How to Use a Wand Vibrator: 5 Sexy Techniques to Try Tonight
Wand vibrators are total powerhouses—and not just for sore shoulders. Sure, they started as “massage tools,” but somewhere along the way, people realized they’re one of the most popular and powerful vibrators out there. Once you’ve felt those deep, rumbly vibrations, you’ll never look at your back massager the same way again.
Why Should I Use a Wand Vibrator?
It’s understandable to wonder if they’re worth it, especially since wands can be pricier than smaller vibrators. But once you try one, you’ll see why they’re a game changer. Wand massagers are consistently among our bestsellers for a reason—they’re strong, versatile, and deliver deep, rumbly vibrations that can give you mind-blowing orgasms like you’ve never felt before.
If you crave intense sensations and want a toy that packs serious power, a wand is about to become your new best friend.
5 Ways to Use a Wand Vibrator
1. TRAIN YOURSELF TO HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS
Wands are perfect for pushing past that post-orgasm “I need a break” feeling and diving straight into round two—or three! Their wide heads and strong vibrations cover more surface area, making it easier to stay stimulated even after you’ve already come.
Once that first orgasm hits, don’t stop—keep the wand pressed gently against your clit and ride those aftershocks into another climax. Before long, your body will start learning how to stack orgasms back-to-back like a pro.
2. GIVE YOURSELF THE INFAMOUS SQUIRTING ORGASM
If you’ve ever seen videos of women having real squirting orgasms, chances are you noticed a wand in the mix—and that’s no coincidence. The deep, powerful vibrations stimulate the entire clitoral network and vaginal walls at once, helping build up the pressure needed for squirting.
While it’s not a guarantee (every woman’s body is unique), a wand can definitely make achieving a G-spot squirt more likely—and much quicker!
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3. EXPLORE OTHER EROGENOUS ZONES
Wands aren’t just for between your legs—they’re incredible for teasing all over. Have your partner slowly trace it along your nipples, inner thighs, hips, or stomach. Let the vibrations travel through your skin until you’re arching for more.
That slow build-up makes the eventual payoff so much stronger.
You’ve got way more erogenous zones than just the obvious ones—research shows the average person has over 30 areas of the body that can trigger arousal when touched or vibrated. Looks like your wand’s got a lot of ground to cover.
4. ADD IT TO FOREPLAY (OR SEX)
Want to take things up a notch? Bring the wand into partnered play! Hold it against your clit while your partner thrusts—it works perfectly in missionary or doggy style. The combo of penetration and deep vibration is next-level.
Bonus: he’ll feel the vibration too, and if he likes a bit of intensity, it can drive him wild. (Just be gentle if you try it near his balls—some men love it, while others may find it too intense!)
5. TRY IT ON HIS PENIS
Yes, wands work amazing on men too. Press the head gently against the tip or along the shaft of his penis, and watch what happens. You can also move it to the perineum (the sensitive spot between the balls and anus)—especially during oral.
That deep, rumbling vibration there can feel absolutely explosive.
Which Wand Should I Start With?
A great starter option is the Lust Wand, a smaller, rechargeable wand made of body-safe silicone with adjustable vibration speeds. Its compact size makes it easy to maneuver, and it delivers powerful, rumbly vibrations without being overwhelming—perfect for first-timers.
Don’t be surprised if it quickly becomes your favorite toy!
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My wand massager was the best free massager. I get my neck and other sore or tight muscles first. Then go down to play around with my. Clit and first before clit plate with my nipples till I have to use the wand on my clit also around outside. And 😱 OMG. Feels amazing
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