Top 15 Fetishes More Common Than You Think

26 comments

The word “fetish” or "kink" can stir up a lot of emotions. Change it to “sexual fetish” and your thoughts go racing! Some kinks or fetishes can give someone a little grin when a sexual fetish crosses their minds. Whatever your first reaction is to the word fetish, the truth is, most people have at least one in some kind of way.

Here are 15 fetishes or kinks that are more common than you think!

1. DOMINANT / SUBMISSIVE

From the playful decision of who is on top, to walking a submissive on a leash, the Dominant and Submissive fetish has been around for years! It is most common for women to be dominant with their submissive male partners. The act of taking control (or giving up control) can be very sexually satisfying!

2. TIGHT SUITS

Leather, faux leather, rubber latex and other materials can be made into suits or pieces of clothing that are designed to fit extremely tight against the body. Sometimes it is just the feeling of the tight material against the body or visually seeing someone in the tight outfit that can be incredibly stimulating. In some cases, the smell of the clothing material can also be incredibly exciting for someone.

3. FURRIES

"Furries" are people with an interest in anthropomorphized animals - animals who have been given human characteristics. One of the misconceptions about "furries" is that it is only a sexual fetish. Having sexual activity with another Furry is known as "yiffing" named after the sound a fox makes while they mate. Although it is common that sexual activity is involved, it is also very common for furries to typically walk around as fictional animal characters that walk and talk like humans!

4. TICKLING

Some find erotic pleasure in being tickled! You can be tickled with hands or various objects the same time you are being stimulated. Tickling alone can also be incredible foreplay for some and don't require being stimulated at the same time!

5. CUCKOLDING

This typically refers to couples in a heterosexual relationship when a "man" gets turned on by his "wife" having intercourse with another man and vice-versa. Cuckold is known to be a variation of Masochism, where the cuckold feels pleasure from feeling "humiliated" in watching their partner participate in having sex with someone else in front of them.

6. SWINGERS / MULTIPLES

Okay, who hasn’t wondered what a threesome would be like? Whether a quick tryst with a couple of cuties in college, or an ongoing fetish, the act of sharing yourself with many lovers is definitely a fetish fantasy! Swingers just do it more often! Some swingers like the aspect of fondling or having sex with another couple or within a group setting. Other swingers will not participate in threesomes or multiples at one time, but will “swing” (aka share) a variety of partners with other couples or within a swingers group!

7. PANTIES OR STOCKINGS

A "panty" or "stocking" fetish can be an incredible turn on for someone just visually seeing their partner wearing panties or stockings or during sexual play while wearing panties or stockings. Panties or stockings can come in different materials depending on someone's personal preference sexually or visually. The stockings or panties are sometimes ripped, or cut open to expose genitalia while engaging in sexual acts. Some also stuff their panties or stockings into themselves or their partner vaginally or anally in some cases.

8. SPANKING / PAIN

They say with pleasure comes pain, but in this case, the pain comes with pleasure! The delicious interweaving of spanking and gently caressing is a very common form of what some know as sadism and masochism. A sadist is someone who enjoys dishing out pain, whereas a masochist enjoys receiving pain. Like dominating and submissive behavior, in the bedroom this type of sexual fetish can range from a quick smack on the bum to nipple clamps and whips! Have you been bad enough for a spanking?

9. VOYEURISM / EXHIBITIONISM

Have you ever masturbated in front of an open window? Snuck away to a bathroom for a little self-love while others were in the same bathroom? The thrill of getting caught in the act or showing off your goods (exhibitionism) or catching others in the act or showing off their goods (voyeurism) is very common! Whether you’re simply into watching others undress or you love to fantasize about someone watching you strip, this fetish adds a little spice to the standard in-the-bedroom and behind-closed-doors sex!

10. PODOPHILIA (FEET)

If you become aroused by manicured feet, splayed toes or strong arches, you may have a fetish called Podophilia - a foot fetish! One of the most common and well-known of all the fetishes, foot fetishists love to look at, lick, or massage feet for sexual excitement!

