3 Oral Techniques For Vaginas That Never Fail

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Oral sex is a quintessential activity for all couples. It is highly pleasurable, extremely intimate, and provides mind blowing orgasms. In fact, for upwards of 80% of vagina-owners, this may be the only activity that will render an orgasm during a sexual encounter!

So, you had better pick techniques that are sure to please. While not everything works the same for every person, there are certain things that are the “go-tos” when it comes to oral pleasure. Here are the 3 oral techniques that you can do on your partner that won’t fail you when you need to please!

1. Clitoral Concentration

If there is ONE area on the vaginal area that you need to make absolutely sure to give attention to it is the CLITORIS! This is the most sensitive part of the body and it is responsible for most of the sexual gratification someone can have. So, you have to make sure you concentrate on this area.

While there are different strokes for different folks – meaning not all like the same pace or pressure – one technique that seems to be universally pleasing is to flick your tongue on the clitoris either up and down or back and forth. This provides direct stimulation to the clit and you can change the pace and pressure to your partner's preference. You should be able to feel the clitoris engorging as stimulation heightens and this is your cue that you are doing good! Whatever else you do during oral, this is a must-do technique!

2. Lick The Labia

Underneath the very sensitive clitoris are the vaginal lips – the labia. There are inner lips and outer lips. The inner lips frame the vaginal canal and are very sensitive. During oral sex it is IMPERATIVE that you not ignore the labial lips! You should suck on them gently, use your tongue to lick then, and use your fingers to massage them.

Alternating between these actions with the above mentioned clitoral attentions and your partner is going to experience a new type of stimulation. This can make your partner extremely wet and slippery, making it easy for your tongue or fingers to caress your partner intimately and pleasurably!

3. After Following The Above Steps, Incorporate Insertion

When someone has the one-two combo of external stimulation (via your tongue and fingers as mentioned above) AND internal stimulation (via a toy or your fingers) they are more likely to have a powerful orgasm! This is most likely what your partner wants.

So, while you are doing the above techniques also employ some internal stimulation. You can do this via your finger(s) or a toy (like a vibrator or dildo)!

Then you continue on with your tongue flicking and vaginal massaging while stimulating internally with your fingers or toy, your partner is sure to explode around you in a breathless, sweaty, moaning, exhaustive orgasm!

Leave your oral tips in a comment below! Your comment could help others!


  • Eric Capitao

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  • Ry

    Slide your hands under her to squeeze and massage the butt while holding her to you, then just keep doing her favorite thing with your mouth (you can tell by reaction or just ask her) like nothing in the world matters but her pleasure.

  • John

    I use several methods, including direct licking of her clit. I do take all of both labia into my mouth and lick up and down between the lips while sucking on the labia.

  • Michael J Balke


    How does someone both suck (needs suction) and moves the tip of her/his tongue at the same time? Wouldn’t moving the tip of the tongue negatively impact the vacuum of the sucking?


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