Top 15 Fetishes More Common Than You Think

The word “fetish” or "kink" can stir up a lot of emotions. Change it to “sexual fetish” and your thoughts go racing! Some kinks or fetishes can give someone a little grin when a sexual fetish crosses their minds. Whatever your first reaction is to the word fetish, the truth is, most people have at least one in some kind of way.

Here are 15 fetishes or kinks that are more common than you think!

1. DOMINANT / SUBMISSIVE

From the playful decision of who is on top, to walking a submissive on a leash, the Dominant and Submissive fetish has been around for years! It is most common for women to be dominant with their submissive male partners. The act of taking control (or giving up control) can be very sexually satisfying!

2. TIGHT SUITS

Leather, faux leather, rubber latex and other materials can be made into suits or pieces of clothing that are designed to fit extremely tight against the body. Sometimes it is just the feeling of the tight material against the body or visually seeing someone in the tight outfit that can be incredibly stimulating. In some cases, the smell of the clothing material can also be incredibly exciting for someone.

3. FURRIES

"Furries" are people with an interest in anthropomorphized animals - animals who have been given human characteristics. One of the misconceptions about "furries" is that it is only a sexual fetish. Having sexual activity with another Furry is known as "yiffing" named after the sound a fox makes while they mate. Although it is common that sexual activity is involved, it is also very common for furries to typically walk around as fictional animal characters that walk and talk like humans!

4. TICKLING

Some find erotic pleasure in being tickled! You can be tickled with hands or various objects the same time you are being stimulated. Tickling alone can also be incredible foreplay for some and don't require being stimulated at the same time!

5. CUCKOLDING

This typically refers to couples in a heterosexual relationship when a "man" gets turned on by his "wife" having intercourse with another man and vice-versa. Cuckold is known to be a variation of Masochism, where the cuckold feels pleasure from feeling "humiliated" in watching their partner participate in having sex with someone else in front of them.

6. SWINGERS / MULTIPLES

Okay, who hasn’t wondered what a threesome would be like? Whether a quick tryst with a couple of cuties in college, or an ongoing fetish, the act of sharing yourself with many lovers is definitely a fetish fantasy! Swingers just do it more often! Some swingers like the aspect of fondling or having sex with another couple or within a group setting. Other swingers will not participate in threesomes or multiples at one time, but will “swing” (aka share) a variety of partners with other couples or within a swingers group!

7. PANTIES OR STOCKINGS

A "panty" or "stocking" fetish can be an incredible turn on for someone just visually seeing their partner wearing panties or stockings or during sexual play while wearing panties or stockings. Panties or stockings can come in different materials depending on someone's personal preference sexually or visually. The stockings or panties are sometimes ripped, or cut open to expose genitalia while engaging in sexual acts. Some also stuff their panties or stockings into themselves or their partner vaginally or anally in some cases.

8. SPANKING / PAIN

They say with pleasure comes pain, but in this case, the pain comes with pleasure! The delicious interweaving of spanking and gently caressing is a very common form of what some know as sadism and masochism. A sadist is someone who enjoys dishing out pain, whereas a masochist enjoys receiving pain. Like dominating and submissive behavior, in the bedroom this type of sexual fetish can range from a quick smack on the bum to nipple clamps and whips! Have you been bad enough for a spanking?

9. VOYEURISM / EXHIBITIONISM

Have you ever masturbated in front of an open window? Snuck away to a bathroom for a little self-love while others were in the same bathroom? The thrill of getting caught in the act or showing off your goods (exhibitionism) or catching others in the act or showing off their goods (voyeurism) is very common! Whether you’re simply into watching others undress or you love to fantasize about someone watching you strip, this fetish adds a little spice to the standard in-the-bedroom and behind-closed-doors sex!

10. PODOPHILIA (FEET)

If you become aroused by manicured feet, splayed toes or strong arches, you may have a fetish called Podophilia - a foot fetish! One of the most common and well-known of all the fetishes, foot fetishists love to look at, lick, or massage feet for sexual excitement!

11. NAILS / LIPSTICK

The prowess of a fierce woman is arousing for both men and women, and members of this group fetishize manicured nails and lipstick. Think 80s video vamp with long, blood red nails and lipstick to match and oh! Instant arousal! Whether you’re wanting lipstick stains all over your body or her claws scratching at your back during sex, these two sexy styles go hand-in-hand.

12. HAIR

Another fetish that may be thanks to positive reinforcement in the adult industry and advertising is hair! Her long luscious locks and his stubble rubbing on your skin are common sexual stimulants! Even hairstyles like braids, ponytails, and pigtails are fetishized during sexual encounters!

