5 Blowjob Tips From Sex Professionals

When you want expert advice on any subject from cooking to sex, where do you turn? A professional of course! In the land of sex, who constitutes a “professional?” In some ways I would count myself as one, as I have dedicated many years of my life to learning about pleasure and trying to perfect the art of oral sex! However, there are other “professionals” out there such as porn stars, sexual therapists, or even sex educators like myself! So, in the interest of being efficient, I have read and summarized some of the best tips from these sources and compiled them right here for you! ENJOY!

1. TOUCH BEFORE YOU LICK
According to Sean Jameson (a male) of Bad Girls Bible, the first thing any good blowjob giver does is to TOUCH the penis first. This means sexy, light, little teases with your fingertips up and down his shaft. Smooth caresses on his balls and inner thighs. Followed by the tiniest flutter on the tip of his penis and under the glans (the head). These little foreplay touches will have his whole body on fire waiting for you to put him in your mouth!

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2. THE WETTER THE BETTER
On the popular online magazine, Hello Beautiful, their “self-proclaimed non-professional” reminds us that a dry BJ is a painful BJ. Make sure you have plenty of spit or get something to wet your whistle because you don’t want to “start a bonfire on his package!” This is so very important! If you do not have enough lubrication any motion you make with your hands is going to stick and not slide, therefore causing a very uncomfortable sensation for him! Keep it wet ladies – the wetter the better.

3. THE “EYES” HAVE IT
Porn star Belle Knox, who also happens to be a Duke University grad, totes the secret to her blowjob success: eye contact! While all the other little tips and tricks are very useful, she states that what makes a fantastic and memorable blowjob is looking up at him and making sexy, sultry, erotic eye contact as you take his penis into your mouth! Holy crap, I think I just had a little orgasm just thinking about that moment!

4. YOU GOTTA SUCK
Famous sex therapist Dr. Ruth, a cute older lady with an adorable accent and blunt advice, has been talking about giving good head for years! One of the best pieces of advice (or tips) she has ever given on the realm of the BJ is that you “can’t lick it like a lollipop, you have to suck it like a cock!” She suggests not being shy, sticking his penis into your mouth and sucking so he can feel it without trying to suck it off his body! In short, make sure that you have some sucking action along with all the other sensations.

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5. HANDS ON
OK, this one is from me because, well, because I hear I give one fantastic blowjob! Even though a blowjob does involve a good deal of mouth and tongue action, it is very, very important to use your hands. Not only do you need to use your hands, but you need to use your hands RIGHT. This means getting the grip just so (not too tight, not too loose), stroking him in a way that gets him off (I suggest the stroke and twist – where you turn your hand around on his penis as you work up from bottom to top), and making him feel like every inch of his penis is being licked, caressed and stroked all at one. Yup, gotta get that hand play in there ladies or it will just be a mediocre BJ!

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