How To Pick A Toy For Him
Chances are if you are a woman you have never really thought about getting a sexual enhancement product for your man. Sure, maybe you have thought about including your own toys in play, or have thought about getting a blindfold or a restraint for both of you, but what about for him? If you want to pick up a little sexy something for him, how do you choose? Heck, where do you even begin? Here’s some helpful advice for picking out a toy for him.
THINK LIKE A MAN – YOUR MAN
Easier said than done I know, but in order to pick out a toy for your lover you need to not only think like a man, but like YOUR man in particular. This means understanding that the way men and women view sex is vastly different. Men are largely visual – this means they get aroused by visual stimuli more than a woman does. So, the item that you choose should appeal to that side of him, especially if he has a preference of body part, i.e. is he an ass man, a pussy man or a boob man? Why is this important? Well, there are many masturbation sleeves that look like mouths, vaginas, boobs, feet or anal entrances. So, if you know your man loves your vagina, then picking out a vaginal replica may be the best option. If, however, he seems to have no strong opinion, picking out a plain one would be fine as well.
However, you do need to know a bit about what kinds of stimulation your lover enjoys. Does it take him a long time to climax? Does he prefer just the tip of his shaft caressed? Does he need a firmer touch? Realizing these details can help you to pick out an item that is tighter, looser, or even textured. IF you want to get an item that he will use and enjoy, it is important to consider these things before getting a toy that is super tight and textured for a man who much prefers a gentle touch.
Similarly, masturbation gels or creams can be a fun thing to give him, but if he doesn’t like anything cold, then a cooling gel may not work out well. The idea here is to think like your man while you are shopping.
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KNOWING HIS BOUNDARIES
Masturbators are not the only items that are available for men – there are also prostate massagers. Prostate massagers go into HIS anal canal and push on his prostate while you give him oral sex or a hand job. Many men find the orgasm that they have when using a prostate massager to be extremely powerful. However, some men have a strong opinion about ANYTHING going up their rear end. If this is one of your man’s limitations, then do not buy him a toy he will likely never use and may question why you bought it in the first place. Of course, some men do not voice their boundaries, in which case you may have to speculate about his possible enjoyment of the item.
With some items – like masturbators, cock rings or penis pumps – the size of your man’s penis DOES matter – a lot. Cock rings and penis pumps in particular pose a challenge when fitting because if your man is gifted in the length department, let’s say 6 inches or more erect, then some of the standard penis pumps are NOT going to work for him. There is sizing included on these items for a reason. You do not want to have your man experiencing pain because his penis is too large for the item you have purchased! Similarly, cock rings are meant to go around his shaft and balls. If he has more girth than a standard guy you want to make sure that the ring you choose will fit around him comfortably (or, if he is not that large around, you do not want the ring to fall off!) Some cock ring sets come in 3 different sizes, and this man be the way to go.
Finally, it is fun to try new things and sometimes the way we try new things is when someone introduces us to them. So, in this instance, maybe your man has not tried a masturbation sleeve, a Cock Ring or a prostate massager before, but he hasn’t voiced any issues with any of those items. So, it may be fun to try something completely different like a Realistic Stroker! These masturbators look very much like a real woman and contain more than just the vaginal hole – they usually have buttocks or even a full torso! If you are going to buy him something to play with, why not appeal to all his senses? If he has never tried anal stimulation, why not surprise him with a Prostate Massager and show him just how good anal sex can be! Find something for him that you think looks fun or sexy and you both can experience it together.
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