10 Things Not To Worry About During Sex
Women are "preppers" meaning that they believe in preparing themselves for sexual encounters. We feel that the more sexually attractive we make ourselves the better sex will be. Women also tend to be idealists, meaning, they believe in trying to make every event and situation the idealized version that we have in our heads. We may even stress ourselves out trying to achieve a certain level of perfection. The funny thing is, men don't really care about most of it! Here are just 10 things that women worry about regarding sex that he doesn't really care about.
1. HAIR HAIR EVERYWHERE!
Can you imagine having sex on a day that you did not shave your legs? Or, worse, your bikini area? Heaven forbid there is any stubble whatsoever during our sexual encounter. Many women will actually schedule their waxing appointments before they expect to have sex. While there is nothing wrong with being freshly shaven for sex, he really doesn't even notice. Most men do not care about extra hair anywhere.
2. I NEED TO SHOWER
Many women want to be freshly showered before sex. Whether they just want to freshen up, feel that they are "dirty", or may think that their vaginas need a bit of washing up. The pre-sex shower is very common for many women. Here is the irony: men actually like the smell that you have after a long day or even some time at the gym! Your natural scent is arousing to them, and the longer you are in your skin, the stronger it gets.
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3. I NEED MY MAKEUP
Oh the horror! Who would have sex without make up on? We can't possibly be attractive without our eyeliner, mascara, concealer, eye shadow or lipstick, can we? While our men do love how we look all dolled up, I can guarantee you that a man who loves you and is attracted to you is just as attracted to you, if not MORE attracted when you do not have make up on.
4. BUT MY HAIR IS IN A PONYTAIL!
Yes, we women like to do our hair. Curly, straightened, put in some elaborate up do, but sometimes we just have to be quick and simply put our hair up in a ponytail. Then we think what man would want to be with us if our hair isn't done? Guess what? A LOT OF THEM! Ponytails are sexy. Trust me. Hey, he may even grab it a little.
5. I NEED TO PUT ON LINGERIE
Men and women both love lingerie. Lingerie makes us feel sexy and desirable. While men do love it when you put on your sexiest nighties, the fact is you do not need it for them to want to ravish you. Lingerie is a bonus, but trust me when I say you are just as sexy wearing his sports jersey as you are in a corset and heels.
6. I HAVEN'T BRUSHED MY TEETH
Have you ever rolled over to face your lover in the morning and he reaches over to kiss you and you think, "Ick, morning breath!" Guess what? He doesn't care! He wants to kiss you and your morning breath is not going to deter him. Don't get up to brush your teeth, just kiss him and see where it goes.
7. MY VA-JAY-JAY SMELLS
Listen ladies, unless your vagina smells really bad and is accompanied by some unusual discharge, your vagina smells just fine. We women tend to think that there is an odor that he will find unpleasing, but the truth is he loves how you smell and taste, so stop worrying ladies.
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8. BUT I AM ON MY PERIOD
Is it your time of the month? Are you assuming that he doesn't want to have sex during your period? Guess what? Many men do not care at all about your period and would gladly have sex during your time of the month.
9. I HAVE TOO MUCH CELLULITE
We women are very conscious about any extra fat on our bodies. We worry about our little belly pooch, our chunky thighs, maybe the extra cellulite on our butts. We are super, hyper critical of all things related to our bodies. Guess what? He doesn't notice these things! He can't tell you have gained 5 pounds nor does he care that you think your ass is fat. He wants to have sex with you and he is not paying attention to the little flaws you see.
10. THE KIDS ARE AWAKE
While many women would prefer to have sex when the kids have been sleeping for 4 hours at minimum, men do not care. As soon as those kiddos are safely tucked into their beds men are ready for some nookie. Stop thinking that you need to wait until 4:00 am, once you know your Mommy duties are finished for the day, it is romance time as far as your man is concerned.
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