Sex Toys For Threesomes

Lately I have been hearing that the threesome movement is back in full swing (pun intended). I think it is due to the general restlessness of monogamous couples and a deep desire to ‘spice things up.’ In any case, threesomes are on the rise! While you may be thinking: “Mikayla, if there are 3 people involved, why in the world would you NEED toys?” Well, the answer to that is simple: you don’t NEED toys, but sometimes they might help – and, hell, they are FUN! So, let’s explore some fun and flirty ideas to merge toys and threesomes!

Mikayla's Tip: Before you play you must think about the after affects. Depending on your level of knowledge with all the players, you should have condoms and may even need dental dams. The last thing you want to get from your threesome is a disease or a pregnancy. Play safe! Also, LUBE, LUBE, LUBE. You will most likely be needing lube at some point of the game, and lubes are essential for fun play. I suggest getting a standard water-based lube of quality, such as the TooTimid lubricant. These are great, toy friendly lubes. Now, if you are going to be having some anal action (and, the chances are you may) then I suggest a nice silicone lube such as Swiss Navy.

TWO CHICKS and A DICK
Statistically, the most popular ‘type’ of threesome is FFM (female – female – male). Why? Well, what man doesn’t fantasize about having 2 women at his beck and call – or just watching them beck and call each other? So, let’s do the math: in this scenario, there are 2 Vaginas and 1 penis – so, someone always gets slighted, right? Sure, you can use fingers and tongue – and definitely DO that – but what if you want to, let’s say, all get off together with stimulation – then what? Well, a double dildo is the answer! This brilliant toy inserts into one woman and turns instantly into a ‘penis replica.’ So, let’s say that in your FFM scenario the girls are playing alone – USE THIS TOY. Or, if it is time to finish up – the grand finale, as it were – one girl slips on the share dildo and pleasures girl #2 while the man positions himself somewhere in the mix. If you really want a quality item that is good for all sorts of fun, invest in a glass dildo – like the Double Sided Glass G-Spot Dildo. Is that enough? Maybe for some, but not for me! Using vibrators is a great way to make things even more fun. In a two woman, one man scenario, you NEED vibrating bullets because they can be used ALLLLL over the body and bring greater pleasure to everyone!

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DICK, DICK and JANE
Choice #2 for a threesome is obviously MMF – male, male, female. Here we have a whole host of options for pleasurable playing. Of course, the above suggestions work well in this situation as well – as bullets and vibrators really do add some punch to the party. However, you most likely will not be needing an extra appendage (aka a dildo) unless the two males are planning on being with each other – then an added male fill-in may be necessary. My best suggestion for this type of threesome, besides lube, is edible body gels. Tingle drops can definitely add a little fun to any threesome set-up. Think about smearing a lovely scented and deliciously edible lube all over each other then licking it off in a sweaty mixture of body parts. Yummy! But to be brutally honest, when I think of 2 men and 1 gal I really think of bondage. I think of a woman LOVINGLY tied down and being mercilessly teased to pleasure cliffs unknown. A simple blindfold can bring a bunch of new sensations to the party. So could furry handcuffs or any combination of tie up kits.

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Quick Tip: Bondage play is serious business, so make sure all participants are comfortable and prepared as well as never participate in play that is not 100% consensual.

ALL DICKS or ALL CHICKS
Of course, there is always the possibility of an all girl or all boy cast of players. In which case all of the above suggestions could be mixed and matched to handle any situation. The fact is, sex toys and intimate products bring a whole new level of fun to any erotic experience. From teasing and tantalizing, to rendering huge orgasms – sexual enhancement products are a must have at any threesome or moresome – as well as for couples alone!

In closing, always remember to be sensible and safe when participating in ANY sexual experience. Sex is fun, fabulous and wonderful – but no sex is worth a disease! Know who you are playing with and take precautions – particularly, condoms. Always participate in consensual sex – and make sure that all participants are comfortable and aware.

Mikayla's Tip: Love the fantasy, but not ready to make it a reality? Try a realistic vagina or realistic dildo. You can have the fantasy without the worry!

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