21 Top Roleplaying Ideas For Couples

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Just about everyone has a sexual fantasy. Living out your sex fantasy is a fun and adventurous way to bring a little more excitement to your nighttime routine. There are lots of different kinky bedroom scenarios out there, and you've probably heard of (or even tried) a few already. Read about some of the most popular roleplaying sexual fantasies for couples to discover how you can try it out in your bedroom and what props you'll need to turn your naughty fantasy into a reality!

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1. The Teacher & The Student

You’ve heard this one before I’m sure, but there is just something so sexy about being taught a lesson. For anyone reading, this is your chance to break out the white button down and short skirt; whether you’re playing the teacher or the student. With this scenario, you can incorporate all kinds of things to amp it up, perhaps some spanking with a paddle. Or, switch roles so instead the handsome professor has asked you to stay after class for detention. Are you a good girl or a bad girl?

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2. Strangers at a Bar

Imagine: you’ve stopped for a drink and you look across the bar, and you spot a perfect stranger; attractive and they can’t keep their eyes off you. This is a good one for any couple that really likes to add an element of fun and mystery into their sex routine. The cool part of this is you can reenact it in your home, or take it a step further and go to a bar to try it out. Go to your favorite bar in town, one of you should arrive 10-15 minutes before the other, then once your partner enters, approach and interact as if you’ve never met!

3. Super Villains

Heroes and heroines are cool, but what about taking over the world together as trouble-making villains? The iconic comic book character Harley Quinn surely made being a villainess an excuse to dress up in really short shorts, so anyone can take advantage of their amazing uniforms. If costumes are your thing, this is a really fun scenario to try. Go for the iconic Harley Quinn and Joker look. Even if you don’t want to dress up, you can pretend as though you’ve conquered the world, and you're going to celebrate your successes in the bedroom.

4. The Police Officer & The Criminal

You'd better run! But no one is above the law in this county, and you were caught red-handed with stolen goodies. You're going to the station, but first, you've got to be cuffed. There is no way you are slipping away that easily! Whip out the handcuffs for this one, and hold your honey overnight for some steamy questioning. To make bail? They have to pay the price in the bedroom first. You can also incorporate some sexy costumes to add a twist!

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5. The Athlete & The Cheerleader

Ever imagined in high school what it would’ve been like to be the popular cheerleader, lusting after the all star athlete? All you need for this one is a matching skirt and shirt for the outfit and throw in some pom poms for the finishing touch. Keep the skirt on for the act. 

6. The Masseuse & The Client

Ahhh a massage. Still an iconic form of foreplay. Getting you and your honey all warmed up before a session can be extremely erotic. So why not incorporate it into a roleplay. Have your 'client', lay down on the bed or another surface in your home and use some massage oils to give them the rub down of a lifetime. Oh and yes, this one does come with a happy ending.

7. The Maid & The Home-Owner

Another fantasy that is sure to make things hot and steamy. This one is easy for all anyone out there; parade around your house in a maid outfit while you clean (but don't actually clean) and give your partner a show! Become the submissive house maid that will do anything to please your boss. If you're in the boss role, try ordering your partner around.

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8. The Boss & The Employee

Similar to a few above, pretend as if you’re going for a job interview. You’re wanting to look your best and make a great first impression, but you heard the boss has a major hard-on, I mean, is a hard-on. Have your partner dress up in smart business attire, and take turns coming in for an interview. This is another great scenario to switch up the roles and really find out who’s the boss in the bedroom.

9. The Stripper & The Customer

I don’t care what you SAY you would think about, but I think most people have had at least one fleeting thought about what it would be like to be a stripper. Even if you don't have the desire for the profession, it is a fantasy so it is OK. The stripper puts on the show and then the patron gets to have a very personal lap dance that leads to more.

10. The Photographer & The Model

This fantasy involves a photographer who gets a little too excited by their model! It can be super fun and flirty. The model gets all dolled up with make-up, accessories, and a cute outfit. The photographer can pick out the outfits, the poses, etc.

