How To Pick A Toy For Him

Chances are if you are a woman you have never really thought about getting a sexual enhancement product for your man. Sure, maybe you have thought about including your own toys in play, or have thought about getting a blindfold or a restraint for both of you, but what about for him? If you want to pick up a little sexy something for him, how do you choose? Heck, where do you even begin? Here’s some helpful advice for picking out a toy for him. 

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Think Like A Man - YOUR Man

Easier said than done I know, but in order to pick out a toy for your lover you need to not only think like a man, but like YOUR man in particular. This means understanding that the way men and women view sex is vastly different. Men are largely visual – this means they get aroused by visual stimuli more than a woman does. So, the item that you choose should appeal to that side of him, especially if he has a preference of body part, i.e. is he an ass man, a pussy man or a boob man? Why is this important? Well, there are many masturbation sleeves that look like mouths, vaginas, boobs, feet or anal entrances. So, if you know your man loves your vagina, then picking out a vaginal replica may be the best option. If, however, he seems to have no strong opinion, picking out a plain one would be fine as well.

However, you do need to know a bit about what kinds of stimulation your lover enjoys. Does it take him a long time to climax? Does he prefer just the tip of his shaft caressed? Does he need a firmer touch? Realizing these details can help you to pick out an item that is tighter, looser, or even textured. IF you want to get an item that he will use and enjoy, it is important to consider these things before getting a toy that is super tight and textured for a man who much prefers a gentle touch.

Similarly, masturbation gels or creams can be a fun thing to give him, but if he doesn’t like anything cold, then a cooling gel may not work out well. The idea here is to think like your man while you are shopping.
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Know His Boundaries

Masturbators are not the only items that are available for men – there are also prostate massagers. Prostate massagers go into HIS anal canal and push on his prostate while you give him oral sex or a hand job. Many men find the orgasm that they have when using a prostate massager to be extremely powerful. However, some men have a strong opinion about ANYTHING going up their rear end. If this is one of your man’s limitations, then do not buy him a toy he will likely never use and may question why you bought it in the first place. Of course, some men do not voice their boundaries, in which case you may have to speculate about his possible enjoyment of the item.

Size Matters

With some items – like masturbators, cock rings or penis pumps – the size of your man’s penis DOES matter – a lot. Cock rings and penis pumps in particular pose a challenge when fitting because if your man is gifted in the length department, let’s say 6 inches or more erect, then some of the standard penis pumps are NOT going to work for him. There is sizing included on these items for a reason. You do not want to have your man experiencing pain because his penis is too large for the item you have purchased! Similarly, cock rings are meant to go around his shaft and balls. If he has more girth than a standard guy you want to make sure that the ring you choose will fit around him comfortably (or, if he is not that large around, you do not want the ring to fall off!) Some cock ring sets come in 3 different sizes, and this man be the way to go.

Be Adventurous 

Finally, it is fun to try new things and sometimes the way we try new things is when someone introduces us to them. So, in this instance, maybe your man has not tried a masturbation sleeve, a Cock Ring or a prostate massager before, but he hasn’t voiced any issues with any of those items. So, it may be fun to try something completely different like a Realistic Stroker! These masturbators look very much like a real woman and contain more than just the vaginal hole – they usually have buttocks or even a full torso! If you are going to buy him something to play with, why not appeal to all his senses? If he has never tried anal stimulation, why not surprise him with a Prostate Massager and show him just how good anal sex can be! Find something for him that you think looks fun or sexy and you both can experience it together.
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Comments

Susi - May 20, 2020

My man likes prostate massages and when i lick and play with his ass. But it seems like i do that and then i only get finger banged After he cums and then hes done. No dick?? What can i do to get some dick out of it. I mean i just licked his until he came. So why am i not getting any. His cock stays hard when im doing things to ass. But when it comes to me getting fucked it doesnt stay hard ??

Susi - May 18, 2020

My man likes prostate massages and when i lick and play with his ass. But it seems like i do that and then i only get finger banged After he cums and then hes done. No dick?? What can i do to get some dick out of it. I mean i just licked his until he came. So why am i not getting any. His cock stays hard when im doing things to ass. But when it comes to me getting fucked it doesnt stay hard ??

Susi - May 18, 2020

My man likes prostate massages and when i lick and play with his ass. But it seems like i do that and then i only get finger banged After he cums and then hes done. No dick?? What can i do to get some dick out of it. I mean i just licked his until he came. So why am i not getting any. His cock stays hard when im doing things to ass. But when it comes to me getting fucked it doesnt stay hard ??

Alejandro - March 3, 2020

If as a lady you think your man may be open to try anal play of any kind but is to embarrassed to be found out, here’s the trick: first, know if he’s ticklish. If he is you’ll need more firm touches and if not than use soft caresses.
Dont be abrupt.
Give him time and reason to believe that you are into new ideas with him.
Dont smile at the idea like it’s funny but with a confident and sexy smirk to imply it’s kinky and you are turned on to the idea.
Pave the way before trying anal with comments about how it turns you on to feel his arousal and you want to do ANYTHING he enjoys, bar none.
And now touching:
As you ease him into a foreplay mode and begin to play with his penis be sure to incorporate more body touching. SHOW him how you love to feel his EXCITEMENT. Caress him wherever and as you narrow it down to his penis , thighs and balls , find your way to his perineum a little at a time.
He might shift nervously into it or away from it but just keep going slowly and dont show him you felt his sensitivity. Just move away from it with suave.
Find your way there again often. Give him a back rub and be sure to massage his glutes and inner upper thighs. Big muscles need the work. Keep a slow pace and find the smooth path to touching his ass. If he is not a stink guy and you trust his hygiene and grooming, lick it and tease it while you masturbate him and you will get him off POWERFUL and you will then be able to openly tell him how sexy it was to experience that together and assure him you are now craving his methods of sex with you.
Over time he will trust you with all of his desires and you will have much more fun. Maybe hell be a submissive for you at your will and you can use a sexy feeldoe or strap on to fuck him or tender love him as deeply as you like with your vagina being all kinds of teased and pleased. With the even better new feeling of the dominant role and the adventures with touching and pleasing him this new way

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