Vibrator FAQs

I am a little intimidated by the vibrator my wife uses. I am worried that she receives more pleasure from the vibrator than from me. How can a vibrator make a man “king of the bedroom”?


Introducing toys into the bedroom can be intimidating. It is hard to push from your head the thought that if you were satisfying your partner completely they wouldn’t have any need for toys. But you have to stop thinking along those lines; toys are for enhancing sexual romps not replacing them. Become the king of the bedroom by using the vibrator on your partner—YOU be in control of the play. YOU be the one bringing them to orgasm.

How do I know what type of vibrator to buy? Can you give me some tips on what to get?

A good vibrator to begin with is a realistic toy with multi speed. Waterproof Vibes are also an option that would give you more flexibility when it comes to places to play. What type to buy depends upon what you desire. How do you masturbate? Do you prefer insertion…clit stimulation or vaginal vibrations? Once you know what gets you off you’ll have no problem finding a vibrator to match that need.

How do I clean my vibrator?

Cleaning your toys is extremely important. Mild antibacterial soap with hot water will clean your vibrator. If cleaning is too much for you to handle or you use your toys with various partners than putting a latex condom over your vibrator is another option.

I have a hard time achieving an orgasm. How can a vibrator help me?

The ability to stimulate a specific area and have control of the speed in which you do stimulate that area is the reason a vibrator is so helpful. For some people using a toy is what helps create the erotic atmosphere in which they feel most comfortable orgasming.

Sex toys intimidate my lover. How can I get my lover to try a sex toy?


The key to introducing sex toys to your partner is to make sure he or she knows that the toys are to enhance your sexual adventures not to make up for something that is lacking (i.e. you do not want to make your partner feel inadequate). Try using a toy on your partner first, to show them how much fun it can be, then suggest they use the toy on you. You may also want to find a toy that will stimulate both partners at the same time.

Recommended Vibrators: 

Grace Pave Clit Stimulator
Grace Pave Clit Stimulator
A powerful topical stimulator like the Grace Pave Clit Stone is great for solo and couples play.
Thrusting Jack Rabbit

Thrusting Jack Rabbit
This is the Thrusting Jack Rabbit with all the bells and whistles. You will have different vibrating options to enhance your orgasms.

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