Our Best Anal Toys For Beginners!


Anal play is becoming super popular and it is so exciting for us. It's growing popularity has influenced a new wave of great anal toys for anyone! There are many options when it comes to anal play, especially if you are a beginner and do not know what to expect. Whether you want a sex toy to enhance your stimulation, or if you are a first-timer looking for true beginner toys, you have come to the right place! Here you can find a few tips to help get you started as well as the best anal toys for beginners!


First and foremost, you need lube – and a lot of it! This will ensure you have a positive experience and you are able to focus solely on your pleasure. Just about any water-based lube or silicone based lubricant will do, so long as it is compatible with your toys and, if you are using condoms, is safe for those as well. Silicone lubricant is often preferred because it is very thick and long-lasting, but there are many different water-based and blended lubricants that are specifically designed to do the job. 


Secondly, anal relaxers and desensitizers are not ideal for beginners, even though they seem like the perfect products for newbies! Although they help ease the stress of anal stimulation, it is important you can feel for yourself! This will give you a better idea of what you like and give you more pleasure, as well as protect you from accidental harm. As long as you are patient and well-lubricated, anal stimulation should not hurt, even if you are a beginner! It is all about pleasure.


What should you look for in a beginner anal toy? Anyone in this position should go slim and simple. It isn’t always easy to tell how big something will feel before you actually give it a go, so starting out small is the best way to ensure you are not overwhelmed or do not end up with a toy you cannot use. Many beginner anal plugs have tapered shafts so you can graduate to greater stimulation at your own pace. Your first toy should be something that appeals to you and looks easy, not something challenging. You can always move up later!

Our Top Beginner's Anal Toys



Light blue vibrating butt plug


For first-time play, the Sassy Vibrating Plug is ideal. This classic butt plug has a tapered shaft for your comfort and a flared base for easy insertion and retrieval. It is made of a flexible material, but it is plenty firm enough for penetration. Plus, this anal plug comes with a removable bullet for intense stimulation! It is waterproof for play anywhere, and a great option for beginners and experienced anal toy users!



Bright pink butt plug with loop at end


If you are looking for a tiny toy, you can't go wrong with the Mini Candy Rimmer. This toy is tapered and has a pull ring base for easy retrieval. This butt plug is made of hypoallergenic silicone, so if you are sensitive to jelly or plastic materials, this is the way to go. It is easily cleaned and has a smooth, velvet texture. Silicone lubricants will erode silicone toys, so be sure to use a water-based lubricant with this anal toy! This toy is also available as a set of three plugs of varying sizes if you plan on moving up quickly!

Black vibrating butt plug with remote control

This anal stimulator was made with the beginner in mind! The My 1st Anal Explorer Kit comes with an ultra-slim anal probe and a butt plug with a tapered base. Both the probe and plug are connected to a 10-function remote control and can be used at the same time! Use with a partner or alone for wild dual-action pleasure. It is perfect for curious couples and individuals who want variety!



Bright purple set of 3 butt plugs varying in size


The Silicone Anal Training Kit comes with four soft silicone plugs for you to explore! This is perfect for beginners as it allows you to easily move up from one size to the next without having to search for the right size. Each plug is tapered and has a ring base for easy retrieval, making it perfect for first-timers. They are firm yet flexible for comfort and pleasure. This is the perfect kit for those who are new to butt plugs, but are excited to move up to more stimulating sizes!



Black vibrating prostate massager


Specifically designed to massage the male prostate, the Vibrating Prostate Stimulator is one of the best anal toys for men! It has a long, curved shaft and a curved tip to make finding the prostate more comfortable, even for beginners. The base is a handle, so you or your partner can easily control the insertion. It even has one-speed vibrations to enhance your experience!



Bright purple blow up anal plug with removable vibrator


This tapered butt plug is another first-time option for beginners. The Vibro Play Plug has a ribbed tip and slender shaft to enhance your pleasure and ease insertion. It comes with a removable vibrator that you can use separately for dual stimulation! Plus, this butt plug has a suction cup base for hands-free position and advanced play options. Use alone or with a partner for a dual-action experience that will leave you speechless!



Classic prostate stimulator with matte black finish


This mini prostate massager is perfect for beginners! Kip's Silicone Prostate Massager is small in size to make it easy to use and comfortable. It is made of velvety soft silicone, so it is hypoallergenic and smooth to the touch. It has a ring base for easy removal and a curved shaft to reach your prostate effortlessly! This is a small and basic toy to ensure your first anal experience is a great one!

Magenta vibrating anal beads

These Vibrating Anal Beads are an amazing option for starting off with anal play using toys. One of our most frequently purchased anal products. When it comes to anal beads, most people look at them and think "Oh hell no!" because they just look very intimidating (especially the longer ones). But there is absolutely no rule saying you have to insert the whole thing. Start by simply inserting 1 or 2 beads, and slowly remove them as you orgasm.

What Kind Of Toy Do You Think You're Gonna Start With? Let Us Know Below!


  • frank

    I am looking for an anal plug that I can wear comfortably all day. I can accept 1.5" comfortable.

  • RB

    I’m thinking of trying a simple anal dildo, no frills or vibration. Maybe the 6” to start?

  • John Kuehne

    I’m 74 widowed tried anal for the first time about 2 weeks ago with a thin 6-in dildo. Have new toys ordered wish I’d seen your site before trying but now I love it. I might play with it three or four times a day. I guess I’m hooked on it. It’s just me myself and I.

  • Fred

    My wife is very conservative. Married 13 years. Took 5 years just to get her to try a blow job. Wouldnt let me eat her. Now she loves oral and watching porn while we do it. I want to try anal. She is adament that she will not do it. Once in a while i dlip a lubed finger across her anus butt shr pulls my hand away. Any advice on convincing her to allow some anal play? She is 45

  • D

    So, I gradually worked my way up to an 11" dildo about 20 years ago. I used to put it in then run down to NJ at night to deliver my loads. (Truck Driver). Then I took a break and have to start all over again. But for me I like fairly large and long. Gives me the most feeling, especially when there are a lot of potholes. My comfort zone is just a little before prolapse.

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