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Mikayla
It has been
a while since I wrote my first positions article “19
Sex Positions You Should Try In Bed” – and many
people have asked me for more positions. Well, in response
to all those requests, this article is for YOU. Trying new
positions is a great way to connect with your lover –
and trying more “advanced” positions is a great
way to have F U N in bed, and find a position that will stimulate
you in no other way. I caution you, these positions may take
a little finagling to get into –but the reward is often
worth the effort!
 10: CROSS
LEGGED
This Kama Sutra inspired position is WONDERFUL for both the
man and the woman. It is not the most complex position that
I will talk about, but it is a great place to begin. This
position works best on a harder surface – like the floor
– and requires a bit of flexibility. The woman lies
down on her back with the male kneeling in front of her. She
scoots her butt up against his penis for insertion and then
she CROSSES HER LEGS at the ankles, bringing her knees slightly
forward and resting her feet on his chest.
What this position accomplishes is deep penetration. The vagina
becomes open to him because her legs are slightly apart. He
can thrust in and out at a slow or faster pace. This is a
great visual position for the man and a wonderful position
for adding clitoral stimulation if needed. Plus, she can raise
and lower her hips to grind up against him if she likes. Intimate
position with a wonderful reward!
 9: RIDING SIDE SADDLE
Getting slightly more complex, this position is a good one
for those women who liked to be “controlled” by
their lover. The woman lies on her side (either one) and bends
her top knee and pulls it toward her, leaving the other leg
straight. The male gets between her legs, on an angle behind
her, and enters her from a downward position. Then, the woman
stretches out the arm that is on bottom and lays her hand
on it, while the male pushes down on her shoulder to keep
her in position, thusly immobilizing her other arm as well.
This position is not very intimate – but can be very
exciting! Being positioned this way allows for an interesting
sensation during sex as the thrusts are more shallow, but
can hit the G-Spot if he goes in just right. It is a wonderful
position for light bondage play because the very nature of
the position provided the “binding” experience.
 8: ‘B’
IS FOR BEDROOM FUN
This position is a variation on another Kama Sutra position
and requires a bit of strength and flexibility. The man kneels
but keeps himself up on his knees, so his body forms a sort
of backward “L” shape. The woman, lies on her
back and the man enters her and then picks her UP so that
her back is arched slightly, her bottom meets up with his
penis, her legs are bent and on his chest and she can grab
his thighs with her arms for stability. When the position
is complete, the couple looks like the letter “B.”
This is a GREAT G-Spot position as well as a great Anal position.
While the man has to be able to stay UP on his knees while
supporting the pressure of his lover pressing against him,
he will gain a great view of her as well as his penis entering
her vagina. This might not be the best “long session”
position – but it does have a lot of reasons to try
it – the G-Spot orgasm being one of the biggest.
 7:
THE SEE-SAW
This position can be obtained by either starting in the “B”
position or all on its own. This variation of the Kama Sutra’s
“Cave” position is another interesting and fun
one to try. The woman, once again on her back, allows her
lover to hold her feet up and open while he kneels before
her. She is entered by him, and then BENT backwards so her
back is curved and her feet are by her head. He then leans
over her, between her legs, so that he can look down at her
face.
The reason this is called the See-Saw is because you can not
do regular, deep thrusting, but instead must “rock”
back and forth like a See-Saw to get the penetration. An intimate
position, this position can leave women who are not “flexible”
or who are a little ‘larger’ in the tummy region,
out of breath and sore. This position is definitely designed
for those flexible gals who don’t mind being ridden!
 6:
BALANCING ACT
Since I totally believe that some of the best sex can be done
OUTSIDE of the bedroom, the next 2 positions utilize other
rooms – and other furniture – besides the bed.
This position works best in a dining room chair – and
as my previous article depicted – chairs can be soooo
nice for positions like the Lap Dance. This position, however,
requires some flexibility and strength – as it is an
advanced position. The man sits on the chair, with his butt
toward the front. The woman climbs atop him (facing him) and
he enters her. Then, slowly and carefully she puts one ankle
at a time on his shoulders while leaning back on his knees
for support, and he holds her sides for support as well.
This position is a high friction position – where the
fit of the penis into the vagina is very tight. It can be
made tighter by her squeezing her thighs toward his face.
This is an erotic position where he can see everything that
is going on, and she can look at his face while they are going
at it. This position requires strength, but is well worth
trying if you can get yourself into it.
