5 Kinds Of Bondage Restraints For Lovers

What do you think of when you think BONDAGE? Handcuffs? Sex swings? Full body latex sex suits? Maybe you have no idea what actually is involved in bondage or what BDSM gear looks like. With the recent interest in bondage with the ever popular 50 Shades books and movies, more and more couples are deciding that they want to experiment with bondage, but they really have no idea how to go about the restraining portion. Some couples are a bit apprehensive and don’t like the idea of a full-on restraint system, while others want to dive right in. So, what are some types of bondage restraints for lovers?


1. ROPE
Probably one of the most versatile restraint types would be rope. I am not talking about that rough yellow rope you can get by the yard at the local hardware store, no that would be very, very OUCHIE. I am talking about bondage rope. Bondage rope is different because it is made from a soft polyester (or even cotton blend) so that it is soft, pliable and will not give you that rope burn that most people associate with rope. So, bondage rope is available in a variety of lengths and colors and it is so versatile because you can do a lot of tying – or a little bit – and simply enjoy experimenting. Just remember, never tie too tightly, make sure the restrained person can feel their limbs, and always have a pair of scissors around in case you need to make an emergency cut.

Tie your lover up and fulfill your most erotic sexual fantasies with this erotic Bondage Rope kit! You get over 30 feet of soft rope that you can use to play in any kinky way. It makes the perfect addition to BDSM and bondage sex. Its strong cotton fibers won't break or tear for comfortable and secure restraining. You can cut the rope and use to bind your arms and legs in a variety of sexy ways!



2. PLEASURE TAPE
Again, the word ‘tape’ probably makes you think of duct tape like you would find at the Home Depot, but pleasure tape is so a tape of a different…well, it is different. Pleasure tape is very convenient for those “spur of the moment” bondage times. The wonderful thing about bondage tape is that it only sticks to itself! This means it will not rip your skin or hair off when you remove it! Oooohhh, how cool is that! Bondage tape is a little less intimidating than rope and it can be used in a variety of ways. You can twist it and make it like rope, simply use it like tape, wrap certain parts of the body together (like ankles or wrists) or you can even use it to cover up parts of the body such as nipples (you have seen those Xs on women modeling lingerie, right?)

Take total control over your lover with this Bondage Pleasure Tape! It only sticks to itself, so you never have to worry about it pulling at your skin or hair! You get 50 feet of kinky black tape to use on your partner in the bedroom. It is ideal for erotic bondage and BDSM or you can use it to create unique nipple pasties or other cover ups!



3. SOFT CUFFS
Unlike standard police handcuffs, which are metal and can seriously dig into your skin (trust me, I have had that experience more than once in the bedroom before soft cuffs were invented) soft cuffs are, well, SOFT. They are often padded and extremely comfortable. A majority of the cuffs come with little clasps so that you can clasp them together, clasp them to other cuffs, or clasp them to other restraint systems. The reason soft cuffs are a nice way to start with bondage is because they are not intimidating and can provide a nice Segway into bondage.

Get as rough as you like with these Intimate Love Cuffs! They are great for beginners and intermediate couples who love bondage gear! They are soft and comfortable to wear and size adjustable to fit most wrists. Connecting the cuffs is a detachable chain to make removal easy. So, fulfill your intimate fantasies with these non-irritating love cuffs!



4. RESTRAINT SYSTEMS
Once you have decided that you like the soft cuff restraints it is a good idea to advance up to a restraint system. There are SO many different types of restraint systems that you can literally find anything possible to attach your cuffs to. There are under the bed restraints, where you can have your wrists and ankles tied at the same time. Some restraint systems are designed to place the restrained person in a specific position, such as hogtied (both hands and feet tied together behind the back), or feet tied behind the head, or even a spider web set up for adjustable ties. Restraint systems add a tremendous amount of variety to bondage and often can be used in more than one way. A great investment for couples interested in bondage.

Get the hardcore bondage experience you've always dreamed with the Ultimate Bed Bondage System! It comes with 4 cuffs and size-adjustable tethers so you can turn your mattress into an erotic 4-point bondage station. Bind your partner's wrists and ankles and show them the most intense pleasure they have ever known! The cuffs easily detach from the tethers and are Velcro to comfortably fit most.



5. SPREADER BARS
Finally we have the spreader bar. In the second 50 Shades of Gray movie a spreader bar made a very interesting appearance. A spreader bar has cuffs attached to either end where, usually, the ankles are cuffed and it “spreads” the feet apart on the bar. You can use a spreader bar to attach the wrists as well, and the bar can be suspended for different options. Spreader bars are a more serious type of restraint because they are very immobilizing and are not flexible at all (some restraint systems have a bit of wiggle room). However, spreader bars can really bring a new level of bondage excitement to a couple and they can experiment with all the ways to use a spreader bar!


For more advanced bondage play, you need this erotic Bondage Spreader Bar! You get 4 adjustable, Velcro cuffs and an adjustable collar attached to two separate bars so you can completely submit to the whims of your lover. The cuffs easily detach from the bar when you are ready to be freed. Spread 'em and leave yourself wide open for your partner to fulfill your naughtiest sexual fantasies!



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