Masturbation is such a pleasurable experience that nearly 90% of adults do on a fairly regular basis (yes, even the married ones!) Masturbation is a great way to experiment with pleasure and to find things that will make your body sing! So, what could possibly make masturbation BETTER? Wanna know? Read on!
No, not Legos, sex toys! Sex toys can be a great masturbation enhancement and there are some for men too. Sex toys can add some extra power to playtime as well as provide differing sensations.
For women: Dildos and Vibrators can provide intense internal stimulation for those women who like combining clitoral stimulation with vaginal stimulation. There are endless sizes, widths and materials of these toys available. There are even Dual Action Toys which will provide both the internal and external stimulation at the same time. Bullets are mini vibrators provide powerful and direct clitoral stimulation by concentrating all the power into one, small area. So whether you want to add in some powerful vibrations or just provide vaginal stimulation, adding a sex toy to masturbation time is always bonus.
For men: if you think that men do not have sex toys available to them then you wold be completely wrong! Masturbation Sleeves come in a variety of styles and can provide extra stimulation to solo play. There are also Realistic Vaginas which provide that visual stimulation with the physical stimulation to greatly enhance masturbation. Plus, you can use vibrators or bullets too to add a direct and intense vibration to your play time.
2. ADD A LUBE
If you think that lube is only for intercourse or anal sex, you’d be wrong AGAIN! Lube can and should be used to enhance masturbation. Firstly, lube in and of itself reduces the drag whether you are a man hand stroking or a woman playing with her fingers. Using lube allows the easy movements and a lighter and more sensual touch. Women assume if they are using their fingers for clitoral play that they do not need lube, but this is not true. Not to mention if you are using any type of toy lubrication is a must!
There are also special masturbation lubes that can provide either a Warming or Cooling sensation, aid in Clitoral or Penile arousal, or even just provide Desensitization to make the even last a little longer. Any way you squeeze it, lube is a great way to enhance masturbation.
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3. WATCH PORN
There is something that happens when we add visualization to our erotic play. When we watch pornographic (or even NC 17 rated offerings) our mind / body connection gets much stronger. Our arousal gets heightened, we become more heated more quickly, and we can fantasize more thoroughly. Adding porn to masturbation is absolutely an enhancement for both men and women. Even if you do not “like” porn, it is worth giving it a try as you will be surprised by the difference it can make.
4. MUTUAL MASTURBATION
Similar to the idea of watching porn, masturbating with a partner can be a completely different level. Whether you are masturbating solo while your partner watched, masturbating simultaneously side-by-side, or touching each other – masturbating with a partner is amazingly erotic! Nothing is more stimulating than watching your lover enjoying self-pleasure. Not to mention you can get a greater understanding of what he / she likes as far as pleasure goes. Where to touch them, how fast or slow to go, what rhythm is enjoyable. Oh yes, mutual masturbation is a learning experience AND an enhancement.
The practice of edging is when you bring yourself just to the brink of orgasm – then STOP, allow yourself to come down a bit from the crux, then start pleasuring again and then STOPPING again. Edging can last for hours or even days (yes, I said DAYS) to where you are in such a heightened and intense sense of arousal that when orgasm finally comes it is the most intense orgasm you may have ever had! Edging is a great way to push your personal pleasure limits and to increase orgasm intensity. Both men and women can do this, and it can be done to a partner as well as during masturbation. Men who edge report being able to last longer during intercourse and women who edge often can move on to multiple orgasms! So, no matter what, edging is an amazing sexual enhancement.
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