How to Masturbate Without a Sex Toy

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These days there are always things going on in each of our lives that can cause stress, and so making sure we take care of ourselves is incredibly important. And what is a great way to do that? Masturbation, of course! But what if you aren’t as “sex toy abundant” as you would like? Maybe you have one trusty toy, or maybe you have none. So, what do you do when you find yourself without sex toys and you want to masturbate? Read on to find out!

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Use Your Hands

Before there were sexual enhancement products, there were the masturbation toys you were born with – your hands! Getting back to the simple times of self-exploration with only your fingers to self-stimulate is a secret pleasure. Get comfy, get naked, and let those hands wander to all your erogenous zones. You can full-on masturbate, or just spend a good amount of time teasing yourself. Either way, orgasms will come even without a battery-operated friend.

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Use Your Shower Head

For many people with vaginas, the bathtub or shower was one of the first places that furnished orgasmic fun. Aligning yourself under the running bathtub spigot is an excellent way to target direct stimulation to your clit or penis. Also, massaging shower heads are a true gift to the orgasmically inclined – as you can directly stimulate whatever part of your body is in need of a sexy shower massage.

Watch Some Pornography to Get Things Heated

If you haven’t logged in to your favorite internet porn site, now may be the chance! Visual stimulation works wonders for amping up the arousal and usually makes reaching orgasm a little faster or more powerful. Why not peruse the genres and try something different, something a little raunchier perhaps, and then use those fingers and hands to keep the self-seduction going!

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Use Ice For Shivery Sensations

Many people have experimented with ice during couple play, but those same sensations can be delivered during solo play. Using ice to numb your sensitive spots, followed by some stroking or pinching, can be a great way to substitute for a sex toy. In fact, if you have make-your-own popsicle trays, created water only ice pops can be, well, exceedingly fun! You can use this special ice pop vaginally, anally (yes, really) or just run it all over your body from nipples to clit to testicles to your penis shaft.

Provide Stimulation With a Pillow

Pillows (especially the firmer, couch adorning kinds) can be a great way to fuel a fantasy by adding some friction and stimulation through humping or grinding against them. Whether you find just one will do – or whether you create a sort of “crevice” between a few of them, creating this fantastic friction can often give you just the added bit of contact you need to get to orgasm.


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