13. MATERIALS (LEATHER, LATEX, RUBBER)

How about the men and women who have a media (or material) fetish? These are the leather daddies and the girls in second-skin style catsuits. Whether you want to be fully-enclosed or “trapped” in latex, or love the squeak of rubber and the smell of leather, these material fetishes are one of the most commonly recognized (and appreciated) fetishes!

14. BODY PIERCINGS / TATTOOS

It is one thing to claim that you are “addicted” to getting tattoos or piercings. It’s another thing to be sexually aroused to the point of orgasm when encountering a tattooed or pierced body! Whether you’re aroused by piercing or tattooing your own body or seeing piercings and tattoos on another person's body, this fetish makes tattoo conventions very appealing! Stigmatophiliacs especially relish in the idea of ink or jewelry in the more naughty regions of the anatomy.

15. RETIFISM (SHOES)

Though some may believe foot and shoe fetishists are the same thing, they often aren't related, or seen in the same person. Foot fetishists focus on the human body part, whereas shoe fetishists desire the inanimate form of the object. The sharp point of a stiletto heel or the long, slender form of a ballerina’s pointe shoes are some examples of what would fall under this fetish! This gives a whole new meaning to "fuck me boots!"

What fetishes or kinks do you recognize in yourself? Do you have a thing for sharp heels and red lips?? Perhaps you have a fetish or kink and didn't even know it!

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Comments

gqb - August 3, 2020

…Almost forgot another favorite public place: airplanes. Only once ever were we able to join “the mile high club” during an international middle of the night flight with her sitting on me reverse cowgirl style, covered with blankets.
Our favorite technique is for her to place a panty vibe in her pants while I run the remote control. She needs additional pressure on her clit to orgasm this way so I lean over and press the vibe to her clit with one hand while I jack up the vibration setting with other hand. Watching her bury her head in a blanket and pillow to muffle her screams is an intense turn on for me.

gqb - August 3, 2020

Sex in public or semi-public places. Most commonly, my wife loves to suck me off in our car while parked in busy parking lots. She often gets so aroused by this that she will move the party to the back seat so she can ride me to orgasm, pausing only when people walk by.
I was driving freeway through rural countryside when she went down on me. She is THE master of oral sex and I knew it wasn’t safe for me to cum while driving. I pulled off freeway and onto gravel road that looked pretty deserted. She decided she needed me inside her so I walked around and opened passenger door, turned her sideways so her head rested on center console with me standing outside and holding her legs. The seat height in our SUV was perfectly aligned. I was able to stand and push with great leverage to fuck her hard. She had three orgasms in about three minutes. Just as she was building to number three, and I was ready to cum with her, a pickup truck drove by. We didn’t stop though and later fantasized about that driver being a farmer who got so turned on by us, he probably went home and immediately took his wife into the bedroom.
Department store dressing rooms. We ended up on the dressing room floor of giant sporting goods store. My idea, I removed her pants and panties, licked her to orgasm, fucked her to another and fingered her to a third and crazy intense orgasm. As I was getting my clothes back in order, she was not getting dressed but just sat there quivering. I asked “is something wrong?” She answered: “I’m still cumming.”

Carl - August 2, 2020

I love to put on a tight pair of womens thongs, turn on some lesbian porn and spank it for hours on end. When I finish it is amazing, yes there is other things involved we won’t discuss. Connie you can watch me anytime.

Connie - August 1, 2020

Yes I do have a fetish I’ve been a lesbian all my life until three years ago and now I’m bisexual and my fetish is WATCHING I am absolutely turned on by watching guys jerkingoff seriously I can’t resist watching

bnr - August 1, 2020

I also love spanking my wife’s pussy. She has beautiful
large, deep purple lips that make the most delicious
sound when the flat of my hand strikes them. Then,
of course, she deserves a thorough, slow licking and
sucking of those freshly spanked lips!!

bnr - August 1, 2020

I love putting rubber bands around my wife’s breasts.
Three or four around the base of each breast turns
them into a sort of gourd shape, making her large nipples
swell into incredibly sexy points.
Boing!!!

BBWLVR - August 1, 2020

I love big bellies on big women.

Katie - July 31, 2020

It isn’t so much a fetish but I love a big Adams Apple on a man. I think it’s so sexy.

Raquela - July 31, 2020

Before we get down and dirty, my man undresses me after a long day and before he goes down and licks me, he loves to put my panties on his face to sniff and suck away and it turns me on so much that I straddle his face and grind my pussy away until I cum all over his face ;-)

Delilah - July 31, 2020

I love 3somes and I love watching other couples fuck. I love my pussy ate by a man or woman. Both is great. I just love all kinds of role playing

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