4 Blowjob Positions to Blow Your Partner Away

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4 Blowjob Positions to Blow Your Partner Away

There can never be enough articles on giving blowjobs, can there? Everyone wants to know how to give a good one, what techniques to use, and what positions are the best. Next time you want to go down and dirty on your partner, try one of these fun positions to shake it up.

Different positions can make the oral sex feel different and more exciting. Surprise your partner by trying something new and adventurous. For blowjob giving, a change in position will change the depth that the penis can slide into your mouth or throat. Certain positions offer a more comfortable way to add in hand movements or allow your partner to buck into your mouth. So, obviously, it is to both of your benefit to change things up for variety. So, what are some variations on the blowjob theme? Read on to find out!

1. Lick 'Em Side Saddle

We often think of giving a BJ while your partner is lying on their back and you kneel or lay in between their legs. A variation on this basic position is to come at your partner from the side. Kneel with your butt somewhat even to their hips and lean over them. This position offers a sort of “side” entrance to your mouth, and even better, it offers your partner the access to your genital area. This can greatly heighten their excitement and yours.

2. Laid Back

This position is often toted as “the beginner’s position for deepthroating” because it makes sliding your partner's penis down your throat much easier due to the natural flex of the throat. I’m talking about you lying on your back, your head dangling off the side of the bed. As your head tips back it opens your throat (just like in a medical procedure when they are tubing a patient). Your lover can then slide their penis into your mouth and down your throat as deeply as you can take it – which will be considerably deeper than in other positions.

3. Couch Potato

Have you ever been sitting on the couch with your lover, watching a movie and just had that desire to suck them off? Well, why wait? Just slide on down between their legs and get into it! The angle is perfect for really getting busy with your partner's penis, it is comfortable for both parties. Your partner can grab your hair, hold your head or just buck up into your mouth. You can use your hands and your mouth – with full access. Also, if you so desire, you can transition into the lick them side saddle position by getting up on the couch and kneeling next to them.

4. Showering Them With Attention

This one goes under the heading of “spontaneously sexy” because it is a spontaneous thought. Imagine you are in the bathroom and your lover is showering. You peek in to see them all lathered up with soap. You have the urge to get in the shower with your partner and give him a nice shower blowjob. Shower oral is fantastic on so many levels. First you have the nice, warm water flowing down both of your bodies. Then you have the perfect place to sit or kneel for comfort. Finally, your partner is as clean as clean can be – which can be extremely attractive when thinking about putting their private part into your mouth! Shower blowjobs are less about the position and more about the spontaneity and the extra sensations. Definitely a must do!

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  • Susie Jo

    My husband and I have been married almost 3 years and we both are almost 80 and in pretty good physical shape. My first 2 husbands and I enjoyed minimal intimate sexual pleasure together. My current husband is a wonderful man but at this age he has been having great difficulty achieving an erection even with viagra. He feels his best way to get the sexual pleasure he craves is through oral sex. I rarely had oral sex with my other husbands and have been willing to try to please him with various positions that he feels bring that him close or to a climax. He has a favorite position with me sitting on a stool on the floor with my back to the bed and he stands in front of me putting his penis in and out of my mouth for about 10-15 min. He wants to be in total control going in and out at his chosen speed while I sit there sucking according to how he tells me. He desires this every morning and every night which has become boring at times to me. If I want to altar things he says it doesn’t feel as good or feel s hardly any stimulation so he feels we’d be wasting our time. He said he’d rather reluctantly have no oral sex unless it is twice a day the way he thinks it should be. I’m looking for suggestions because with out oral sex he seems less happy. He does other things with me like hugging and kissing but he doesn’t have the same attitude anymore. What other ways can I help him get the pleasure he so desires? We do have intercourse once a week as long as the viagra kicks in. We feel a very strong love for each other and we both desire our relationship to be as happy as posssible.


  • Alan

    My wife loves suck my cock while I am eating our friends pussy. We have a great threesome and we swap roles frequently. Keeps our. Relationship strong. Always horny into my 80s.


  • Clara

    I 77 years old never done a bj or had that done to me. Could you ladies help me out Husband of 42 years passed, I have a new boyfriend. And he loves it So I am clueless


  • Lynnee

    I used to hate doing bj’s when we were first married but after 35 years I’m like oh wth. I like getting between his legs and just rubbing the head nice and slow in my lips and when he’s all worked up take it all!! He always yells “oh god”, and it makes me go deeper and harder. Tease him ladies with the head really slow then surprise him!! Bam!!! Okay gonna take hubby to bed now!!


  • Aurora

    69 is great , but it’s difficult to pleasure him while he’s trying to pleasure me. Best position is me upside down with with as on the side of his head and Its still similar to 69. He says I have the lip grip. 💋


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Article Reviewed and Approved by: Dr. Michele Waldron, Psy.D, LADC-I, SCCT, Sexual health & Healing Whole Life Intimacy LinkedIn Reviewed on May 26th, 2026