How to Give Your Lover a Sexy Valentine’s Day Surprise

Valentine’s Day – a holiday for lovers! Chocolates, jewelry, dinners at nice restaurants and romantic movies are all on the agenda. And of course many of us are thinking about one thing: SEX. So, if you know sex will be on the V-Day agenda then what are some super sexy, fun and flirty ways you can surprise your lover with this V-Day? Here are just a few ideas to put the sex into your Valentine’s Day.

Try a Sexy Scavenger Hunt

Scavenger hunts are not just for little kids anymore. Oh no, you can have a super sexy scavenger hunt where the ultimate prize is you! Depending on your personal creativity level you can be short and sweet or very in-depth. The main idea though is to ultimately have your partner find YOU somewhere wearing something sexy, fun or even nothing at all! There are many ways to do this, and here are just a few ideas to get your own creative juices flowing:

• Alice in Wonderland - If you remember the iconic children’s tale Alice found notes “Eat Me” and “Drink Me.” Keeping with that idea you can make any number of notes that say “Take Me” or “Use Me” and put them around the house with clues. You start with one on the door that says “Read Me” and there is a clue. You can use a poem or just directions on where to go. Each clue sends your lover somewhere else until finally the last clue leads your lover to you! You can have the final direction (“Use Me” or “Eat Me” work well). If you are really into it you can dress up in an Alice in Wonderland sexy costume or just wear the Mad Hatter’s hat and nothing else! Be creative!

• Hansel & Gretel - Perhaps you want to be more to the point or feel you are not as creative. That is perfectly OK. Leaving a ‘trail’ of clothing (much like Hansel and Gretel left a train of breadcrumbs) that leads your lover to you is a fun (and fast) way to get them to you. Just make sure you let your lover know what is going on via a text or note so they don’t think there are just random clothes left all over the floor. When they finally get to the destination of choice have it lit with candles. For a fun and funny ending you can lay underneath a pile of clothes that says “Fold Me” and be naked underneath. A little twist never hurt anyone!

Create a Sex Toy Buffet

If you and your lover like to play with sexual enhancement products, or even if you are thinking about getting just one, putting all the options out on the table – literally – is a different and fun way to create a buffet of sexual suggestion. Even if you do not have a lot of sex toys, per se, you can still create this buffet of items intended for sexy use.

Using your dresser or any table in the house you can lay a nice sheet or blanket down and then arrange the items on the table. You can lay out sex toys, massage gels, handcuffs, restraints, anal plugs or, if you are not that varied on options, a glass of ice, a wooden spoon, a back massager, a feather, a blindfold (or scarf). You get the picture. Anything and EVERYTHING you can think of to give your lover choices (and you as well) while playing that night. It will take V-Day from the boring to the imaginative! And remember, always make sure you have lubricant such as the Water Based Lubricant shown below so that your sex toy fun never has to end.

Text and Tease Me

Perhaps you are going to have a long day of work before you and your lover can be together on Valentine’s Day night. You want to create a sexy and exciting atmosphere even before they walk in the door, right? Sort of give them a preview of what is to come.

Well, this is where a series of text teases can fit the bill perfectly. Firstly, and I can’t caution you enough: make sure that it is okay for them to receive sexts. No sex is worth losing a job over. You would want to start with a simple “Good Morning love” text that features, perhaps, a close up pic of puckered lips. Like a kiss mouth. Throughout the day take other suggestive pictures, which may not even be obvious as to what they are. Some suggestions for these types of pictures are:

• A close up image of your nipple
• A sext chest picture (chest flexed or arms laid over breasts)
• The top portion of thigh high stockings (on the leg)
• A suggestive picture of your back with a towel fallen down to around the butt crack
• Your eyes with sexy make-up and an eye wink
• An image that shows the outline of your penis under your sweatpants or briefs

No matter what you choose you can attach cute texts or just the pictures. Right before the day is over and your lover is scheduled to come home you can give them a full body shot of what you are wearing (either to go out or NOT to go out), even if what you're wearing is nothing.

Open up Pandora's Box

One more fun idea is to create a ‘Pandora’s Box’ or sexy suggestions. There are many ways to do this depending on your personal creativity and the status of your relationship. The main idea though is to make a cute and decorated box (you know, for Valentine’s Day) and to fill the box with notes like:

I love …..each note starts with “I love” and finishes with specifics for your relationship. For example, “I love the way your hair falls over your eyes” or “I love that you bring me coffee in bed.” These can be sexy, romantic or just truthful.

I want ….here each note starts with “I want” and finished with specifics that you want. For example, “I want to kiss the back of your neck” or “I want to show you how wet you make me.”

Suggestion Box. Here each note gives a sexy suggestion on things you would like your lover to do to you or for you to do to them. For example, “Lay on your stomach, I am going to give you a massage.”

What is inside the box is really up to you. It can be filled with romantic love notes or super naughty sexual suggestions. It is only important that you have fun!

How Do You Celebrate Valentine's Day? Let Us Know!