Making Love Vs. Fucking

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Ah, a sex question that is asked over and over - is there a difference between fucking and making love? The easy answer is: yes. The honest answer is: it depends. The complicated answer is: it depends on the partner and the feelings involved. The truth is, it takes more than a few sentences to answer this question. So, let's delve in, shall we?

 

For most people, "fucking" connotes sex with some sort of vigor, aggression, or lack of emotion. However, the word itself is simply a more vulgar word for "sex". Think of it like a hot one-night stand.

 

For the same people who define fucking as "sex without love", making love is defined as "sex with love". Hence the name: MAKING love. It is the gentler version and is seen as sweet and romantic and, well, loving and intimate. So, can fucking ever be making love or can making love be fucking? Yes! It all depends on your opinion, there’s nothing wrong with either!

 

Okay, so, let's start with the simplest understanding of fucking. If you meet someone at the bar, you both get drunk together and end up in the car fumbling to get clothing off, stumbling through sex, and going your separate ways after. Down and dirty no-muss-no-fuss sex. Fucking. Pretty different than making love by anyone's definition. Agreed?

 

Now, the reverse of this could be described as the kind of sex where you stare longingly into your lover's eyes, whisper "I love you" while you slowly slide into them, taking your time with their body, followed by an emotionally-attached orgasm and lots of cuddling after. In other words, passionate and intimate sex. Does this mean that "making love" is boring sex and "fucking" is exciting? No way.

 

I am a firm believer that if you are having sex with someone whom you care about, you can FUCK them or you can MAKE LOVE to them and you can go flawlessly in between! That the "love" between you is always present in the act of sex, even if you are going at it hard and talking dirty.

 

Imagine this scenario: You and your long-term partner go away for a romantic weekend at a lovely hotel. You drink some wine and decide to take a nice bath together. You soak together, lathering each other up, talking about how much you love one another and things transition into a nice, slow session of sex. Making love, right? Sure. So, let's say later this same night, you look across the room and see them in the sexy little outfit they packed for the occasion. You go over, grab them forcefully and whisper, "I want to fuck you so badly" into their ear. What follows is very acrobatic sex that runs the gamut from oral to anal and everything in between! When it is over, both sweaty and tired, you cuddle, whisper “I love you,” and fall asleep in each other's arms.

Fucking. Definitely fucking. Yet, still making love too, right? So what is the moral here? You CAN fuck someone who you love, and fucking can also be making love.

 

So, then, can you make love to someone who you do not love? I would say yes. Love or not, you can still have intimate and emotionally-driven sex with a partner. If what’s getting you off is deeper than the actual physical actions happening, why can’t it be considered making love if the energy is there? That’s up to you.

 

Now go and get your fuck on - or make love - or have sex! Happy orgasming!

Love-Making Or Fucking? Which Do You Prefer?


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  • Karen oHora

    Waiting for a refund. My friend is not satisfied.
    Thank You,
    Karen OHora


  • Fun4her +me!

    To begin, vengeful words will always be remembered! The day my divorce was final after 10 years of marriage, thinking I married a tight end but ended up with a wide receiver – no pun intended, I told my ex looking right into her sorry face – “I didn’t know how many times she had sex with her ex, but I was glad I finally caught her in the act and doing a 69 no less!” A friend of mine told me that it was like a revolving door at our former house during our separation – so that day I told my ex, I had fun fucking and pissing on a slutty whore for 10 years, (yeah I had given her Golden Showers) and I turned and walked away. Today we are sworn enemies! My current wife we are in love so we make love. 15 years of marriage we never asked each other if we want to have sex, we always asked if we want to make love, no matter what kinky stuff we did together, it was always about LOVE!


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