The act of foreplay is all about increasing libido and prepping bodies for intercourse. But that sounds a little too scientific and boring. Foreplay is about getting him hard, getting her wet, and getting both of you drooling in anticipation with a variety of stimulating sensations. With these new techniques you’ll be able to extend your pleasure past “good sex” into the realm of “the best sex I’ve ever had!” Here is a collection of 5 fun ideas to spice up your foreplay!
1. BLINDFOLDS & SENSATIONS
Have your heard about how when you lose one sense, your other senses become heightened? It’s true! Since foreplay is all about yearning for the sensations of sex, it makes sense to play with them all! One way to increase our favorite sexual senses - taste, touch, and hearing - is to make good use of a blindfold. Now, a blindfold can be anything from a bandana to a shirt. However, if you want the most surface to play with and a super sexy accessory to add to your top drawer, silky smooth or soft leather blindfolds are a must. Blindfolds instantly increase you or your lover’s sexual awareness. Teasing with the tips of your fingers on their skin, feeding your lover dripping slices of fruit like strawberries and peaches, and whispering your dirtiest desires in their ear will have them squirming with sensation and begging for sex before you’re through!
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This may seem like an obvious step in the pre-sex foreplay itinerary. However, you would be surprised at how many individuals avoid getting naked in front of their partners at all costs! Lots of couples have some quick kissing that speeds their heart rates and then it’s lights off, clothes off, get off. What a waste of intimacy! Great for both a serious tease and a relationship boost, you’ve got to get naked (and stay naked) in front of your lover! If you’re feeling frisky, greet your partner when they get out of the shower with your naked body! Getting wet is always encouraged! Play with fringe undies and burlesque nipple pasties when he gets home from work, and encourage him to watch you shimmy in his birthday suit. Whatever way you decide to show off your goods, enjoy it! Enjoy the straight lines and luscious curves of your lover with all of the appreciation you’ve got to give (and receive)!
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3. TALK DIRTY
With all of the incredible advancements in technology of course we want to use it to get you sex! Talking dirty has reached a whole new level of yummy with the ever-growing trend of texting. Sexting - texting dirty quotes, desires, even naughty pictures to your lover - is the perfect brand of foreplay for a busy couple. With sexting comes a full day of hot and heavy storytelling that gets the blood pumping. What’s a better tease than a full day of sneaking nude photos to your lover? Even long distance relationships benefit from a book of sexts before launching Skype or FaceTime to watch each other on video in real time. You can create new personas and explore your fantasies before acting them out in the bedroom or on video!
4. MUTUAL MASTURBATION
Another seemingly taboo task to try during foreplay is mutual masturbation. Now, there are many different kinds of mutual masturbation that may be desirable to you and your lover. All are incredible foreplay adventures that will gear you up for an intense sexual experience. It’s not a selfish act if you are participating in masturbation with or for your lover. Heck, it’s not even selfish when you’re masturbating solo! The first kind of mutual masturbation is what it sounds like - you both strip and stroke yourselves next to each other, letting your partner’s moans fuel your own self-pleasing orgasms! Try to keep your hands off each other. I dare you! Another is to create a sizzling show for your lover. Invite them to watch you while you tease yourself, enjoying their eyes wandering all over your body while you masturbate. The third idea, and my personal favorite, is to bring a toy you use for masturbation into play time with your partner. Women love to use their vibrators for masturbation, but even MORE erotic is having your partner use it ON you. The visual stimulation he gets combined with the realization that he is helping to give you pleasure is intoxicating! Furthermore, there are many masturbation toys for men too - such as personal penis strokers - that will take on a whole new level if she is the one helping you to use it. Don't forget that toys can be wonderful for couples play and can really spice things up.
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5. KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON
This may seem a little counterproductive after that whole, “Get Naked” step above, but hear me out. Creating obstacles for him or her to get through before the real sex begins is a huge turn on! It’s like a challenge that fuels passion and anticipation. Flash him your up-skirt goodies. Let her fingers weave between the buttons on your dress shirt. There’s a reason why the line “slip the panties right to the side” keeps appearing in modern music - like Beyonce + Jay-Z's “Drunk In Love.” This clothing barrier can be so erotic and naughty! Think back on those times when you would cop a feel in a public area, slip your wanting fingers past a waistband and explore. You can still get that feeling of forbidden sex in your own home by savoring some strategic layers of clothing!