8 Signs Your Partner is Actually Enjoying Sex

Either during or after sex any good lover will be asking themselves something like, “Are they enjoying this right now?” or "Does my partner fully enjoy our sex?" If this is you right now, know that there are many different signals, both physical and vocal to look out for. If your partner is having a good time then you'll definitely see a few of these things happening in the bedroom. So, here are 8 signs your partner is enjoying sex!

Disclaimer: None of these signs are equivalent to consent. ALWAYS get consent before beginning any sexual activities and before trying something new.

1. The Wetter, The Better

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A tell-tale sign that someone with a vagina is having a good time is that they are WET. This is a pretty obvious indication of female arousal in any situation. Wetness is essential because it makes penetration easier and it enhances stimulation. Some vagina-owners don’t become very wet easily, so if you persevere and make your partner super wet, it will pay off for the both of you.

2. Breathless Or Panting

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Sex is an aerobic exercise, and just like a workout, the better it is, the harder you breathe! If you are making your partner's heart pound and overloading their system with lusty adrenaline, you’ll be able to tell by the intensity of their breathing. Great sex isn’t relaxing – it’s invigorating! So if their breath quickens or becomes rapid, you’ll know they are probably enjoying the sex!

3. Position Picker

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Partners who are really into the sex will often take the initiative to make it even better by choosing the sex positions and deciding when it is time to change. When they changes sexual positions, they are telling you what they WANT, and this is a good indicator of awesome sex. Your partner wants to feel you in their favorite positions or even some new ones. Most would not put this effort forth for bad sex, right?

4. Outspoken

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Whether your partner is moaning, talking dirty, or yelling your name, vocalizations are a great sign that your partner is diggin’ the lovemaking! This is a way of expressing enthusiasm and pleasure. Your partner might even make it more obvious with the occasional, “Oh yes!” or “Harder, faster!” This is a pretty clear-cut signal that they are having a good ol’ time.

5. Grabby Hands

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If your partner is reaching out for something – anything – they are probably enjoying the sex! Your partner might steady themselves on a wall, clutch a blanket or bedpost, or grab your arms. If they are really feeling passionate, they may even dig their fingernails sensuously into your back! This is typically a response to sexual excitement or immense arousal and is not to be overlooked!

6. Active Participant

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Your partner might wrap themselves around you, kiss you more passionately, tug at your hair, or thrust into you. There are a lot of different ways they can get more physically involved in the sex, and greater participation is a sign that they are enjoying themselves! If your partner is overwhelmed by the sexual thrills, they will do what they can to make it better for you and express their approval.

7. Orgasm!

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This is a fairly obvious one – if your partner has an orgasm, they are probably enjoying the sex! Orgasm is the ultimate sexual release, and people NEED to feel both pleasured and relaxed in order to climax. So, want to know if they are enjoying the sex? If your partner cums right then and there, you have your answer. If you still aren’t sure, you can try and make them do it again!

8. Happy Dance

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This one is a little obvious too but if your partner is so content and happy after they orgasm that they just have to do a happy dance- you just had some pretty damn good sex! Also, in my personal experience, this could go the other way. If your partner cannot physically move after they orgasm because the sex and the climax were so amazing that they just need a minute to lay completely still and enjoy the moment then congratulations you have given them VERY enjoyable sex!

How Do You Show Your Partner You're Having a Good Time? Let Us Know Below!


  • Rina

    I think another good indicator is giggling/laughing.i haven’t had physical sex yet, but when I call with my boyfriend and we get a little “playful”, I’m always giggling after coming down from a great orgasm. He’s chuckled a few times too.

  • NYK'M

    My wife and I have a really long foreplay session, maybe 20-30 minutes. I turn her over on her back and take her toy and bring her to a cclimax point, then stop and do it three more times. After the third time, she pushes me over and rides me until she has two or three big “O’s” How do I know… When she stops, she lays down on my chest and I can feel her her vagina squeeze me when I am still in her. If you get her to do this she is lovin’ the sex and the next day she walks around humming and singing.

  • Tommy

    Just let them know how good it fills to have them close to you that you love them n how much you love making love to them start talking how much you love there body talk about each body part as you kiss your way to each part

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