Best Sex Toys for Beginners with Expert Tips


Where Do I Begin?

If you’ve never experimented with sex toys before but want to begin, it can be difficult to find a place to start, especially because there are so many types of toys, i.e. rabbits, wands, dual-action, etc. Visiting a novelty store online can be very intimidating, especially when you’re a newbie and you’re not quite sure what to look for. Don’t worry, we’re here to help!

Think back to your last masturbation session and determine where you enjoyed stimulation the most. Was it your G-Spot, clit, or perhaps anal? Once you determine which areas you want to target, ask yourself whether you prefer powerful or mild vibrations. If you don’t want the hassle of having to worry about batteries, maybe you’re looking for a rechargeable toy– you have so many options to explore. We recommend taking this process one step at a time to avoid getting overwhelmed. Check out our top picks for you below! 

We’ve hand selected a few of our best-selling toys and created this beginner’s toy kit as an easy first step. This kit contains three best selling vibes with our universal lube. Add a dab of lube to the Ryder vibe or bullet and tickle your sweet spots! 

If you’re unsure where you prefer stimulation, the best way to figure it out is to try new things and experiment! Here are some of our NEW toys that are perfect for beginners or experienced users alike! 

TooTimid Essentials Bundle 

The Real Deal 

This small 4” dildo is the perfect place to start if you’re looking to try a realistic, penis-shaped toy. This clear toy is non-intimidating and features lifelike details that will feel like the real deal! It even has a suction cup base that you can stick to any flat surface and enjoy hands-free pleasure!

The Real Deal Dildo

Silicone Finger Vibrator

This is a versatile vibe that provides you with incredible clitoral stimulation. The smooth silicone finish will feel amazing on your skin! It’s hypoallergenic and perfect for sensitive skin so you can enjoy worry-free pleasure!



Frisky Finger Vibe

Our best-selling frisky finger vibrator is now available in rechargeable form! It’s a small, discreet, and quiet clit stimulator that you can use on your own or with your partner! Use it during your next solo play session to stimulate your G-Spot, clit, or backdoor!

Frisky Finger Vibe

#1 Best-Selling Vibrating Silver Bullet

A vibrating bullet is always a safe place to start if you’re a beginner and not sure which type of toy you want! It features a multi-speed dial so you can determine how strong you want the vibrations to be! Use it with your partner to buzz his balls during foreplay or use it during solo play. Gently press this bullet on any spot on your body that feels good to stimulate– the possibilities are endless!


Just Like Oral

This petite vibrator provides you with a flickering tongue motion that mimics the feeling of oral! The soft silicone cup will surround your clit & send you into an orgasmic bliss! This rechargeable toy is enveloped in silky smooth silicone that feels luxurious on your skin.

Just Like Oral


This non-intimidating anal plug is available in three different sizes - small, medium, and large, so you can pick the best one whether you’re a beginner, advanced, or intermediate user! It’s a slender shape that is designed with a tapered tip for comfortable insertion. The slim body tapers to a flared suction cup base to keep it in place and provide you with a worry-free backdoor play. Try inserting one into your anus with plenty of lube and playing with your clit or g-spot at the same time for the ultimate orgasmic experience!

Bootylicious Anal Plug

We hope that this information has started you down the right path to finding your favorite kinds of toys. Pleasure comes in all shapes, sizes and sensations, so patience is key when you’re finding out what works best for you. Lube is also an essential when it comes to penetrative toys, so make sure you have plenty on hand to make your masturbation sessions more comfortable and enjoyable. Check out our Sex Ed page for more ideas on where to take your sexual adventures next!


  • Karla

    Can some teach me how to have sex

  • Karla

    Can some teach me how to have sex

  • Lilly Castelli

    I wanted to know how should I care for my rechargeable toy? What I would like to know is how often should I charge? Should it dies first then charge? Charge before it dies?

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