12 Ways To Make Her Feel Wanted
Recently, I read an article which talked about how women become insecure in relationships because they feel that their partner is taking them for granted. Why do they feel this way? Well, women have a tendency to continue those things that all people do in new relationships while men, well, men tend to get comfortable and do "less" than they did in the beginning. This is not always true, but for many couples it is. There is a saying, "a man who loves his woman will never stop doing those things he did to get her." I believe this 100%! So, what do you do to make her feel wanted? Read on.
1. WORDS MATTER
Women, in general, love to hear things. Hearing is believing, right? So, if you want to make her feel desired, beautiful, loved, admired - TELL HER. A text, a little note on the counter, even a meme would do the trick. Tell her how you feel about her. Every, single day … tell her something about her that will make her feel loved.
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2. TOUCH HER
Everyone loves to be touched. A gentle stroke against the cheek, fingers going through our hair, even a pat on the behind. When we touch our partner, especially in loving or intimate ways, it says, "I desire you" "I think you are beautiful" without actually saying a thing.
3. LISTEN TO HER
Women do like to talk, and we love to talk to our partner. We want to know that you are really interested in what we are saying. We want dialogue, feedback, concern, or reaction. We are talking to you for a reason, and all we really want is for you to listen.
4. HELP HER
So many times women are so wrapped up in raising kids, their careers, and taking care of everyone else that they feel their life is a cycle of doing. If you want to show her how important she is to you, then help her without her even asking. Do the dishes one night, take the kids to the park, do some laundry. Just little gestures of help.
5. GET HER A GIFT
While buying gifts can never be the only way to show someone you want them, buying the RIGHT gift certainly can. Whether you get her something she really wants (which also shows her that you listen to her), or you get her something sexy, giving tokens of affection definitely show her that you matter to her.
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6. PAMPER HER
We all love being pampered. We all love to relax. When our partners help us to relax it is a sure fire way to demonstrate how much we care for them. When a man pampers his partner - whether it be a foot rub during movie night, drawing a warm bath for her, a full massage, or even paying to have someone else do it - this shows her how her important her well-being is.
7. SAY … THANK YOU
Women tend to do little things for their partner that sometimes go unnoticed. Maybe she made your lunch and put a heart note in it. Maybe she bought you tickets to a sports game that she is not even going to attend. While undoubtedly you would say thank you for the big things, make sure you are sincerely thanking her for all the things she does.
8. BE THERE FOR HER
Can your woman count on you? If she gets a flat will you come and change it? If she misses the train, will you come and pick her up? If there is a huge spider in the house, will you kill it? Yes, being there for your partner in any way she may need is a great way for her to feel how important she is to you.
9. BE HER SUPERMAN
As cliché as it sounds, if you are protective of her and make her feel safe, she will definitely feel wanted and loved. Knowing that you would defend her honor or would defend her physically is a huge thing for most women. So be her Superman, Batman or even Robin.
10. BE POSSESSIVE… A LITTLE
While women do not want to be your "property" or be controlled by you, we do like to know that you are possessive of us and do not want any other men to have us! Feeling that twinge of jealousy makes us feel like you really want to keep us and know that we are admired by others. This makes us feel really good about ourselves, but just make sure you don't go over and beyond.
11. BE ROMANTIC
Romance the hell outta your woman! When sex is on your mind, use this as a time to show her how wanted she is. Make sex a chance to show her how much you want her - sexually AND generally. Light some candles, put on some music, make sex an experience that leaves her feeling sexy and loved.
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12. WORDS AND ACTIONS MATCH
In truth, women need the mixture of both words and actions. You can tell her that you want her, desire her, love her but you also need to show her at the same time. Make sure that your words and your actions match and she will feel so, so wanted and loved.
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