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Your Guide to Strap Ons

Posted by Mikayla to "How To" Guides

Being Strap-on Savvy

Strap-ons:  in short, wearable (strap-on) dildos.  The world of strap-on sex has changed drastically over the last many years.  Not only has the overall quality of the strap-on evolved, but, who is using them has also changed to include men as both the penetrator and penetratee!  This article will address the 3 main uses for the strap-on as well as provide some go-to products and recommendations.  Strap-ons are not just for lesbians any more, they are sensational products for all sorts of players.

Traditional Use – Lesbian Sex

When thinking of a strap-on, lesbian sex is the most common image that springs to mind.  Traditionally, this was the purpose behind the strap on, providing a “fake” penis for penetration during girl-girl loving.

Initially, these items were awkward and uncomfortable to wear as well as utilize, and, the girl wearing the strap-on was usually left out of any stimulation herself.  Well, nowadays the world of the strap-on has evolved to provide more custom fitting harnesses, better quality dildos and accessories, harness-free items and the bonus of penetration for both ladies!  So, if you are a lesbian and are looking for some great options for hands-free dildo play, try these products:  For first timers:  The Fetish Series First-Timer’s Kit will break you in gently, with a 5 inch, removable dildo and adjustable harnesses, this set will please you both. 

For the VERY experienced player:  The Ultra Harness 2000 comes with a delicious 7-inch, realistic looking and feeling dildo AND 2 removable attachments for vaginal and anal penetration for the wearer!  This is fun for everyone!

For Bigger Gals:  Worry no more that you are “too plump” for a pleasure harness, the Divine Diva Harness fits up to an 82” waist and 44” legs (does not come with the dildo).

For Strapless and insertable options:  The Feeldoe is still my go to harness-free strap-on.  This product is inserted into the wearer's vagina which is held inside by contracting the vaginal muscles, and the 6" shaft hits all of the receiver's sweet spots!  This toy gives stimulation to both parties!

This is a small sampling of what is available for lesbian lovers – check out all our harnesses, attachments and options!

For Men – Enhancing Sex Creatively

Many men suffer from erectile dysfunction which is not always cured with medications.  For these men, having sex becomes a nightmare, wondering if they will lose their erection half-way through intercourse.  Or perhaps you are a man who wishes he were a bit more endowed, or you want to play with the idea of deeper penetration with your partner.  Well, this is where a new line of strap-ons can help – the hollow strap-on.  These miraculous devices provide a hollow dildo into which the man can slide his erect, partially erect or flaccid penis.  Then, he may penetrate his partner without fear of having to stop before she wants to!  The comfortable straps and soft design make it comfortable for him – and very pleasurable for her.  There are a variety of sizes (which is dependent upon the man’s size) and can offer various textures and other stimulations for your partner.

The Briana Wonder 7.5-Inch Strap-on is a nice beginner’s option.

For a little more va-va-voom, the Fantasy Elite 8-Inch Vibrating option will have you both whirling in pleasure, with pulsating vibrations for him and her! 

It is important to note that these strap-ons can be used by women too, but the hollow attachment makes it more fitting (pun intended) for men. 

There are a variety of sizes, textures, materials and options available in the Hollow Strap-on line!  Stop worrying and start shopping!

Equal Opportunity Anal - Pegging

Anal sex is an equal opportunity pleasure that can be enjoyed by women and men – gay or straight!  “Pegging” is the sexual practice where a woman anally penetrates a man via a strap-on. 

Perhaps your man is a bit apprehensive about some backdoor play.  Well, start him off slowly with the Fetish Fantasy Strap-on for Him that includes a super thin, 4.5” jelly dildo attachment that you can gently ease into your boy toy’s anal entrance, reaching his sensitive prostate spot. 

If he is ready to take on more of, well, what you have to give, advance to the Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit which comes with 2 different dildos and is interchangeable with other Tantus toys. 

Almost any strap-on can be used for pegging, but it is advisable to always start slowly with smaller toys for anal penetration (whether man or woman) and with plenty of lubricant. 

Silicone lubes such as Swiss Navy:Premium Silicone Lubricant  are excellent for anal sex but NEVER with a silicone toy as it will erode.  If your toy is silicone, try Synergy Personal Lube for long-lasting fun!

The most important thing to remember about sex is to have fun!  Products such as strap-ons provide a much needed stimulatory purpose for some, anal experimentation for others, and even help with embarrassing medical issues for others.  Strap-on sex is a fun option to try – and is no longer just for the luscious lesbians!  Feel free to persue the shopping sections and find something that may be right for you.  Come on, strap-one-on!

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