Ok, when I first pulled this out of the package, I was a little disappointed. It is definitely a softee dildo and has plenty of flop to it. It is not as hard as a real erection, but it does have enough stiffness to easily insert into my vajay and feel full. It's a little bigger around than the average vibrator, but it is not huge either. I thought it was the perfect size as it is roughly the same as my hubby's penis.
I mainly use dildos when hubby is away, and I like to have a dildo and use a bullet on my clit while riding a pillow or grinding on the bed, etc., to give a little more of the feelings like when I'm riding hubby rather than just laying back and using my hand--never liked that passiveness, lol. Anyway, this is perfect for that. I had that full feeling, and the balls were perfect on my perineum/anus area, or reversed to hold the bullet on my clit. It's a great firmness, actually, because I never get the uterine cramps that I sometimes get with harder toys in this position.
So now that I've gotten my functional review out of the way, ob to the visual. The head is this really nice soft pink that bleeds into the white frosted shaft. It's actually kind of lovely. The pink is really soft, and sometimes it looks like the color has rubbed off, but it's still there when it's dried. This is my go-to toy for self stim, and it's also perfect for when hubby uses it on me. It's not as hard as most dildos, so it's much nicer for him to use on me since he can get a little excited and forget that I can't handle so much hard thrusting with my glass and harder rubber dildo. This one is softer and not quite as long, so it doesn't bother me to get it thrust all the way in--feels great actually!
Reviewed by: bazil323 from Wisconsin.