Why Sexual Fantasies Are Important

OK long term couples listen up! Just because you have been together for 6 months, a year or 15 years does NOT mean that you can relax and stop bringing the fantasy into the bedroom! Au contraire, it is even MORE important to dial up the fantasy every so often to keep things hot and sexy! Statistically speaking, couples tend to become “comfortable” in the bedroom and sex begins to become less frequent at between 10 months and 2 years. The initial time is called “the honeymoon period” and it is when we take the most effort in preparing for sex. We tend to do our most outrageous sexual exploration with our partners. However, after we realize that we are both in it for the long haul things tend to get more, well, normal. While this comfort and security is a wonderful thing – and it is – we still have to throw in the occasional sexy surprise. Why?

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EFFORT = LOVE
When we take the effort every so often to do something super special and sexy to vamp up our sex lives it shows just how important our partner is to us as well as how important our sex life is to us! I am sure you have all heard that cliché: 

Month one in the bedroom is corsets and lingerie. Month 12 in the bedroom she wears long johns and doesn’t even shave her legs!

This is not as cliché as you may think! We all get comfortable and that is fantastic, but if we want to keep the sex hot and keep each other raring to go, we have to put in the effort every so often to take Wednesday missionary after Netflix to a new, sexy level!

STRENGTHEN THE RELATIONSHIP
Keeping the fantasy alive is also a way to strengthen the overall relationship. When intimacy is a priority in a couple’s life then the relationship as a whole is stronger. Keeping the bedroom hot and exciting by visiting fantasies (or even just discussing them) it opens up an honest dialogue which is important for all relationships to mature.

UH, IT IS FUN!
Finally, exploring fantasies in the bedroom is FUN! We all need to remember that anything in life which is not fostered and taken care of will die (except maybe a cactus) so it is very, very important to keep things fun in the bedroom. Fantasies tend to bring out hot sex. Hot and erotic sex. Who wouldn’t want that? However, when I discuss “fantasy” in the bedroom I speak to a larger concept of just keeping sex fun and interesting. Changing things up a bit and making sex a priority. There are so many ways to do this that surely there is something any couple can do. Remember to foster your sexual relationship and have some fun while you do it!

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