11. NAILS / LIPSTICK

The prowess of a fierce woman is arousing for both men and women, and members of this group fetishize manicured nails and lipstick. Think 80s video vamp with long, blood red nails and lipstick to match and oh! Instant arousal! Whether you’re wanting lipstick stains all over your body or her claws scratching at your back during sex, these two sexy styles go hand-in-hand.

12. HAIR

Another fetish that may be thanks to positive reinforcement in the adult industry and advertising is hair! Her long luscious locks and his stubble rubbing on your skin are common sexual stimulants! Even hairstyles like braids, ponytails, and pigtails are fetishized during sexual encounters!

13. MATERIALS (LEATHER, LATEX, RUBBER)

How about the men and women who have a media (or material) fetish? These are the leather daddies and the girls in second-skin style catsuits. Whether you want to be fully-enclosed or “trapped” in latex, or love the squeak of rubber and the smell of leather, these material fetishes are one of the most commonly recognized (and appreciated) fetishes!

14. BODY PIERCINGS / TATTOOS

It is one thing to claim that you are “addicted” to getting tattoos or piercings. It’s another thing to be sexually aroused to the point of orgasm when encountering a tattooed or pierced body! Whether you’re aroused by piercing or tattooing your own body or seeing piercings and tattoos on another person's body, this fetish makes tattoo conventions very appealing! Stigmatophiliacs especially relish in the idea of ink or jewelry in the more naughty regions of the anatomy.

15. RETIFISM (SHOES)

Though some may believe foot and shoe fetishists are the same thing, they often aren't related, or seen in the same person. Foot fetishists focus on the human body part, whereas shoe fetishists desire the inanimate form of the object. The sharp point of a stiletto heel or the long, slender form of a ballerina’s pointe shoes are some examples of what would fall under this fetish! This gives a whole new meaning to "fuck me boots!"

What fetishes or kinks do you recognize in yourself? Do you have a thing for sharp heels and red lips?? Perhaps you have a fetish or kink and didn't even know it!

Do You Have A Fetish or Kink?
Let us know 100% anonymously below!


26 comments


  • Mike

    I enjoy wearing women’s bra’s,panties, stockings, garterbelts,. I also like to have a maxipad attached to the panty and sometimes I insert a tampon in my butt. It makes my erection last longer and makes me come harder. I like to wear all kinds of lingerie especially if I have purchased it at a store such as Kohls or Target or Macy’s.


  • Rick

    My fetish is Electrical Stimulation or E-stim. This is done by using a TENS machine to generate a nice electrical buzz through my genitals…my cock, balls and ass. I LOVE having a nice, gentle electrical buzz going through my balls as I edge and finally have an INTENSE, body shaking orgasm. I’ve had the best ones of my life using it.

    Also, Angela, it would be fun seeing you demonstrating some of Too Timid’s toys, Think about it.


  • Francis

    i love the scent of a womans pussy in worn panties…..love the taste of a womens pussy juice in panties


  • cuplover

    My wife and I love smell. We love when she doesn’t wear deodorant and wears her shoes all day and doesn’t wipe very well. Together we smell her pits and feet and everything dirty. Then I lick it all ‘clean’. Then we smell my mouth each area so she can both smell and taste it all. I’m sure it’s a fetish. It’s ours and we really enjoy it and while doing it we ask each other remember the first time we did….whatever. It’s makes for a great night for us.


  • Dev

    I’m in ecstasy when I’m making love with my wife’s gorgeous feet. I kiss and lick her soles, suck her toes, fondle her arches and lightly tickle them. She gets frequent pedicures, uses a natural nail polish and keeps her feet soft and sexy for me. At first, she saw my fetish as odd but nowadays she accommodates me any time I’m horny for her feet. This happens often because she is bare foot all the time and I can’t help but get turned on.


Leave a comment

This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.