The 5 Best Sex Positions to Try With Sex Toys

Best Sex Positions To Try With Toys. Read our guide to the best positions for couples and how to use toys during sex

Part of introducing sex toys into the bed is figuring out the logistics, such as which toys or accessories work in certain positions. With so many sex toys available in so many different shapes and sizes, you can include these helpful sex enhancers in almost any position and in every situation. Sex toys like cock rings and anal plugs can effortlessly turn any steamy encounter into something kinkier and more arousing!

Whether you have used toys by yourself before, or you're looking for a way to add variety to your sexual repertoire, couples who are just starting to adventure into the realm of sex toys together can read on for some of the best sex positions to try with toys! Learn our expert tips and tricks and the best ways to use toys during sex that you’ve been missing out on today!

1. Side by Side

Side by side, also called spooning, is a classic position to try with sex toys. This is great for nervous beginners because it is easy, relaxing, and intimate. Partners in this position sit front to back. The “big spoon” at this angle can penetrate their “little spoon” from behind using their cock or strap-on.

While one partner gets thrusting, the other can tease and titillate themselves in this sex position with a toy. Better yet, make your partner give you the old reach-around with their own hands or with a toy. The two of you can bask in your closeness as you have slow sex that ends in a big bang.

Side by side is one of the best sex positions with toys because it is great for vaginal and anal penetration and can really help you connect with your partner in a meaningful way that leaves you both emotionally and physically satisfied. For more kinky fun, the big spoon can use a vibrating anal plug. Leave the controls in the hands of your little spoon for even more teasing sensations.

Image of a hand holding a pink nubby vibrator

The Paris Nubby Clit Teaser is one of our best-selling vibrators and an incredibly versatile sex toy! The ergonomic handle makes it easy to use on your partner to stimulate their clit, testicles, inner thighs, or other erogenous areas!

Vibrating anal toy with wireless remote

The penetrating partner can enjoy some erotic vibes too with a vibrating anal toy like this Thumping Prostate Massager! You can let your lover change up the vibration modes with the wireless controller to coax you to a stronger orgasm!

2. Doggy Style

Doggy style is a hot pick when it comes to sex positions with toys for many reasons. The penetrating partner can enjoy the freedom and ease this position allows them as they thrust. For the person receiving, this position allows for deeper penetration that’s sure to satisfy. Doggy style is great for BDSM play like bondage and sensory deprivation. The position is simple to get into and most of us are already familiar with it: one partner gets on their hands and knees while the other stands or kneels behind them during penetration.

This sex position with a toy is great for all couples interested in anal or vaginal sex. Grab some lube, slip into your favorite harness or cock ring and prepare for a round of toe-curling sex! Another reason we list doggy style as one of the best sex positions to try with toys? The other partner can use their favorite bullet vibe or egg for some intimate massaging over their erogenous zones. Double penetration is also an option here if couples want to fulfill their threesome fantasies without bringing someone else into the bedroom.

Wireless vibrating bullet for Kegel exercises

The Essence Wireless Vibrator has a unique tapered tip for pinpoint clit stimulation! You can also insert this wireless vibrating bullet vaginally while your partner penetrates you anally for mind-blowing dual pleasure!

3. The Lotus

Eye contact can make any moment more meaningful or private, and there’s plenty of opportunity for eye contact in the lotus position! Getting into this sex position with a toy might seem uncomfortable or complicated at first, but practice and patience will pay off once you hit sexual nirvana.

Lotus involves two people facing one another as they sit. Person A will have Person B in their lap while Person B wraps their arms and legs around Person A for support. It can feel kind of like an elongated, sexy hug, but that’s what makes it so intimate. This is one of the best sex positions with toys you can try because you have complete access to your partner’s naked skin as you thrust and roll your hips.

Person A is in a perfect spot to penetrate their partner and deliver vaginal or anal orgasms, or the two of you can just play with yourselves and each other in this sex position with a toy. Maybe it’s time to make Person A ride a suction-cup dildo as they pleasure Person B with a wand massager.

Image of a hand holding a pink wand vibrator

The Lust Wand vibrator can be placed between you and your partner in this position for added clit stimulation! This massage wand is compact and easy to hold so either partner can use it to tease anywhere on their partner’s body!

Image of a realistic suction cup dildo with remote

Because you are seated, this is a great position for either partner to ride a suction cup dildo like the Best Vibrating Dildo with Balls! This realistic dildo also has the option of powerful vibration modes controlled with the corded remote.