 5: TOTALLY BONKERS
This position is rightly named because not too many ‘sane’
or practical lovers will try it – but it is a fun one
– even if you can only manage it for a while. Again,
using a chair, brace the chair up against a wall or door.
The woman steps UP onto the chair, the man coming behind her.
She lowers her butt down onto his penis while leaning back
against his chest for support. He, being the strong man he
is, holds her by her bottom as he thrusts UP and she bounces
DOWN. If you find this position has him slipping in and out,
she can open her legs more and kind of “squat”
down. The reward is in the accomplishing – and the fact
that you are both “totally bonkers” about sex!
 4:
PENILE IMPLANT
One more position with a chair – I promise! This position
is FUN – and great for anal or vaginal penetration.
Placing the chair on a secure surface and braced against something,
the woman gets up on the chair and faces the wall. She bends
down in a squat and her lover enters her from behind. This
position is great for those DEEP penetration moments; she
can bounce, squirm, or buck up against him. He can hold on
to her hips for a wild ride. Anally, this is a great position
for both partners.
The wonder of this position is that the woman can open her
legs more (in a froggy squat) or tighten them up. She can
straighten her legs and bring herself to her lover’s
mouth for before or during oral sex. He can penetrate her
with his penis and digitally with his fingers. Overall, this
position is a great one for all sorts of fun!
 3:
REVERSE “S”
Ok, now we are getting into the nitty gritty positions –
those that you would see in a book and go “huh?”
“How?” or “NO WAY!” I have tried this
position successfully and it is worth it, if you can get it
in. The man lies on the FLOOR – no bed here ladies –
and bends his knees toward his head, rolling his back. His
penis will appear between his legs and his lover then “sits”
on him with her feet bent as if she was sitting on a chair.
Yes, it is odd, and yes, the penis will go that way.
This position is fun, but not overall stimulating for the
man. He can watch his penis go in and out of her vagina, she
can control the speed of the bounce and grab his balls if
she would like. Most men can not sustain this position for
very long, so it is more of a novelty position for him, and
a “getting things going” position for her. Hey,
you got to try it, because it is unusual and don’t we
all want to see our man getting “sat” on!
 2:
DEEP IMPACT
Be forewarned, the woman has to be fairly petite to make this
position comfortable. The man will lie down on his back on
the bed with his legs dangling off the edge at his knees.
The woman, then climbs atop him, mounting him slowly while
he helps to balance her. Then, she takes her legs –
one at a time- and stretches them out by his face as she continues
to sit straight up.
This position is great for those slow going nights. Both lovers
are fairly relaxed and can sort of “sway” back
and forth to get penetration. If your man likes to suck on
your toes – this is a great position for adding that
stimulation. Also, if you want to, you can then just spread
your legs for a wider penetration and he can sit up for that
“face to face” girl on guy position that many
couples like!
 1:
TOPSY TURVY or THE MEXICAN WAVE
This position is FANTASTIC but is a little hard to achieve
and maintain. Definitely an “advanced” position.
The woman lies flat on her back, her legs slightly apart.
The man gets atop her on his hands and knees facing her FEET.
Then, he enters her in a downward fashion then stretches his
legs out to either side of her face. This is a GREAT position
for melding the pelvic arch and clitoris and many women (including
myself) report multiple orgasms!
In this position, the man and woman grind up against one another
in a slow and sensual manner. The woman has PRIME access to
his butt – and can easily penetrate him with a finger
or a toy. Or, she can just grab and claw his butt –
which adds to the heat of the moment! I highly recommend this
position for all couples to try – as long as your man
is not too heavy and can support himself. A variation on this
is for the man to get up on his knees, bringing the woman
with him, but that is a bit harder and not as good penetration
is achieved.
HAVE FUN
Now, of course all of these positions are not obtainable by
ALL people, but that is what is so great. While you are trying
desperately to get in and out of these positions you are connecting
with your lover – playing with them. They require teamwork
and an open mind. Feeling confident enough to get OUT of the
missionary position and try something new is a wonderful experience
for any couple.
Please keep in mind that many of these positions require flexibility
and strength – so be careful! Also, remember that neither
Too Timid nor I take any responsibility for injuries that
may be sustained by attempting any of these positions –
try at YOUR OWN RISK!
In the meantime, try to step up your sex life and see what
new heights (or lows) you can bring your lovemaking to! Remember,
have fun, connect and try new things to keep your relationship
fresh, new and HOT!
Author’s
Note and Credit - some positions taken from:
Superhot Sex by Tracey Cox
The Little Bit Naughty Book Of Sexual Positions by Siobhan
Kelly
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