How to Use a Stroker on Your Partner for Sexy Foreplay & a Better Handjob

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Did you know that sex toys can really amp up your sex life? Well, if you're on this website you probably do! But more often than not, when we mention sex toys, we're thinking of vibrators or dildos. Don’t get me wrong, we are SO happy about that! We love that people are tapping into the wonders of masturbation and doing so with some battery operated assistance. But the truth of the matter is, there are lots of toys created specifically to please the penis to have fun with as a couple too!

For example, have you ever thought of grabbing a masturbator sleeve and using it during a handjob?! This can be an extremely erotic experience. Here's why you should give your partner a new kind of handjob, and my tips and tricks on how to use a stroker on their penis!

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Stroker's Aren't Just For Solo Play

Certainly the name masturbation sleeve drums up visuals of people using sex toys for solo pleasure, but it can be amazing when you step out of the box and use them during a handjob!

If you partner is shying away from bringing sex toys into the mix, trying a simple stroker on them during a hand job may sway them from timidness to being turned on! It can really feel incredible having a toy surrounding the penis, so much so that your partner may be happily surprised!

Why It's Great For You

Handjobs aren’t exactly the easiest act to perform on someone. Especially since it's the typical form of masturbation, you know your partner probably has got it nailed down and it can be intimidating. Even though some shy away from oral sex, it is actually much easier to give a blowjob than to simply offer a helping hand. It can be particularly tiring if your partner isn’t very sensitive or responsive to that kind of touch. There are a ton of techniques to learn if you want to get good at it. It’s not impossible, but save yourself some effort and just use a stroker! Below are 4 reasons using a stroker is actually of benefit for you, too:

  1. Using any kind of toy, but especially a stroker sleeve, will make the process much simpler for you, the “giver.” Say goodbye to unnecessary strain on your hands, wrists, and arms!

  2. When you use a sleeve, there are a couple techniques that work, but really, the ribbing, beading, or other texture in the masturbator’s tunnel is going to do most of the work for you!

  3. With added sensation, and even added squeeze of a tight sleeve, your partner will be able to climax quicker than if you were simply giving a handjob.

  4. If you’re more advanced, using these kinds of sex toys will make you want to give handjobs all the time!

Why It's Amazing For Your Partner

First and foremost, everyone wants to experience pleasure - including your partner. They probably want that sensation of your hand going up and down their shaft, squeezing with the perfect grip, and feeling every inch of their manhood being satisfied.

Secondly, they want to see you doing it, and they want to see you enjoying giving them a handjob. BUT, when your hands are tired, and you’re looking a little spent they're not going to be feeling those sensations or getting hot by watching you! So, including a masturbation sleeve adds extra sensations and allows you to really enjoy giving handjobs!

Below are 4 reasons using a stroker on your partner will be an amazing experience:

  1. The plush, stretchy material of a stroker feels incredible, especially when paired with a slick and long-lasting lubricant.

  2. Lots of masturbator sleeves - whether realistic or not - have textured tunnels or chambers inside, so they add even more pleasurable sensations with each movement you make.

  3. It’s the perfect option for those who are new to giving hand jobs! You can build up your stroking strength, and save a LOT of time. It’s quick, sexy pleasure for them, and skill-building for you!

  4. This is going to be an insanely hot visual for them, watching you give them so much pleasure while you slide the toy up and down their cock.

Techniques To Try

If your stroker of choice isn’t made with silicone, take that baby in the shower with a super thick, extra waterproofed, silicone based lubricant and give your partner a wet and wild handjob! If the masturbator is made of silicone, there are even some thicker water based lubes that would work great with all stroker materials!

Another sex way to bring a stroker into the bedroom is during mutual masturbation. Masturbate together and please each other simultaneously! Enjoy the ride while you use a masturbation sleeve on your partner and they touch you. They can even take a tip from their sex toy enjoyment, and use a vibrator (or a stroker, if you have a penis too) on you while you stroke them!

You can even masturbate solo, but while watching each other! Become voyeurs and exhibitionists while you feel your climax building, all while seeing your love each other wriggling in pleasure, touching themselves and using toys on themselves.

Our Top  Selling Strokers:

Now that we've covered the basics of using a masturbator in the bedroom with your partner, we want to help you out further. If you want to surprise your partner with a new masturbator, it might be overwhelming searching through our collection of masturbators. So, we've put together our top 3 best sellers below:

#1 Selling Male Sex Toy

#1 Male Sex Toy Gawk Gawk

This is the best selling Men's sex toy.  This device spins and vibrates at the push of a button.  You can enjoys the soft silicone textured interior (lined with 106 dense pimples) to stimulate and pleasure your cock.  Stop using your damn hand!  Increase your stamina and have more fun masturbating.  Shop our online store and have peace-of-mind our website offer 100% discreet shipping. 


Light pink realistic stroker with vaginal opening

With three distinct textured chambers, the extra-long and satisfying Super Head Honcho stroker will give your hands a break, and give incredibly orgasmic sensations with every thrust! The detailed, lifelike entrance is tantalizing, and the soft and squishy material will cling to their cock in just the right way.


Clear stroker with hot pink inside and realistic vaginal opening

This stretchy, plush stroker grips the penis tight inside a ribbed tunnel. The Shane's College Tease Stroker lets you watch the action as you use the masturbator in a whole new way! This soft stroker has a super tight internal chamber for maximum pleasure! Use a water-based lube to provide the user with slick and sexy stroking sensations whenever they want.


Realistic masturbator with vaginal opening on one end and a mouth opening on the other

If you think your lover would be into something more realistic, the Double Delight Masturbator is the perfect choice. This sleeve has a realistic pussy opening on one end and a mouth on the other, so you can pick and choose which end you'll pleasure with. And don't worry, the teeth aren't sharp.

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