1. Start With an Erotic Massage
An erotic massage is a massage that is of the erotic, personal, and sensual nature. Start your sexual endeavors with a naked and extremely stimulating massage. It should always start with gentle and sensual massaging, before it turns into anything else. You want to tease your partner until they are practically beginning for you to take it further. Rub lightly on their inner thighs, getting close to their hot zone but not actually touching it. Then, once the tension has built up you can start adding fingering, massaging, stroking and sucking.
2. Strip Tease & Chores
Trying to get it on but have dishes to clean? Make it a sexy game. Take off one article of clothing with every dish you clean and put away! This will get you both mentally stimulated and ready to jump in bed together. Another option is to take control and tell your partner that you're going to masturbate and they can't touch you until they get a certain chore done. I know just thinking about this will turn some of you on, because you'll get to watch as your partner eagerly folds the laundry and you just get to sit back and tease them while you play with yourself. Sounds like a dream come true.
3. Watch & Read
Next time you are getting ready to get it on, try watching some porn together or reading an erotic story. Your minds will wander and you'll be getting ideas on what you can do with your partner. In the same way you may watch porn or read erotica before you masturbate, it will get you just as turned on (if not more!). Not only will these be incredibly sexy but it will also help you grow your relationship on a deeper level. Letting your lover in on some of your sexual desires and the type of porn you watch or erotica you read is a very personal experience. So, try it out to set the mood and to learn more about one another.
4. Sext & Tease All Day
If you know you want to get it on that night with your partner, talk about it all day long! While you're at work, send sexy pictures and thoughts about what you want to do with your partner. Before dinner, remind them of what dessert will be. That will get your partner eager to clean up and get back to the bedroom! Your hearts will be racing from all of the anticipation and you won't be able to keep your hands off each other.