Blowjob Etiquette: Best Fellatio Prep Tips to Consider!

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If you have found yourself a little nervous about receiving a blowjob and want to make sure you are doing everything right, then you are in the right place! Here are the top prep tips, and other things to keep in mind to bring for a great fellatio experience!

Cleanse Yourself

Take a shower or wash yourself as best you are able to (if you only have access to a sink) before your next blowjob. MANY people find the smell of their partner's private areas to be intoxicating. Unless your partner has expressed this to you, it's a good rule of thumb to simply cleanse yourself prior to receiving oral sex.

Do you prefer trimmed, bald or grown out?

We all have personal preferences and there is no right or wrong way to go about how we like to keep ourselves and how we prefer our partner's bodyscaping to be. If you are in a trusting sexual relationship with your partner, don't be too shy to ask your partner if they have a preference.

Nervous About Gagging? Focus on the tip!

When giving a blowjob, it is very common to experience some type of gagging. First, you do NOT have to be able to deepthroat to perform a great blowjob! It's important that you feel comfortable. Focus on massaging the tip of your partner's penis with your lips and tongue. If you are new to giving oral, go slow. Swirl your tongue around it. Lick the underside and flick your tongue around on it. Suck it in with some suction power. Experiment with just getting used to putting it in your mouth and pay attention to your partner's responses to see what they enjoy.

Use your hands

If you are prone to gagging, and you want to stop, then let your hands help! If you slick up your hands with spit and slide them around the penis while you are sucking and licking the head, you will give your partner more stimulation!

If you are giving, only go down further slowly.

Find a position that is comfortable for you to be able to take in a little more of your partner's penis into your mouth. Then retract. Do not force yourself to really take it in, just go slowly and get used to how it feels sliding in and out of your mouth. If you find yourself gagging or uncomfortable, just go back to focusing on the head of the penis!

Try a flavored blowjob product.

There are so many creams, gels, lubricants, and more available to try using during your next blowjob.

NEVER push your partner's head down.

Unless you both have discussed this, and consented to it ahead of time, be sure to never grab your partner's head to push your penis in further.

Let your partner know you are enjoying it!

It can be incredibly hot knowing you are turning your partner on. Little bits of feedback in deep breaths, moans, or just telling them it feels good can bring the two of you closer together.

Don't time yourself

Just focus on your partner's mouth and your own pleasure. If you finish quickly, don't worry about it!

Tell them when you're about to cum

If you are about to orgasm, letting your partner know will encourage your partner to continue doing whatever rhythm or trick they are doing that you enjoy that is bringing you to climax.

Do you ask to spit, swallow, or what?

We encourage couples to communicate with each other completely prior to consenting to any sort of sex, but sometimes you aren't sure how to ask. If you aren't sure what your partner would prefer to do when you are ready to cum, try to ask them by using it as dirty talk. Try saying something like, "You are so good, you're going to make me come. Where do you want me to come?"

Recommended Product: Deep Throat Spray
Bottle of green deep throat spray for numbing throat before oral sex

 

Leave your blowjob prep tips and tricks below to help others!


13 comments


  • Shorty

    Yes I enjoy giving blowjobs. I’ve learned a lot. I like pleasing a man


  • Liz

    I love making my husband feel that attention to please him.
    He does the same for me.


  • Cjstebelton

    I love satisfying my man with a blow job! Your tips help out tremendously! Thank you


  • Bernhard

    I love it I learn a lot


  • Lori

    I absolutely love giving my husband a blowjob! It turns me on even more to know I’m making him feel so good!


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