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How To Give A Blow Job

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A bad blowjob won’t win you points; a good blowjob will instantly put you in the category of rockstar.  And it’s time to become a rockstar.

Sexy Ice Cream LickI’m a rockstar and I don’t mind admitting it either, but I wasn’t always so confident.  The first time I attempted fellatio it resulted in me becoming upset and frustrated and my partner yelling, “Ouch!”  Not good.  As always the case, practice and a patient future partner allowed me to develop and perfect my oral skills.

The first thing you need to remember is that a penis is not indestructible.  It’s super sensitive, especially in the aroused state, and while it can take a lot of action the penis (or man) is not going to take kindly to too much harsh handling.  The second thing you need to know is that teeth are a penis’ biggest enemy.  The fear of having ’their penis bitten ’and hurt is always ’lingering in the back of a man’s mind during oral sex.  And who can blame them?  So be kind and considerate of their malehood.

Oral Sex Tip #1:  To give your man the best blow job, put a vibrating cock ring at the base of his shaft while you are licking, sucking and stroking his penis.

Oral Sex Tip #2:  Use a blow job gel or lube to help the both of you.  It gives you a tasty treat and helps keep him well lubricated.

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Tips on How To Give A Blow Job

The best way to explain a good blowjob is to break it down into steps.  You get yourself to the scenario and I’ll walk you through it.

1.  Your hand is a fabulous tool during sex.  A hand job is a great lead in to oral sex.  You never want to make a tight, clenched fist when holding and stroking the penis.  Instead, you want to make an “O” shape with your hand around the penis.  Again, never grabbing tightly, but loosely grasping.  Slowly began stroking the penis, moving your hand from the shaft of the penis to the tip.  Tighten your grip as your hand slides up to the penis tip.

Using your hand is helpful for two reasons:  it is a good start to a blow job and if for some reason you are unable to fully accept a penis in your mouth, you can “fake” the acceptation by using your mouth on the tip of the penis and using your hand along the rest.

2.  When you are finally ready to take the penis in your mouth remember not to use your teeth.  I tend to do the “gumming” face.  Pretend you are imitating a person without teeth, hence “gumming”.  By doing this I find that I can avoid using my teeth.

3.  Do not try and take the entire penis in your mouth at once—that is unless you know you do not have any sort of gag reflex.  Take a little at a time, sucking and massaging the penis with your tongue.  When you are ready, go down a bit further.  Once you have perfected your blow job techniques you will be able to suck on the penis while massaging and caressing the penis with your tongue.  It really can be a mouthful a first.  Patience my friend, patience.

4.  I find that licking the bottom side of the penis, close to male’s balls, with just the tip of my tongue is highly effective.  Flicking that area with the tongue is highly stimulating for the male.  I also tend to suck (gently, you have to remember gently) on my partner’s balls.  I’m not recommending this for everyone.  Some people do not like doing it and some people just have balls not worth sucking.

I find that a combination of all of these techniques results in a fabulous oral romp with my partner.  A bit of #1, then #4, back to #1…#4, #4, #4….it’s your decision.  Personally, I do not use them, but you can include oral “treats” to the mix. Good Head Kit For Him comes with a minty gel that tastes great for you and feels good for him.

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Date 8/7/2013
Anna
Me and my guy have been together for 3 years now, so I find myself not into blowjobs as much anymore and tend to try to reach the ‘goal’ more often. Last night I cleared my mind, took my time and just enjoyed him enjoying me and he told me this morning that it was the greatest bj of his life!!! Lol, he’s cooking me breakfast as we speak. :) What really made me changing my thought about blowjobs is a book written by Jack Hutson. It’s called Jack’s BJ Lessons (jacksblowjoblessons.com). It is an am
Date 6/28/2016
Erekka Taylor
My thoughts exactly:-)

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