7 Signs You May Be Bad At Eating Her Out
Oral sex is one of the most important foreplay activities for women. In fact, it may be the only chance a woman has to orgasm during a sexual encounter, so if you are not doing it well, she may not be having an orgasm. How sad! How do you know if your oral sex technique is not pleasing? Here are some cues that you do not have what it takes to pleasure her orally.
1. SHE DOESN’T WANT YOU TO EAT HER OUT
Hello men, here is an announcement: WOMEN love oral sex! They absolutely love it – so if she is not pushing your head down there, not hinting that she needs some oral loving, or always moves right to sex, she is not liking what you have to offer.
2. SHE IS OVER-COACHING YOU
It is perfectly OK when a woman gives you a bit of direction as knowing how to pleasure her is very important, however, if she is constantly telling you where to touch, how fast to touch, what to do, when to do it to the point where she is talking more than moaning, well, you may not be very good at it.
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3. SHE HELPS HERSELF ALONG TOO MUCH
It is super sexy when a woman fingers herself and it is also just as sexy when she does it while you are eating her out, but if she is pushing you out of the way to finger herself this is a cue that she can do it better herself, and this is not good for you.
4. SHE STOPS MOVING OR MOANING
A tell-tale sign that a woman is enjoying oral sex is that she moves and grinds herself against his face while moaning and making breathless little noises. So, if this is not happening and she is quiet and not really participating, well, this may mean she is not enjoying what you are doing. Laying still during oral sex is ALWAYS a bad sign.
5. SHE GIVES UP
Most women are NOT going to stop you unless they have climaxed, so if you have only been going down on her for a few minutes and she moves on to something else, this is a sign that you are not delivering in the oral category. Sure, sometimes women get so excited they want to move on to sex, but if this happens too much and it seems like you are never really down there long, well, she doesn’t want you to be and that is BAD.
6. SHE IS IN PAIN
Oral sex often includes some semblance of fingering, sucking and licking and there are opportunities for there to be pain. Uncut fingernails grazing her insides, or too many fingers thrust deeply inside of her without warning, or even a too hard nibble on her sensitive lady bits can cause pain and erase all the pleasure. If you notice she seems to be in pain then check your technique – and your fingernails!
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7. SHE FAKES ORGASM
We all know that women fake orgasm and one of the reasons that a woman will fake an orgasm is that what is being done to them is not pleasing or they know that it will not lead to orgasm. You should be able to tell if your woman is faking her big O, and if you know that she is, and want her to have a real orgasm next time, you may want to inquire about what you are doing wrong.
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