4. The Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl

Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are two other positions most of us have already heard of. The name comes from the fact that the “cowgirl” in this situation is riding their partner during penetration. That partner will oftentimes lie down, giving their lover easy access to their cock or strap-on, and allow the person who is being penetrated to get onto their lap and slide up and down at the pace of their choosing.

This is a great way to include power dynamics or role reversal in your sexual encounter. Have your lover wear a cock ring to heighten their sensitivity and strengthen their erection without cumming too soon. The penetrating partner might want to try a vibrating dildo or anal plug for additional stimulation. Every time you pick up the pace and ride them harder, the movement will jostle the toy inside them and leave them begging for sweet release! Better yet, if you’re not on top, use a vibrator on your partner’s clit or cock for a taste of their own teasing medicine! The possibilities are endless, which is why we think any form of cowgirl is one of the best sex positions to try with toys!

CLIT STIMULATING COCK RING FOR COUPLESPurple silicone cockring with nubby clit stimulator

This Silicone Clit Stimulating Vibrating Cock Ring can be worn on a penis or dildo to provide thrilling vibrations and clitoral stimulation from the nubby ticklers! This is perfect for the cowgirl position since the partner on top can grind against it as hard as they want and get in the best position for direct clit contact!

Wearable couples vibrator with wireless remote

Both partners can enjoy powerful pulsing vibrations with a wearable vibrator like the Eden Lover Wireless Remote Couples Vibe! This flexible U-shaped vibrator can be worn during intercourse to help you both achieve a stronger orgasm!

5. The Classic 69

This list wouldn’t be complete without us mentioning the beloved classic: 69! This sex position with toys might not seem like it’s good for anything other than just oral sex, and there’s nothing wrong with that! Oral sex is hot and intimate, and when you’re in 69, both of you get to enjoy it at the same time!

69 can be tricky and may require some compromise or additional support from pillows and furniture. One partner lies down while the other props themselves on top face-to-crotch. You can also try a 69 while you are both laying on your side facing each other. This gives you complete access to your partner's intimate bits, and them to yours.

Try including flavored lubricants for a fun and easy twist on oral sex, or bring in a sex toy! This sex position with toys like a finger vibe is great, as are wand massagers! If you need a little extra something or want to try a blended orgasm, you and your lover can also get an additional buzz from a G-spot or prostate massager!

Put a dab of the JO Strawberry Kisses Edible Flavored Lube on your lover’s sensitive areas for a decadent strawberry-flavored treat while you’re 69ing! This water-based lubricant will increase your sensations and keep things slick if you want to also add a toy during oral sex!


Silicone finger vibrator

What better way to improve the 69 position than with some tingling, teasing vibrations! Slip this Whisper Finger Vibe onto your finger to massage your partner’s clit, nipples, or other erogenous zones!

Do You Use Sex Toys During Sex? Leave A Comment Below!


  • Rya

    I have been solo for a long time, so I have been looking for ways to experience some sexual pleasure sans a defacto partner. I have found that a combination of anal and penile stimulation while also viewing some hot video action can help me to achieve orgasmic pleasure like never before. If you can simultaneously manage two handhelds in a quiet environment, then the sky’s the limit.

  • Kelly

    I have been having to use a strap on for a while now. I was nervous and uncomfortable at first but soon learned how to use them very effectively to the point if you didn’t see it you would think it was real. I believe that is the key. My ex is a former escort and see used to tell her girlfriends that she loved me cause if she wanted a big black cock or a small one I would have it for her and fuck her flawlessly. I really enjoy them

  • Billie

    I think, especially for long term relationships, they enhance everything.
    Be honest- after 2 and a half decades, people get bored. In my experience, they get bored, As Soon As life becomes “routine” .
    Men need to be more honest and open with their partners, in my opinion.
    Don’t let the name fool you, I’m a mature woman.
    Women need to be more open too. I had my first “in home toy party” in 1994. I actually had a Couples party. That’s “frowned upon” by the previous company- I didn’t stay long.
    Couples MAY not separate, just by being true in ALL aspects.
    I do know both men and women that, if they’re preferences were ‘known’ beyond home- they’d deny everything at All Costs. It’s no one’s business, but, who cares who knows what anyhow.

  • Yes

    Love to show off to husband

  • Kelly

    Fir any men that are concerned, the vibrators don’t compete with your sex Life, they enhance your sex life

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