10 Things That Could Gross Her Out In The Bedroom

There are many not-so-sexy infractions that happen in our sex lives that deserve pardon. We’re usually not gross on purpose, but sometimes it just, happens! 

Here is a list of 10 common things that could potentially cause your partner's stomach to turn in the bedroom. It's important to note that the following does not apply to everyone. There are SO many people out there who actually are into farting, body odors, and more! Communication is always key!

1. Lack of hygiene

Most of don't have bad hygiene, but there may be some hygiene offense that you are committing that could be grossing your partner out! Being extra sweaty or dirty before you even get to the sex can be appealing to some, but not all. Hopping into bed after eating some garlic-onion strew could gross your partner out as well. Picking a booger out of your nose during foreplay could be a turn-off. It's important to always be aware and communicate with your partner. You can even do this in a playful way. Say something like,"I feel like my breath smelled when we had sex last night, did you notice?" and if she indicates yes in any way, just be more aware of it going forward!

2. Gas

Gas happens. Gas happens especially during sex. Digestive tracts are very sensitive, and sex just shakes it all up! So queefing, farting, and even burping gets a pass most of the time. But be aware of the KIND of gas you are throwing off. If a couple of toots are slipping out while you change positions, no big deal. But if your stomach is legitimately upset and you can smell your lunch, don't be afraid to stop sex! Depending on how bad it is, it has been known to kill the mood!

3. Dirty, Dirty Talk

There is a time and a place for your kinkiest chat, so springing your filthiest phrases on her whenever you want will just seem obscene. Also, be aware of what you’re actually saying when you dirty talk to her. Just because it’s considered, “dirty talk” doesn’t mean it’s going to turn her on. Not everyone is into the “Daddy’s little girl” chatter or excessive use of vulgar swearwords. Be in-tune with your lover’s interests, and choose your words carefully!

4. Searching for a stuck condom after sex

Condoms can get lost sometimes, and that’s okay, but it shouldn’t happen all the time. If it does, you’re either not putting it on right or you need to get a different kind. Rummaging around for the latex lost in her crevices isn't gross, but it can be unpleasant. It only gets worse if you can’t find it and she has to squat it out. This doesn’t happen a lot, but it’s worth mentioning because once it's happened, you'll know what it’s like to have a condom stuck up there, and you should know in order to avoid it.

5. Unpleasant hair

Hair on your head, hair on your face, or pubic hair tickles, itches, and it can get in the way. Stopping sex in order to pull hairs from the back of your throat or off of their face can sometimes stop a potential orgasm! SO many love hair and actually prefer it, but to some, it can be bothersome! 

6. Stinky privates

The crevices of the human body get ripe FAST during the day, so please, PLEASE (unless your partner has told you that they love your stink, which is common!) do not smother your partner’s face into your smelly, sweaty, or gritty privates. Again, there are many people out there who DO enjoy the "stink" of their partner's package, but if you aren't sure, always ask!

7. Too much mouth

Unless she has told you or shown you previously, excessive licking, biting or kissing can be a bad thing! Don’t spit or start nibbling unless she indicates or gives you cues that she likes it! If you have a really wet mouth after giving her oral and you move up to kiss her on the lips, make sure you’re not excessively dripping with fluids unless she's told you it turns her on. 

8. Using a super sticky massage oil

Most people don't want to feel sticky. All she is going to think about is taking a shower. Some stickiness will happen, and that’s okay, but don’t make her have to peel herself from the bed and scrub the sticky particles from her body with a copper scrubber. When searching for massage oils, find some without sugar!

9. Asking her to do something in bed she's indicated grosses her out

For example, anal play. There are people who are cool with it and people who are NOT cool with it. Is your partner into it? Has he/she told you it grosses them out? Of course you would never pressure your lover into anal stimulation, but you can seriously turn her off even if you’re just teasing, especially if she's told you that it grosses her out.

10. Pushing against her head during oral

Whether you are getting head or erotically sticking your fingers in her mouth, if you have a penis, forcing yourself deeper down her throat can be problematic. (Unless she has told you that she likes or doesn't mind this!) A little rough stuff is fine if that’s what you’re both into! Just make sure to be aware that if she's indicated that giving BJs kind of grosses her out, find another way to enjoy each other! Asking her to use a penis stroker on you could be a great compromise!

The occasional smelly fart or oniony kiss won’t hurt anyone. Just don’t make a habit of bringing any of these infractions to bed every single night!

What Grosses You Out In The Bedroom? Let Us Know!