How to Surprise Him Sexually

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Photo of a woman in sexy black lingerie garters.

Don’t we all love surprises? Sure we do, and what is better than a sexual surprise? Males love surprises and they especially love it when their partners think of sexy surprises to give them. There is something UBER hot about a partner who knows how to tickle their lover’s fancy with a super sexy surprise. Need some ideas? Then read on!

1. Toss On That Lingerie

Men are typically very visual creatures, so putting on some lingerie will get him going. Even if he loves you in your baggie pjs, I guarantee he will love you more in a corset or a sheer teddy! Lingerie is a fun and sexy surprise that shows your guy that you are taking an interest in seducing him.

Forget about your love handles or that cellulite on your thighs, I promise he doesn't care about any of that. Just wrap it up in something super sexy and watch his eyes take you in with delight! Get out of your comfort zone here – find something naughty and trashy – or something that makes you feel sexy! Crotchless lingerie is always a good way to go, so keep that in mind if you're searching for new lingerie to buy.

2. Plan A Sexy Activity

Men love to feel wanted, just like women do, so when you plan a little sexy surprise activity they really love it! Prepare your bedroom with some candles and sexy music, put on the aforementioned lingerie and take all the prepping steps to make yourself feel super sexy.

Then find something new and different that he can “walk into” in the bedroom. Perhaps you are waiting with a blindfold or some light restraints, maybe you are going to slowly take off his clothes and give him a killer BJ, or maybe it is time to play some strip scrabble! Make it fun, make it sexy, make it tonight!

3. Masturbation Station

Have you ever given your man a little sex show? You know, played with yourself with a sex toy or your fingers while he watches? Most men will absolutely love watching you self pleasure. A great surprise is to tell your man to sit back and enjoy while you pleasure yourself!

It will get both of you SUPER hot, it will teach him how to pleasure you, and it will be insanely sexy for both of you! Especially if you have never done this – talk about surprise! Eventually he can start masturbating too and you can have a sexy mutual masturbation session.

4. Enticing Entrees

If you have never surprised your lover with a romantic dinner that you serve to him naked (or nearly naked) then this is a must do! Make him his favorite food, buy his favorite beer, tell him to be home on time for dinner and meet him at the door naked (or in lingerie) beer in hand.

Serve him his food while you sit, seductively, in your naked or nearly naked state. Eat together and turn on the seduction to full blast. Then, once dinner is over, climb on the table in front of him and offer him dessert! I am not kidding ladies; this is one sexy surprise that any man would take seconds on.

5. Surprise Blowjob

Giving your lover a surprise blowjob, is always - ALWAYS - going to be a winner. For most couples it is rare to just have an oral sex session out of nowhere and not have it turn to sex. So, surprise him with a blowjob to completion.

It can be anywhere. While he's playing video games, while he's watching TV or make it really dirty by pulling down his pants while he's in a conference call at work. He will be surprised and insanely turned on, and I promise this will lead to something good for you too. He'll be so turned on by the random act of oral that most likely it'll be reciprocated.

6. Toys For Him

Whether you know it or not, your man masturbates. He masturbates even if you have a great sex life. So, a really nice surprise that he can use with – or without you – is a masturbation sleeve. These masturbatory devices will give him a whole, new experience the next time he needs to rub one out. Any of these items will be fun to watch him use, or you can take it up a notch and use the toy on him.

7. Toys To Share

Following up with the last suggestion, a great way to surprise him is with a sex toy that you can both use together. There are lots of options here. You could buy a cock ring that is created to give you both pleasure. You could grab a vibrating bullet that can really be used anywhere on the body to tease your lover. Or another sexy option is to buy a set of vibrating panties, put them on and hand him the controller so he can control your pleasure.

8. Give Him An Erotic Massage

Another great idea to surprise him sexually is to give him an erotic massage. With this one, you can tie in some of the other ideas I've given. Set the mood, light the candles, put on a sexy outfit and turn on your favorite sex playlist. Then lead him into the room and slowly take his clothes off. Grab your bottle of erotic massage oil and slowly massage him, first without touching his genitals. Over time you'll want to slowly get closer and closer to his member, but just tease him and make him beg for it. Then grab some lube and slowly give him the sexiest hand job he's ever had. From there, you can take the night anywhere you want to.

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