As the photo shoot heats up, the poses get naughtier and naughtier. Perhaps the model starts to masturbate? Do you have toys? Maybe toys are brought into the picture. You can pretend to take the pictures or you can actually take some erotic photos. Just remember to delete them or put them in a safe place!

11. The Repair Man & The Home-Owner

The repairman and the home owner, an all time favorite in the porn industry. Have your partner dress up as a repair-man and knock on the door to help you fix your sink. This is another opportunity for ladies out there to get dressed up. Pull out your inner Cameron Diaz from the movie The Other Woman and rock that sexy plumbers outfit.

12. The Nurse (or DR.) & The Patient

Have you fantasized about the naughty nurse giving you a sponge bath? Or the handsome doctor just taking you during an exam? Perhaps the nurse needs to tend to your sore penis? Or, you need a breast exam from your doctor? There are no hard and fast rules here other than to have fun.

While a pretty cliché fantasy, the doctor/nurse/patient scenario offers an easy role play idea that anyone can begin with. You can explore each other as if you were getting a check up, and a skimpy nurse outfit to bring it all together.

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13. The Musician & The Groupie

Imagine that you've finally gotten the chance to meet your all-time favorite musician. You've been a groupie following the band around for years, and now they are finally giving you the attention you've been craving. Show the musician exactly what they've been missing out on.

14. The Dance Teacher & The Student

This one's for you if you get easily turned on when you're dancing with your partner. Take that one step further, play out the dance teacher/student fantasy. One of you can be the dance teacher who takes control during your lesson.

15. The Firefighter Fantasy

Another classic role play fantasy, a firefighter just saved your life and now you need to find a way to repay them. Either one of you can be the firefighter, but dressing up will definitely take this sexy scene to the next level!

16. The Pizza Delivery Person & The Home-Owner

This one can be a bit cheesy (wink-wink). Have your partner pretend to be the pizza delivery person. When they knock on the door, you open it wearing close to nothing. Then you realize that you don't have any money for the pizza. So, instead you offer a sexual favor as a form of payment.

17. The Dominant & The Submissive

"Mr. Grey will see you now." This goes without saying but this one is good for anyone wanting to really get an introduction into the BDSM world. Don’t be afraid to switch up the roles either as you go. No matter how far you want to take it, you can also turn up the heat with some bondage! Just remember to do your research ahead of time to get a better idea of how to do it safely. Always have a safety word!

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18. The Yoga Instructor & The Student

Imagine you're in a 1:1 yoga class and as soon as you meet the yoga instructor you're instantly turned on. Have your partner pretend to be the sexy yoga instructor who rubs you down. Again, this is another opportunity to throw on some tight clothes to tease your partner.

19. Porn-Stars About to Film

With this one it's time to pretend that you and your partner are both porn stars. You're on set and it's time to record. This is an opportunity to go all in on something new you may have discussed trying in the past. Another option is to find a porn that you BOTH enjoy (this is key) and then reenact it. Maybe even actually record yourselves so you can watch it later if you're feeling really kinky. (Always be sure to have consent if you and your partner decide to actually film.)

20. The Uber Driver & The Patron

Pretend your partner is your Uber or Lyft driver, maybe they're picking you up from a night out at the bars with your friends. You've had a few and you're feeling frisky. This turns into some steamy, dirty car sex with a stranger.

21. Pretend It's Your First Time

A lot of people fantasize about either taking someone's virginity or having someone take their virginity - so why not role play it out? Have your partner be the shy, virgin who is nervous and not sure what to do. You get to be the confident one who takes control and shows them exactly what to do. Maybe start by showing them how you play with yourself as some foreplay.

What Is Your Roleplay Fantasy? Let Us Know In The Comments!


2 comments


  • Caly

    A pretend john and a prostitute
    Pick her up on the street dressed real sexy
    Take her to a motel and….


  • Tom

    I would love to have a reverse roll play . My wife is the male and I am the woman.


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