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The Power of Laughter in Love: How Humor Strengthens Relationships

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In a world where laughter is often considered the best medicine, new research reveals that humor is not just a pleasant addition to romantic relationships, but a powerful tool that couples can use to signal continued interest and improve the quality of their relationship. The study, published in the journal Psychological Science, dives into the role of humor in established relationships, debunking the notion that its impact is limited to the early stages of a relationship.

While humor has long been recognized as a desirable trait in potential romantic partners, this study goes beyond by exploring how humor continues to play a crucial role over time. The research, led by Kenneth Tan, an assistant professor of psychology at Singapore Management University, found that humor acts as a tool for signaling and maintaining interest in long term relationships.

The study involved 108 college couples with an average relationship duration of 18.27 months. Daily assessments of relationship satisfaction revealed that on days when individuals reported higher levels of satisfaction, commitment, or perceived partner commitment, they also reported greater engagement in humor with their partners. This suggests that humor is not only a reflection of a happy relationship but also a means of expressing and gauging continued interest.

Interestingly, contrary to some theories, the study found no significant gender differences in the relationship between humor and relationship quality. As we delve deeper into understanding the dynamics of long term relationships, it’s clear that laughter isn’t just good for the soul but is a fundamental aspect of a thriving romantic connection. So couples, keep the flame of love burning bright and keep those jokes coming!


Dolan, E. (2023, November 23). New study highlights humor’s vital role in maintaining love and connection in romantic relationships. Retrieved December 1, 2023, from https://www.psypost.org/2023/11/new-study-highlights-humors-vital-role-in-maintaining-love-and-connection-in-romantic-relationships-214689 

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