10 Sexual Things For Couples To Do In The Dark

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Sensual dark picture of two women wearing heels

It’s time to heighten your sensations and get sexual in the shadows! There is something inherently sexy about slipping between the sheets in the stillness of the night, and thus it’s a perfect setting for new adventures for partners of all varieties. Take them by the hand and turn off the lights to explore these 10 new experiences in the dark!

1. Taste Test

Everything tastes better in the dark, especially when you are sharing it with your lover. It gets even sexier when you are eating it off your lover! Try introducing succulent, sweet, salty flavors and turn your taste buds on together. A little whip cream goes a long way in the dark! Maybe even grab a few of our flavored lubes, and have your partner lick them off to guess what flavor each lube is.

2. Bath Time

Take a dip by candlelight, then blow out the candles and get even better acquainted! Even the most demure bathroom can be turned into a luxurious spa escape with a few sensuous candles and rose petals. To create kissable, smooth skin, add a few drops of a massage oil to the bath! Just a reminder with this one to be careful because slippery water + the dark could be the perfect combination for an injury so, just be aware of your surroundings beforehand.

3. Massage

Ah, the massage - this is something that nobody can deny is an absolute turn on and can get sexual very fast. Light a few candles, have your partner take off their clothes and use a few drops of an arousing massage oil. Start rubbing your partner in the non-sexual places to start: the arms, the hands, the neck. Soon enough they will be beginning for you to touch their erogenous zones.

Recommended Massage Oils: Kama Sutra Massage Oil Kit
Massage tranquility kit shown with packaging and 5 different essential oiled massage oil bottles

4. Dominate

Keep your sexual encounter dark and mysterious by playing with dominant and submissive role play. Keep your mouths shut and discover who wants what strictly by touch! Even conservative couples can enjoy the effort it takes to have hands-on pleasure while trying to remain silent.

5. Tie 'em Up

If the domination tip got you a little hot and bothered, you’re going to love this idea! With so many different styles of beginner and advanced restraints or handcuffs available to you and your lover, tying up your lover (or being tied up yourself) can be quite stimulating. Not just for bondage-lovers, many restraints or handcuffs can be used to get into the perfect positions with ease.

Recommended Product: First Timer Handcuffs
Two hands shown tied up with a set of black handcuffs

6. Dance, Strip, Repeat

We don’t mean breaking out your sweet moves for a dance party. The intimate act of holding each others’ bodies together, feeling your lover breathing against your skin, and enjoying the closeness of the moment is all about what makes dancing in the dark sexy. Slip into more dirty dancing by slipping out of your clothes slowly, one layer at a time.

7. Make It Darker

It’s true that your other four senses are heightened when the fifth is taken away, so why not make it even darker by adding a blindfold into the mix? Take turns teasing each other with warm kisses, soft touches, scents and tastes while behind the veil of a blindfold or mask. You can choose from all sorts of materials like velvet, satin, silk, or even leather!

8. Temperature Play

If you want to experience invigorating affection, then it’s time to introduce temperature play into the shadows of your bedroom. On sizzling summer nights, the cool touch of a bullet vibrator can send shivers up your lover's spine! On cold winter evenings, a glass dildo that’s been dipped in hot water can be just as sensational! If you want to skip the toys, using an ice cube, or a bit of warming gel or lubricant works just as well! A TooTimid favorite:

Recommended Warm Lubricant: Astroglide Warming Lube
Bottle of Astroglide's warming lubricant with orange lid

9. Hand-in-Hand

Take your lover's hands and put them where you want them. Tease your lover’s fingertips with a lick or a nibble, then run them all around (or inside) your body. Quick sweeps over your most scandalous areas will certainly have them wondering what your next move will be!

10. Share Your Secrets

If you think whispering sweet nothings to your lover in the daytime is fun, take a trip back to your wonder years and start whispering secrets! Playing an old fashioned game of Truth or Dare in your skivvies can certainly spice up the nighttime. Start with playful questions and work your way up to dirty truths and thrilling dares. Maybe dare your partner to share their #1 roleplay fantasy.

What Do You Like To Do In The Dark? Let Us Know With A Comment Below!


3 comments


  • Nathan Webster

    Hi everybody I like to wear female panties and I like to suck dick and I like my finger fucked while I’m sucking a guys dick and I like to get fucked in my ass and I like being called a girl while I’m being fucked in my ass and I like to swallow cum


  • Camy

    I love it when he kisses and keep kissing for a very long time .


  • Golfie80sloxrox

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    Flesh and run my tongue up down up ass to top of clit. Stopping longer at clit each time and before any dick shes shuddering and the first few orgasms are strong enough to want a break.. but then i lift her legs togetherknees to chest.. and press my helmet upamd down and circle her juicevbox After faking penetrating to trase i repeat, but slide allthe way in her, shesv so wet. Then i take turns juss the head then all in all out starting at 10 just heads to one total penetration. Then 9 heads to 2 then 3 tip to balls usually its around 6 head only to 4 all iin thrusts that she has a devastating orgasm . After a while i feel her drying and bruised. So i go lick all sore spots leaving alot of spit in her passion magnet then its time to pop that pussy like it needs. I make dirty comments and tellbher thatvshes my hotslot and does she likevthe way i fuck her. Telling me yes, i feel the 45 second orgasm i have from start to finish cumming on snd bury deep to spirt my seed into her over fucked slit. I love fucking and licking my wife. Tight, begs, and is hottervthan hell


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