Putting The LOVE Into Lovemaking

While sex and love do not always go hand-in-hand, more often than not it certainly is an activity shared between two people who love each other. During sex, or lovemaking, there are certain things you can do with your partner that will show them that the act of sex is more about love than just, well, sex! So, if you want there to be no doubt that you are making love, try these 5 simple tricks and your partner will have the love glow!

LONGING LOOKS
When you lock eyes with your partner there is a certain extreme intimacy that happens. We are acknowledging that we are making love to the person whose eyes we are staring into. While many people choose to close their eyes - especially when nearing orgasm - it is nice to look at your partner. The eyes are the windows to the soul and looking at one another while having sex changes the dynamic to one of deep intimacy.

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CAREFUL CARESSES
There is a certain amount of touching that goes on during sex, that is for sure. However, certain caresses convey a more loving touch as opposed to simply a sexual one. Stroking your partner's hair or rubbing the nape of their neck while you are in mid-sex is extremely powerful. Similarly stroking their face, during kissing or lovemaking, is another way to say, "I see you" without saying the words. Gentle, purposeful touches and caresses all over the body that are gentle and loving - as opposed to heated and needy - go a long way toward conveying love.

NAME CALLING
I know it may seem a bit cliche, but hearing your lover say your name during sex (or even better, during orgasm) is extremely intimate! It is an acknowledgement that all the pleasure he or she is having is due to YOU and the saying of the name just cements the notion that this intimate act is being shared, knowingly, with you. Just make sure you ALWAYS say the right name - or it will go quickly from intimate and loving to, well, angry.

SEXUALLY GENEROUS
It should be sort of common sense that when you are sexually generous to your partner it shows a deep commitment to their pleasure and happiness. When we give of ourselves sexually and allow our partner to immerse themselves in the act of sex, giving them pleasure and holding out on our own, this shows that we care about their experience over our own. This is an extremely unselfish, and therefore, loving way to communicate during sex.

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SEDUCTIVE WHISPERS
What is probably the best way to show your lover that you love them? TELL THEM! Yes! It is not too cheesy to combine all of the above techniques, to look them directly into their eyes while you are making love and whisper, "I love you so much" This is sure to get a very positive reaction from them as well as make the rest of your sexual session super explosive!

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