How to Give a Great Blowjob

In all the years I have been writing for TooTimid (which is over 10 years now) one question that has been asked repeatedly is “Mika, how do I give my man a great blowjob?” Why are people asking this? Well, because giving good head is an absolutely essential skill and will bring your sex life to new and heightened levels! Are you a woman who “hates” to give blowjobs? Well, maybe when you see the absolutely amazing reaction your man has to giving a good one this attitude will change! So, if you want to know “how to” give a great blowjob or if you are just looking for some new information or ideas, then read on!

ORAL ENTHUSIAST
Enthusiasm is probably the primary thing that sets a good blowjob apart from a “holy cow that was fantastic” blowjob! If your man knows that you are literally drooling at the idea of giving him oral sex this will enhance his experience tenfold! The thing is about enthusiasm, if you “hate” giving him a blowjob, he will sense this and no man wants to force you to do it. Sometimes we women have to learn to love it because we are pre-conditioned by our friends that it is not something fun for US. I vehemently disagree! It is an amazing gift to give to your man, so why not enjoy what you are doing and show him some honest enthusiasm for the pleasure you are giving him? Trust me ladies, if the only thing you learn from this article is this, you are already ahead of the game.

IT DOESN’T BITE AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU
This suggestion is two-fold: the first thing is that you can’t be afraid of his penis. If you try to give him oral while actively trying to avoid his penis this will never be appealing to him. You have to accept and WANT to have his penis in your mouth in order to give him a BJ, so do not be afraid of it. The second part of this is that while his penis is IN your mouth, you can’t bite him! Your teeth have to be shielded from his tender shaft, and to do this you have to cover your teeth with your lips. Then, as you slide up and down on his shaft he will only feel the softness of your lips and not the harshness of your teeth. This is why the first and most important tactical trick is to cover your teeth!

INTRODUCE YOURSELF
“Say hello to my little…er, not so little…average sized…to my PENIS!” Yes, that is right. No, do not literally say hello, but take the time to look at, admire, touch, stroke, gently kiss and lick his penis before you really get into the blowjob. The anticipation of the blowjob builds the pleasure. Feeling your warm breath on his penis, knowing your mouth is mere centimeters from him, seeing you hovering there admiring his manhood – all of this is almost as important as the actual blowjob. Gently – GENTLY – lick just the tip of his penis. Allow your fingertips to slide up and down his shaft gently. Run your tongue around the underside of his penis ever so slightly. Take. Your. Time.

See Tips To Handle Any Size Penis During A BJ!

SLICKERY SLIPPERY SUCKERY
Have you ever gotten an Indian burn? You know, when someone wraps their hands around your arm and TWISTS until it is painful, red and swollen? Yeah, well, why this happens is that there is no lubrication between the person’s hands and your arm. So, imagine what it is like if you are trying to stroke your man’s penis without any lubrication (i.e. saliva)! Yep. No one wants that. So, before you even really get started, after you have said “hello” to his penis, you will have to get things slippery with your spit. Really allow yourself to salivate so that your mouth, lips and hands will slide up and down his shaft easily.

GETTING HANDSY
Yes, a blowjob is done primarily with your mouth. Yes, you are using your tongue, lips and mouth to pleasure him. However, you also have to use your hands to stimulate his shaft. Wrap your dominant hand around his shaft (making sure it is well lubricated) and then start to slowly stroke up and down. Gentle twisting movements as you stroke up and down are very arousing for him. The most important thing though is to match the mouth movements and sucking to the stroking. Keeping your mouth on the head of his penis, just barely there. Using your tongue you will lick and stroke his penis head. Then, in unison, you will stroke him up and down – root to tip – and twisting at your wrist. Pay attention to his reactions. If his balls seem to be contracting and he is tensing, this is signaling his climax so whatever you do – DO NOT STOP!!

TAKE HIM OVER THE EDGE
All of the stimulation should be bringing him closer to his climax, and most likely he is ready to orgasm. The worst thing you could do at this point is to stop the stimulation. He is lost in your movements, ready to climax and you are going to bring him there all with just the movements of your mouth and hands! It is an amazing moment – a powerful situation to find yourself in. You will have to decide, however, whether you are going to swallow his ejaculate (cum) or whether you will make him orgasm in your hands. This is a personal choice, but, err on the side of swallowing his cum. This feels more complete than stopping to use your hands to finish. It is an opportunity to be extremely intimate with him. To show him just how much you value his excitement and orgasm. However, no one can decide if this is the right course of action for you – but finishing him is the goal here so do it with finesse!

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