How To Spice Up Oral Sex For Him With Sensation Play

If you’ve never played with sensation during oral, you’re missing out on one of the easiest ways to take a blowjob from “that was great” to “what did you just do to me?”

Sensation play is all about mixing temperatures, textures, pressure, and surprise to wake up nerve endings he didn’t even know he had. And because most guys love oral already, even small changes can send them absolutely feral.

Here are five fun, easy ways to add sensation play to a BJ — no advanced skills required.

1. Ice Ice, Baby!

Want an instant A+ blowjob trick? Add cold.

If using ice is new for you, start with crushed pieces. Let them melt in your mouth until they’re smooth (no sharp edges allowed), then slide him in and enjoy the reaction you get. The cool temperature amps things up instantly.

As his skin cools from the ice and your mouth naturally warms around him, the contrast creates a deep, shivery sensation that most men absolutely melt for.

Level Up:
If you get confident handling everything at once, graduate from crushed ice to mini cubes for longer-lasting chill.

(And ice cream also works… and tastes amazing.)

2. Mini Vibes for Maximum Reactions

Adding a little vibration is one of the easiest ways to blow his mind.

A small bullet vibrator—used gently—can create sensations your mouth can’t mimic. Try starting with his balls, then slowly bring the vibe toward the head of his penis. You don’t even have to press it against him; hovering it close can be enough to get an intense response.

The mix of warmth from your mouth and rhythmic vibration creates a unique intensity that usually leads to a very fast, very satisfying finish.

3. Menthol Drops for a Cool, Tingly Twist

It is not a myth nor is it something that only “college kids” do. Nope. Giving head with a cough drop in your mouth really does make a heck of a lot of difference! It can’t be just any drop though, it has to be one with menthol in it (like an Altoid mint).

The coolness of the menthol that soothes your throat when you have a little cough makes a blowjob a cool and tingly experience! Just pop one in, give it a few seconds of sucking, cheek it and then begin your blow job. Your man will wonder what is going on down there and he will LOVE it. Just make sure you don’t choke on the drop!

4. Turn Up the Heat

If he loves the cold-play tricks, heat can be just as fun.

A warming lube or massage oil (edible if you plan on using your mouth afterward!) can add a slow-building warmth that feels incredible around the shaft and head.

Your warm mouth already feels great—adding a little extra heat turns everything into a slow, smoldering experience. Just read the label: if it’s not edible, stick to using your hands once the product is applied.

5. Tickle His Fancy (The "Puppet Strings" Trick)

This technique is all about teasing the most sensitive part of him.

While you’re giving oral or a handjob, pause for a moment when your hand reaches the top of his shaft. Then:

• Gently rub your palm over just the tip

• Follow that with soft, light fingertip taps

• Think of it as playful, barely-there touches

These tiny movements create a fluttery, electric feeling that most men don’t experience often—and it drives them wild. It’s a perfect mix-in technique when you want to build him up slowly before diving back into deeper strokes.

Final Thoughts: Sensation Play Is the Secret Weapon

Oral is already a favorite—but adding heat, cold, vibration, or a few teasing touches turns it into something completely unforgettable.

You’re not just switching up the technique; you’re giving his body something new to react to, something surprising, something he’ll crave again.

A little creativity goes a long way… and sensation play might become the trick he never knew he needed, but will definitely beg you to bring back.

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