giving and receiving!

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