While fantasies are individual and particular to each person, not every man will have the same sexual interests, there are some more common fantasies that seem to be more popular among men.
1. THREESOME OR MORESOME
While this may be cliché, and sort of obvious, the truth is a lot of men (whether he admits it or not) has the fantasy about being with more than one woman or man at the same time. It is just common sense, really, if one person is sexy and beautiful TWO can be twice as sexy, right? Not to mention the idea of 2 people getting it on with each other AND him at the same time – well, that can sound like a lot of fun!
2. BEING DOMINANT
What man wouldn’t want to have complete and utter control over their partner in a sexual capacity? Being able to dominate their partner via bondage or any other method to acquire and maintain sexual dominance is a huge fantasy for many people. This fantasy can take on many different levels from simply pinning down their partner to full on restraint systems. Some want a little control – some want a lot. This is where the fantasy takes on different forms for different couples, as it also depends on just what your partner is wants to do.
3. BONDAGE / BEING DOMINATED
The idea of you being the Dominating partner for the evening can be equally as exciting as being the one doing the Dominating. In fact, many love to be the submissive partner because it gives them a chance to lie back and allow their partner to enjoy them.
4. ANAL PENETRATION ON HIM
While many have the fantasy of anally penetrating their partners, a good number of them also have the fantasy of being anally penetrated themselves. Whether this is just via finger or small butt plug OR the full-on fantasy of being penetrated by a partner donning a strap-on dildo, men are curious at very least about anal penetration. The fantasy is not always one that comes to light because many men feel that if they request anal penetration they may be seem as “homosexual” by their partner. For those who do not fall prey to this stigma, anal penetration can become a shifting fantasy, as they become more comfortable with the general idea and then realize the ultimate pleasure it provides.
5. KINKY SEX
Let’s term this final fantasy just “kinky sex” because it then can encompass a wide range of non-standard, non-“vanilla” activities. Men like variety, they crave excitement and wild sex. The fantasy of kinky sex can be as simple as having a blowjob in the car on a long ride to something more in-depth like public or outdoor sex. Some men fantasize about really kinky activities such as golden showers, ejaculating on their partner, extreme or intense bondage or any other less standard activity. It is important to list kinky sex as a fantasy because women want to know what their men craves, so being aware that kinky sex is a desire is a huge advantage to creating a well-rounded sex life!
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